"I-SO-S, i-Hairstyle ngolungelelwano, i-lipstick yathatha loo nto ndiyilibele ... oh ewe, imaski, imaski, iigloves kunye nesibulala-ntsholongwane!". Izinto ezinobunkunkqele zale matshi azilishiyi ithuba lokuthandana nalo lihamba idolophu, amaphulo okutyela kwii-cinema kunye nezinye iintlobo zemihla.
Akukho mntu unganyangekiyo kwimeko yangoku ehlabathini: abanye besoyikekayo, abanye benza sesi sizathu sokuhlekisa, owesithathu ubomi bobomi, kwaye ke uTikhonechko anqulwe ekuseni ngezinto ezigulayo.
Kodwa ngaphandle kokuvalwa koncedo lwamaziko, ukupheliswa kwemicimbi yobuninzi kunye nemitha yeevenkile zevenkile, iintliziyo zazo zonke izizwe zisafuna uthando.
Kutshanje, ndihlala ndicela kum: ukuba ndihambe ngomhla kunye nendoda kule meko yehlabathi "Lokntuna"? Kwaye ukuba uya, ke apho, ukuba yonke into ivaliwe - hlala nje kwimoto yakhe?
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba kungcono ukulinda kwaye uzive ukhuselekile kangangexesha elithile. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka uxhamle ukuphela kwendawo. Eli xesha unokusebenzisa eyona nto inokwenzeka ebomini bakho!
Ndikholelwe, nokuba kude nendoda kunokwenzeka ukuba utyale ulwalamano olufudumeleyo. Ndiza kukuxelela ukuba yeyiphi indlela yonxibelelwano enza impumelelo ngempumelelo ngenxa yokungakwazi ukuya kwimihla kwaye ubone ukuhlala. Ukongeza, ngesicelo esinobuchule, ezi zixhobo ziya kwenza ukuba umntu acinge ngakumbi ngawe kwaye ubale iintsuku ngaphambi kwentlanganiso yokuqala. Ngaphandle kwemaski!
Ukutsala kude kwaye ubambe indoda
Ukwahlukana ngokwasemzimbeni kwimbali kwakusoloko kungumqobo olusizi kwiintliziyo ezimbini ezinothando. Ukuba ukhumbule ixesha leeleta zephepha, ezingenakufika kwindawo oya kuyo, ke uyayiqonda loo nto imbalelwano kwangoko, iifowuni kunye neefowuni zixhasa ngempumelelo ukubakho konxibelelwano lwemihla ngemihla kunye nokwakha isiseko esomeleleyo sobudlelwane.
Konke okudingayo ukuze indoda emva kokuhlala imenze kumhla ophilayo, kuya kutsala umdla wakhe kuye kwi-Intanethi. Kwaye esi sixhobo siya kukunceda ngale nto:
-Ifoto. Vumela i-albhamu yakho ingaba yindoda yohlobo lwegalari yemifanekiso, enokujongwa yiwotshi. Sukuzisola ngeyona foto iphambili kwindawo eyahlukeneyo kunye nemifanekiso-eyona nto yayiphambili kukuba babekukhanya, bobufazi kunye nobuchule.
-Iifowuni kunye nemiyalezo yeaudiyo. Ndiyazi imizekelo xa uthando lwaqala ngelizwi! Le yinxalenye encinci yenu, eya kwenza umntu abuyele kwingcinga, ukuva izwi lakho. Kwaye le yenye yezona ndlela zichanekileyo ze-glamor: kancinci, ithowuni ehamba kancinci, ithole ithole, icombulula malunga nento emnandi.
-Ividiyo yonxibelelwano kunye neefowuni zevidiyo. Indlela entle yokubonisa ulwimi lwam lomzimba kunye nembono ekhuselekileyo yomhla (ngakumbi kwimeko yangoku). Yilungiselele imeko yevidiyo nendoda, njengentlanganiso yokwenene - ngaphandle, iziqholo nezihlangu - kwaye yonke into iza kudlula nge-bang.
