Abanye abantu kuphela abanqwenela ukuzaliseka, kwaye abanye banokufumana ulwazi olunenjongo yokuphumla kwinqanaba leminqweno. Ixhomekeke phi? Ewe, hayi kwizithethe ze-bizarre njengokubhala amaphupha abo kwisiqwengana sephepha, siyitshise phantsi kwedabi le-chimes kwaye liginye i-champagne.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngokufuthi kwezi ziqwenga zibhala ezona zinto ziyimizekelo, njengokudalwa kosapho, ukuzalwa kwabantwana, ukuchuma emsebenzini. Akunakwenzeka ukuba amanzi omanzi ahlukile ku-Ash. Kodwa abantu bayanqwenela, unyaka nonyaka bazame ngale ndlela "engummangaliso". Kwaye ayisiyo kuphela.
Kule ntetho yesiko lokungqubana neminqweno, intsingiselo ekhethekileyo inobuxoki. Isekwe kwenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo zengqondo ezibizwa ngokuba "kukucinga komlingo". Ukucinga okunjalo kukukwazi kwethu ukucinga enye into kunye nephupha lomhlanguli. Sifunda ukubaleka kwenyani, xa kwihlabathi elijikeleze umhlaba alikhuselekanga, loyike, kwaye akukho mntu ufumana inkxaso.
UMZEKELISO OLUNGILEYO WOKUGQIBELA WOKWENZA ISISEKO ZOKUFUNDA " Kubomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla bekukho izizathu ezimbalwa zovuyo, ukuzodwa kunye nesizungu, ukujamelana nawo uvumela umntu ohamba ngenqanawa e-Alay. Kwaye nayo imfuno incinci: ukuqhubeka nokuphila kunye nokuphila, kwaye ulinde. Imatshini efanayo isebenza kwiminqweno yethu: kungekudala okanye kamva indalo entle indalo / ikamva lobulungisa obukhulu luya kusasazeka kwimpembelelo yakhe kwaye inike. Ukusuka emntwini ngokwawo, akukho nto ifunekayo, ukongeza, ukubuza ngokufanelekileyo kunye ne-sub. Ngamanye amagama, ukuba ungakwenzi nantoni na eya kuzisa ukuphunyezwa kwalo mnqweno.
Isiqinisekiso ngumzekelo obonakalayo womphikisi olinde nje ukuzaliseka kweminqweno yakhe. Isakhelo esivela kwifilimu "kwiZinduli eziDlulayo".
Unokubuza ngempilo yakho kwaye unesiselo esibathandayo, ngelixa usele itafile yomthendeleko ngaphezulu komlinganiselo, uyingozi, kodwa ukholelwa ukuba umnqweno uza kuzaliseka.
Unokwenza umnqweno 'wokuyeka ukutshaya ", kodwa ubusuku bonke ukutyhala ityhubhu de kube sekupheleni. Okanye ukuphupha ngenkosana entle, ukushiya umbhiyozo kunye nabahlobo kwinkampani enkulu ekwabazali. Ngaphandle koko, ukhubekise! Kwaye uhlale etafileni kusapho kunye ne-tangelines noOlivier, yenza ngathi "ukukhanya eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kuyinto enomdla. Ngamanye amagama, ukwenza umnqweno ngaphandle kwala manyathelo yindlela yokuzikhusela kwinyaniso. Yonke iminqweno yethu, engabulawanga, kuthetha ukuba asisebenzisi iindlela zokuphumeza. Kwaye ukuze kuzisa ithagethi, kwezi ndlela kuyimfuneko ukwala okanye ukuphikisa. Kwaye oku akusasebenzi, ezi zizenzo ezithile.
Kwaye ngelixa uninzi lwabanye abangqongileyo lulindele ukuzaliseka kweminqweno, abanye basathatha amanyathelo okusebenzisa.
Ngapha koko, linda kwaye wenze iipropathi zeminyaka eyahlukeneyo yezengqondo. Unokuba ngumalume omdala, kodwa ukholelwa kummangaliso. Bangaphi abantwana abakholelwa kumandla kunye namandla abazali babo, kunye nezo zinokuqonda ngokuthe ngqo kwaye zenza yonke into abayifunayo ukuba ngabantwana. Inxalenye yabantwana ihlala kwi-US. Ukuba sikhulisa abazali abanobuthathaka nabangahlonitisi, ke kufuneka inkathalo iyahlutha. Ngokuqhelekileyo sithembele ihlabathi kunye nabanye. Ingxaki kukuba ungumntu ongumntu ongumdala, ungabanjwa ebuntwaneni, ulinde ukuba amanye amakhosi angaphandle afezekise umnqweno wakho, kufanelekile ukufuna. Nangona kungumdala kuphela oku kwanele. Kukwakhona iinjongo, iinjongo, iintshukumo, izibophelelo, imfuneko yokuyeka imikhwa etshabalalisayo neyonakalisayo yokufezekisa imisebenzi yazo, zama, impazamo, iphoso. Ukuba uhlala nobomi obuqhelekileyo, ngaphandle kokutshintsha kuyo, kodwa ithemba ngeyona nto ibalaseleyo, ke akukho nto iya kutshintsha kakhulu kwaye unyaka olandelayo, kuyo nayiphi na into eguqukayo.
Ndinqwenela kwaye wenze isenzo!
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin