Ewe, ukukhwaza "ke akuyi kuhamba! Konke akulunganga! " akunyanzelekanga. Ukuba wena neqabane lakho niqhelekile ukuxoxa ngokuthe ngqo imixholo esondeleyo, mxelele ukuba uswele ngesondo. Inokwenziwa kanye kwinkqubo yokutywinwa. Umzekelo, ukubeka isandla sendoda kwizicwangciso zomzimba wakho, ofuna uthando.
Ukuba umyeni wakho okanye isithandwa sakho sithandana ngaphandle kokuthetha ngento eyenzekayo kwigumbi lokulala, kuya kufuneka usombulule ingxaki ngaphandle kwamagama. Xela ukuba ebhedini awunayo yonke into kakuhle, kunokwenzeka, ukuba ingabi lithuba elincinci kunye nokugcina i-caress yeqabane. Iya kumvulela kumbono wokuba kwinqanaba elisenyongweni lixesha lokutshintsha into.
Kuya kuba kuhle ukubukela ifilimu yothando enemimandla yebhedi kwaye igqabaze malunga nezenzo zamagorha othanda, kwaye yintoni engeyiyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha iingcambu zokukhanya kwekhwele ziyancedwa. Qala kancinci ukuzikhathalela kancinci. Ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuya kubangela ukuncoma kunye nokujonga okunomdla kwamadoda. Ndivakalelwa kukuba uyathandwa, indoda yakho inokuqala ukuhlawula ingqalelo ngakumbi.