-Imiyalezo yeSMS kunye nembalelwano. Le yintsimi engenamda yomsebenzi wakho ukwenzela ubudlelwane bokwakha. Ukukwazi ukunxibelelana nangaliphi na ixesha lemini, cinga ngamazwi akho, ukungabikho kwelo nqanaba loxinzelelo kunye noloyiko, okwenzekileyo uphila ... Ngamanye amagama, sisixhobo esimangalisayo sokugcina inzala yobudoda, kunye Ukomeleza ubudlelwane.
Imiyalelo yonxibelelwano kumgama
Kodwa ezi zixhobo-ngakumbi okokugqibela-kufuneka ukwazi ukusebenzisa. Ngelishwa, imiyalelo ecacileyo ayibonelelwanga koku, ayifundiswa esikolweni okanye kwiZiko. Njengokuziqhelanisa nemidlalo, wonke umfazi wesibini kunye nedatha encomekayo ikhubeka kwezinye zezinto ezingentla, kwaye indoda oyifunayo ishiya iprofayili yakhe.
Kuyo yonke le ndoda yayifuna ukwenza ngexesha lokuhlala-kwi-intanethi kwi-intanethi, sebenzisa imithetho yonxibelelwano engabhalwanga.
-Angathethi! Impazamo yabasetyhini ye-classical: Ukutshintsha kweBltology kwintetho. Amadoda athanda incoko kwityala. Awunakubona ubuso bakhe obuneqhinga xa uza kufunda i-Opus ende kuwe nokuba i-dozen iphindwe kabini nantoni na. Kodwa ubukhulu becala uya kuvakalelwa xa inyathelo lakhe lokunxibelelana lawela ngaphantsi kweplinth. Ke ngoko, "musa ukuwela" incoko "engenantsingiselo, buza imibuzo kwaye zichaphazele izihloko ezikhuthaza ubudlelwane bakho kunye nokukhuthaza ukudibana.
-Imiyalezo yesingqisho. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo kukuhlengahlengisa rhoqo kunye nobude bemiyalezo yamadoda. Ke ufana nomdaniso kunye naye: Uligumbi, yena, intshukumo engafaniyo. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha kunokwenzeka ukuba "zikhuphe" kwiinkcukacha eziphezulu kwaye ziqwalasele impendulo yayo.
-Indlela zobuchule "2-3 iileta." Inokwenzeka ukuba indoda ayiphenduli okwethutyana. Sukutyibilika kumbuzo apho anokuya khona. Zikhumbuze imiyalezo emi-2-3 ngesithuba seentsuku ezimbalwa. Vumela okubhalelayo, iqulethe iqhina elithile, ukuze lamangalisiwe kwaye efuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni onayo engqondweni, kwaye konke kuthetha ukuba umyalezo.
-Ukukhonkotha ubudlelwane. Khawufane ucinge ukuba sele sisibini kunye naye. Ungaphoswa ngu-suretysunt amazwi, izincomo, iingxelo ezinomdla, amabinzana athandabuzekayo axhasa ukukhanya komdla kwingqiqo yamadoda.
-I-hooks "kunxibelelwano. Yalisa ibinzana ngalinye lendoda kwaye ujonge kuwo amaxesha eliza kukunceda uqhubeke nengxoxo. Rhoqo, ezi zinto zinomdla wamadoda, iiklasi ezithandwayo, sebenza, indawo afana ngayo neentlanzi emanzini. Ukunamathela kwezi "hooks", unokwenza incoko inomdla. Kwaye umntu onomdla ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna ukuthintela unxibelelwano lwakho olunomdla kwi-intanethi.
Ewe, akukho thuba levidiyo liza kuthatha indawo yokwenyani. Akukho magama athotyelweyo aprintwe kwi-messenger ayifudumezi njengokuhlebeza okufudumeleyo endlebeni. Kumgama kunzima kakhulu ukuvula i-chemistry yothando phakathi kwabantu.
Nangona kunjalo, ngezenzo ezifanelekileyo, yonke into inokwenzeka! Sebenzisa imeko enzima yehlabathi. Musa ukuhlala ukhangele umntu wakho-mayikuncede kule i-Intanethi ye-ALMATIF. Kwaye i-vius kuphela eya kuwe iya kuba yintsholongwane yothando intsholongwane kunye nolonwabo olukhulu, olunganyangekiyo.