Ewe kunjalo, indoda ethandekayo ilungele ukunyamezelana neentsilelo ezininzi zesiqingatha sakhe sesibini, kodwa abasetyhini kufuneka baphonononge indlela abaziphatha ngayo ukuba uqala ukuqaphela ukuba iqabane lakho alisonjululwanga ukwenza inyathelo elinzima kubudlelwane.
Anazi ukuba ukupheka njani
Namhlanje, abafazi akufuneki babe nobugcisa be-pusinary eklasini abapheki, kwaye nangona kunjalo, nayiphi na indoda iya kuba kuhle ukuba ubuncinci izihlandlo ezininzi inyanga iya kuphambuka izitya zakhe ezilungiselelwe wena. Kukho inani elikhulu leendlela zokupheka ezingabi nzima ukuphindaphinda, umzekelo, akufuneki ubhaka inkukhu ngemifuno okanye ulungise irayisi nge-riefood. Indoda ayiyi kuhlala ingakhathalelwa kumfazi onokuqaqambisa ukuba ayingcungqelweni kuphela, kodwa nasekhitshini.
Uhlala ekhalaza
Vumelani, wena ungathandi xa umntu ebonakala ecaleni kobomi, kwaye ecinga ukuba uyazi ukuba yonke into embi kuye, kunye nobomi bakho. Iimvakalelo ezifanayo zinengxaki yokufumana indoda, ecaleni kwalo kukho umfazi owonelisekileyo, elungele ngaphandle kwekhefu lokuthulula into engakhiyo kuye. Ukuba kunzima kuwe ukugcina izimvo zakho ngokwakho, funa uncedo kwingcali eya kukunceda uphume kwimeko yoxinzelelo.
Uthelekisa indoda enabangaphambili
Kuba indoda ayikho imbi kunokuqonda ukuba iphulukane namanye amadoda emehlweni omfazi wakhe amthandayo. Izikhumbuzo ezingapheliyo malunga nexesha elichithwe kakuhle neqabane lakho elidlulileyo, kwaye ukuba ukukorikisa njani kwezi meko kuya kukhokelela kwingxabano enzulu nge-teracrels enezaphulelo. Nokuba ubudlelwane bakho bangaphambili bebuhle ngokwenene, akufanele uxele kwiqabane lakho lokwenyani, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akukho mfuneko yokuthelekisa nothando lwakho lwangaphambili.
Ulawulo oluqhubekayo
I-SMS-ki qho kwimizuzu elishumi malunga nesicatshulwa: "Unjani?", "Uphi?", "Uya kuza nini?" Ungarhoxisa nabani na. Ukuba uyazi ngqo ukuba indoda yakho ihambe kwishishini okanye intlanganiso kunye nabahlobo, akufuneki ulale ngefowuni kwaye umhle (kwimbono yakho) imiyalezo. Ngale ndlela, awuyi kufezekisa ngaphandle kwempendulo engeyiyo ukusuka kwinxalenye yayo kwaye umnqweno wokuphepha ukuya kuthi ga ngoku.