Ukusondela kukaSeptemba, abanye abazali abaninzi baphulukana noxolo lwangaphakathi. Nokuba umntwana akasasebenzi kuqala, abazali abasakhathali, kwaye ngo-Septemba 1, kunye nabantwana, kunye nabantwana, ngokuqalisa ngokuqatha. Unokwenza njani ukuba isikolo kubangele uninzi lweemvakalelo ezintle? Masizame ukufumanisa.
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali bayoyika izikolo. Ngokwesiqhelo olu loyiko lukhula kwasebuntwaneni, ngenxa yamava amabi. Abazali bahlala bevuma ukuba azikho ngokwabo, xa bekukuba bebabukroti bahamba kwipaseji yesikolo, kwaye ukuba bayadibana kumendo womlawuli, kunye nentliziyo iyahamba. Kwilizwe lethu, isikolo sithathwa njengento ethile phakathi kwelona nqanaba likrelekrele, eliyimfuneko lokuphuhliswa, apho kwixesha elizayo liya kuxhomekeka kwindlela abantu abaqala ngayo eli ziko. Nangona kunjalo, akufuneki wabelane ngale nto nomntwana, kubalulekile ukuba uzincede. Kukho ufakelo oluninzi, ukulahla oko kuya kuba lula ukuphila kweli xesha linzima kubude beminyaka eli-11.
QAPHELA nje: Asinguye wonke umntu onikwe "ogqwesileyo"
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Okokuqala: "Umntwana kufuneka afunde" "
Kwaye kwenzeka njani kwiklasi yakho? Bonke babegqwesile? Kakhulu, abantu abaliqela. Kwaye ayixhomekekanga kumnqweno wabazali. QAPHELA nje: Asinguye wonke umntu olinikwe "ogqwesileyo." Inqaku ayisiyonyani yokuba umntu unobuchule, endaweni yoko, ayingabo bonke abantu. Nokuba ungazama njani ukweyisela umntwana, ukuba akanamdla, awuyi kuba nako ukumenza abe ngumfundi obalaseleyo. Ngekhe uthathele ingqalelo ukuba ezikolweni zethu yimozulu ephangaleleyo. Abantwana baya apho, balumke, kwaye bangakwazi. Imfundo yethu izama ukulunga ulwazi oluthile, kodwa kwangaxeshanye alwenzi ngqalelo kolu lwazi. Zama ukungavumeli ingcinezelo emntwaneni, kwaye uya kubona indlela ubudlelwane bakho obuya kubuya ngayo.
Okwesibini: "Umntwana ufanele enze izifundo ngokwakhe"
Kunqabile. Kwibanga lokuqala, akufuneki ubuze izifundo, kodwa usabuza. Phantse kuyo yonke indawo. Zilungiselele ngokuhlwa ngokudibeneyo emva kweencwadi zezifundo kunye neencwadana. Apha eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukubonisa umonde kwaye ugqwesa, kuba umntwana akasayi kucaca ngokukhawuleza. Into ecacileyo kuwe ayicacanga kwaye iya kuba ngumntwana wakho. Akazange afike kwiminyaka yokuthelekisa nawe ngengqondo nangokucinga. Rhoqo abazali bayaqhubeka nokwenza izifundo kunye nomntwana kunye nesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo.
Kwiklasi yokuqala akufuneki ebuze izifundo
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Okwesithathu: "Umntwana kufuneka aqonde ukubaluleka kokufunda"
Kwisikolo esincinci, akufuneki uphawule incoko malunga nesidingo semfundo elungileyo ukuze ube sempilweni. Umntwana akaqondakali oko kubomi babantu abadala kwaye xa efika, uhlala apha kwaye ngoku. Ke jolisa kwinto onokuyifumana (okanye ngokuchaseneyo - ukubakhuphela ngaphandle) kungekudala. Umzekelo, uvavanyo oluhle lolawulo lokutshintshiselana ngeyure yokuhamba nabahlobo.
Okwesine: "Uvavanyo lubonisa inqanaba lolwazi"
Uninzi lwabantwana, ngelishwa, funa ukuba lube ngcono kunabo bonke kwaye ufumane impumelelo "kwidayari" kuphela kwidayari, kuphela yokwenza ukuba abazali baneliseke, kwaye bengavunyelwanga nezilangazelelo zabo. Sonke siyayiqonda into yokuba "esona singonelisi" luvavanyo nje, kodwa kunzima ukuzigcina entliziyweni yakho emehlweni encwadi ebomvu. Oku kukhokelela kwinto yokuba umntwana aya ebhodini njengesohlwayo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ufumana i-fan yezifo ezomeleleyo. Cinga ukuba ootitshala babantu, kwaye banokuphosa kwaye bafuna kakhulu. Ke zama ukudumisa umntwana nokuba yithambile.
Umntwana unokuba nezinto ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo.
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Okwesihlanu: "Xa ndandingakwazi, oku kuya kwenza umntwana wam"
Akukho sidingo sokukhuthaza ukusilela kwakho kunye nezicwangciso ezingaphumelelanga. Umntwana usenokuba nezinto ezahlukeneyo. Siyayamkela-umntwana akazukutsiba ngaphezulu kwentloko. Wayethanda ukujongana nemicimbi yakhe kunokuchitha ixesha ngento oyiphulukene nentloko ngexesha elinye. Kanye njengokuba ubungafuni kwenza oko kwakunyanzelwa ngabazali.
Eyona nto iphambili kulwalamano lwakho olunokuthenjwa kunye nomntwana kunye nempilo yakhe yengqondo. Iyoxolo iya kuba ngumntwana wakho, kokukhona kube lula kuwe kuya kuyiphumelela le ndlela ide