Ukwabelana ngesondo kusoloko kuluyolo lwamaqabane, kodwa yintoni omele uyenze ukuba indoda ingasakwazi ukunyamezela, kwaye awukwazi kuphumla, ngenxa yoko, uTom Joly Cawe. Siza kukuxelela indlela yokuphepha uxinzelelo ngaphambi kokuba isondele.
Cinga ukuba uyakufuna
Njengommiselo, ezona zikhalazo ziphambili ezivela kumadoda ziza xa ibhinqa lingafuni ukuba neqabane lihlala liqabane. Kule meko, akufuneki ukuba uhambe ngokwakho, ukwanelisa indoda, cinga ukuba ungabikho kwisondo? Ukuba lo mbandela unyamezele kwiqabane lakho elingaziqondi izizathu zokwala kwakho, thetha naye kwaye uchaze ukuba unzima kuwe ukuba uyonwabele xa bekunyanzelwa. Zama ukufumana ukulalanisa.
Uqonde
Ngelixa iqabane lingakufuphi, zama ukuphumla yedwa. Nguwe kuphela owaziyo ukuba umzimba wakho uphendula kwaye uyikhawuleze kangakanani ukuze anelise. Ukuba awunazo naziphi na iingxaki ngokulwaneliseka, kodwa ngesini esiqhelekileyo ayisoloko igudileyo, eyona ngxaki kubudlelwane bakho nendoda ekufuneka uyiqonde.
Thetha nendoda yakho
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Zama ukongeza ukuphakanyiswa ecaleni
Ngokuqinisekileyo zikho izinto owonwabileyo ukongeza kwiqabane elihle kufutshane. Ukuba awukwazi kuphumla ebusweni bakhe, mnike umntu omncinci owandisa intshabalalo yokonwabisayo ngayo. Sebenzisa ezinye iindlela ezinceda ukuba ufezekise isidanga esinqwenelekayo sokulungela isini kwaye ndikuxelele indoda malunga nabo ukuze ikhokele kuthando kwicala elifanelekileyo.
Akukho sidingo sokuhlala kwi-Orgasm
Ukuba uyekile ukufumana i-orgasm ngelixa isoba ngesondo nendoda yakho, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ubeneengxaki kwaye ungazikhathazi kakhulu-ayizukubhloka i-resptors eyimfuneko ngenxa yoxinzelelo okanye i-voltage efanelekileyo. Ingxaki inokusonjululwa kwi-ofisi ye-psychologist, apho ikufanele ukuba iqhubekiswe ukuba ukunqongophala kwe-orgasm kuqala ukuphembelela ubudlelwane bakho.