Ukwahlula kuyinxalenye yobomi bethu. Zinokwenzeka ngamanye amaxesha. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, olu luxinzelelo olukhulu, ngaphandle komthunzi ombi, iifom zethu. Ungayenza njani?
Enye yemithetho ephambili: Qonda ukuba ixesha alisabuyisa.
Akukho sidingo sokunamathela kwiinkumbulo. Ulwalamano lwaphela, kwaye le yinto ekufuneka uyenzile, makube nzima. Vumela uluvo lokuba lo mntu akasekho ebomini bakho, okuthetha ukuba kufuneka umyeke. Kukho iimeko apho, emva kwexesha, owayesakuba ngamaqabane atshintsha kwaye wahlaziya ubudlelwane kwakhona, kodwa ngaba sele bengabanye abantu, hayi abo babekho ngaphambili. Qaphela ukuba kwindawo yangoku oyikekayo sobabini awuzange ube nolunye uphume. Vumela ukuba umntu owuthandayo asimahla ukuba unentlonipho encinci ngobuntu bakhe.
Qonda ukuba ixesha alisabuyiswa
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Isiselo sokucinezela iingcinga
Okubangela umdla kukuba, kukho ingozi ngakumbi kuthi hayi imeko njengeengcinga ezimbi ezaziphembelela ngokuhamba kwexesha. Bazalekisa ukuphoxeka ebomini, baqalisa ukucela ukuba ekugqibeleni ichaphazele umgangatho wobomi. Cinga nje - i-90% ayithathi ntlungu yokwenene ukuba sikufuphi nomntu, kodwa iingcinga esiye kuthi thina ngoko kwaye sizinike zona. Isizathu sezi ngcinga zixhomekeke kubundlobongela kwaye bathuke iqabane lakhe. Uyakwazi, kunjalo, zama ukucima izimvo ezigwenxa ngezinto ozithandayo, kodwa eyona ndlela ithembekileyo kukuxolela umntu kwaye umnqwenelela ulonwabo kubudlelwane obutsha. Sukukholwa, kodwa ngale ndlela isebenza kakuhle.
Isiselo sokucinezela iingcinga
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Qaphela ilungelo lakho lonwabe
Inani elikhulu labantu abanentuthuzelo lilungiselelwe kwisikhundla sexhoba. Ngapha koko, kufanelekile - akukho mfuneko yokuthatha uxanduva ngobomi bakho. Ke ngoko, ngokufuthi siva ngokwamagqwetha kunye noogxa abadumileyo "Akukho mntu uyandithanda, andifuni mntu." Ukuziphatha okunjalo luphawu olucacileyo lwentsana. Ngomntu osempilweni ngengqondo akukho sizathu sokuziphatha okunjalo. Kuyimfuneko ukonwabela okwenzekayo apha kwaye ngoku - ngaphandle kokwahlukana. Udinga uvuyo kunye nolisandlalo. Cinga nje ngesibakala sokuba awunasizathu sibalulekileyo, ikho kuphela kwingqondo yakho, eneneni ungumntu okhulileyo, umntu ophilayo onayo yonke into ekonwabisayo ebomini. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kudibana nomntu kwakhona ongayi kubanika iingcinga ezimbi ukuba uzalwe entlokweni yakho.
Qaphela ilungelo lakho lonwabe
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