Yonke into ebomini bethu yakhiwe eluthandweni. Indima yayo inkulu kakhulu kangangokuba kunzima kakhulu ekusebenziseni. Phantse wonke umntu ufuna ubudlelwane obufanelekileyo. Kwaye abo bakufumanayo banokuphumeza ngokukhuselekileyo bonke ubunye kunye neetalente zabo.
Ukuba uzama "ukuvala" ubudlelwane ebomini bakho - zikhutshiwe kwasekuqaleni. Umbuzo wexesha ukuba iya kuhlala ingakanani. Kuyinyani, ngendlela, ngamanye amaxesha bayaqhubeka kude kube yibhodi yebhokisi. Kwaye akunjalo ngenxa yokuba zilungile, kodwa ngenxa yokuba imikhwa inzima kwaye ingakhululekanga, kwaye ayinguye wonke umntu olungele ukuvukela.
Ukujonga ubudlelwane obufanelekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukuba siyitsho ukuba kutheni belungile - sonke isibini esonwabileyo sinendlela yayo. Nangona kunjalo, masizame ukwaba imigaqo-nkqubo ngokubanzi ekufuneka ilandelwe ukuze ikwazi ukuzisa ulwalamano lwakho kunye nokulungileyo.
Nye. Sukunyathela emqaleni wengoma yakho Oko kukuthi, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uzitshintshe kuphela kuba le nto ifuna iqabane lakho.
2. Ekuqaleni, ukuseta ukukhangela, ukwenyula ezona projekti zibaluleke kakhulu kulowo unyuliweyo kufuneka aphendule. Kufuneka ukhululeke naye. Xa ufumene umntu ophendula Iikhrayitheriya ezisisiseko Isicelo sakho, sixolelanise nokuphumla. Sukulinda ukubetha okugqibeleleyo. Ngandlel 'ithile, awuyi kulungiselela omnye komnye. Sukuzama ukuphinda ubizene - akukho nqanawa yothando iqhekeza imizamo enjalo.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba akukho mntu ufanele
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3. Yiba Kule meko, uya kuba nezikhalazo ezincinci kwihlabathi, kwaye uzolile, ngaphandle kwe-nerves eyongeziweyo kunye nokungoneliseki, unokwakha ubudlelwane obufanelekileyo.
ezine. Ulibale malunga nokufuna . Ukuba sihlala sisebenzisa amabinzana athi: "Kuya kufuneka", "unyanzelekile" - iflewuni sele ifakwe kule modeli. Kungekudala, ukuqhekeka kuya kuza kulwalamano. Okokuqala, kuba asifanele sibe mntu. Ukuba uyalithanda igama elithi "kufuneka", yinze ngokwakho - kuya kufuneka wenze ukuze iqabane lakho likuvuyelwe ukuba lizenzele ntoni.
5. Enye into ebalulekileyo - ukuzithemba ngaphandle kwakhe naphi na. Ukuba akunjalo, ubomi obudibeneyo buya kufana nesihogo. Nanini na xa ubonakalisa ukungathembani, cinga ukuba uwela kwindawo ephezulu. Isiphumo sihlala sodwa, kwaye ayixhomekeki kubuchule bokuhla.
Ihlala icinga ngendlela iqabane lakho elivakalelwa ngayo ecaleni kwakho
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6. Zithande "Xa ngaphakathi kwakho uzithanda kakhulu, ungabelana ngayo."
7. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, eyona nto ibalulekileyo yinto endingathanda ukuyifumana ingqalelo yakho. Ngokwamava, ndiyazi ukuba le nto inika ingqalelo izibini ezitshatileyo. Kuba kuya kuba kukufumanisa iMelika. Ucinga Zeziphi iimvakalelo ecaleni kwakho xa ujamelana neqabane lakho? Mna nawe, kwaye unawe. Njani kwaye ngokulandelayo ecaleni kwakho? Le yeyona nto iphambili, ngokoluvo lwam, kwaye eyona fumeke kakhulu kulo naluphi na ulwalamano.
Ewe kunjalo, iindlela zokupheka zendalo zenzeki-jonga eyakho. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini ngamava, ngenxa ye-IT, sonke silapha kwaye siqokelele. Kwaye malunga nokuba lo mfazi afunwa, funda apha.