Nyana, kodwa akasi sibini! " -Iinyembezi emehlweni akhe, umama olandelayo ovela kwi-tikom yeTV malunga nobudlelwane bosapho ijonge nosana lwabo oneminyaka engama-30 ubudala. Kwaye nangona kubomi bamantombazana amantombazana aqhelekileyo, amantombazana azama ukudlula kwicala, kodwa kunye nemithetho yabanina nganye kuzo kungekudala okanye emva koko kufuneka udibane. Nokuba umntu uyakuxhasa kumzabalazo welungelo lokufumana ukuzithemba kukanina, ngokwakhe unokwenza ngathi uyinqaba engenakuphikiswa. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuchasene neSoviet yethu, akukho mntu umkhwekazi akayi kuma-kuya kufuneka athande njengendodazanatiletive.
Imfesane iyalawula uxolo
Akukho kubi kobunjani babantu-wonke umntu uya kuba ngenxa yobomi obuninzi. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ugwebe imikhwa kunye nokuziphatha kobuso bomntu kuwe, ade alixelela ibali lakhe. Umkhwa wokulondoloza kwiimveliso okanye ucime yonke indawo, ukukhanya kunokuthetha konke malunga neSeile dementia, kodwa malunga nomfazi onobuzaza osapho kunye nokunqongophala kwemali kwintsapho yakhe. Thetha nomphefumlo ndoda xa ikwimeko entle: ukuba lo mfazi ukwazini ukuba akhulise umntu ofanelekileyo, njengomyeni wakho, ngokuqinisekileyo unento yokwabelana nani. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bagcina amathambo anje ngeedayile, ethi, ukuba, uluvo lwaba bantu lutshintsha iDegrees eziyi-180.
Fumana i-hugging eqhelekileyo
Abantu baziva bekhululekile xa besenziwa baba ngamaqela, kwaye uninzi lwabantu abaninzi bokudibanisa - iimfuno ezifanayo. Ngaphandle kolutsha, unokuthanda nokubambisa ngomnqamlezo okanye ukhule imbewu okanye umkhwekazi wakho, ngokuchasene noko, uya kuzabalazela abantu abancinci-hamba i-goberble. Asinokwazi ukuba yintoni umama wakho umyeni wakho, kodwa uyakuqinisekisa ukuba kwanabantu abohlukeneyo bahlukeneyo baninzi. Yabelana ngamava akho omnye komnye, Nika uncedo-yonke le nto kukuhlanganisa.
Ungamgwebi umntu ude walazi ibali lakhe
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Sixelele malunga neemvakalelo zakho
Rhoqo, abantu abayiqondi ukuba zeziphi iingozi ezisebenza kuzo kwi-overs yazo ezingekho mthethweni kunye nokuziphatha. Abantu abakwiminyaka yobudala beli luvo lwemidango yakho, njengoko bekhuliswa ngokwabo kwiintsapho, apho i-odolo eqhelekileyo ilawula kude kube lixesha lamantombazana kwaye ngokoqobo idluliselwa ngezandla zomyeni wakhe. Akumangalisi ukuba emehlweni kanyoko-asindile kunye nolwalamano, umama ka-Mum avele intambo phakathi kobomi bakhe obuphilayo kunye nento yokuba isibini sakho siya kuba nabo. Yiza kwiti yakhe kwaye neliso kwiliso elithetha malunga nento oyikhethileyo: Ungaphakamisi izwi, ungayibonisi njengomzekelo. Sixelele ukuba uyawuxabisa umnqweno wakhe wokunceda, kodwa ufuna ukwakha ubomi bakho ngokwakho kwaye ufunde kwiimpazamo zakho. Yabelana ngonyana wakhe kwaye ufuna ezimbini kuwe kuphela, kodwa iingcebiso ezivela ecaleni kuphela ziingxabano. Sicinga ukuba uyakuqonda kwaye uza kuzama ukuthintelwa.
Inyathelo ndilinyathelo
Ukumisela naluphi na ulwalamano, ukuthatha inxaxheba koqoqosho kubalulekile. Yenza inyathelo lokuqala lokudibana kwaye ujonge ukuba i-reliliatory iya kulandela kwicala lomkhwekazi. Ukuba awusebenzi okokuqala, zama ezinye ezimbini, kodwa okwesithathu ukhupha zonke izithuko kwaye unciphise unxibelelwano ubuncinci. Awunyanzelekanga ukuba ukwakheke kwakhona komnye umntu kuphela ukuze umkholise. Phila ngovuyo nosapho lwam kwaye uthathe yonke imizamo yokutshabalalisa imbewu yakho imbewu. Ndikholelwe, lo mntu wakuqonda ubudenge bezenzo zakhe, nangona kunjalo, isimo sakho sengqondo awuyi kubuyiswa. Eyona nto iphambili kukuziphatha ngokwaneleyo kwaye ungayi phantsi ukukhwaza kunye nokuthuka.