Imida yobuqu inokwahluka. Vula kakhulu - xa umntu esithi "Uye wazindwendwela emphefumlweni" wabantu bonke, akanakuthi ", hayi", woyika ukubonakala, ukhunile. Oku kudalwa ukususela ebuntwaneni, ngenxa yobuzali abaziphatha umnikelo wedini, belibala malunga neminqweno kunye neemfuno zabo, bacinga ngakumbi malunga nabanye; Kwi-psychology kukho negama elikhethekileyo - "Gxila kwabanye."
Ingqongqo kakhulu - xa umntu esoyika ukuvumela umntu. Njengomthetho, lo sisiphumo sokulimala komntwana, ngenxa yokuba umntu egqibe kwelokuba 'athembele "," ngcono enye, ayibuhlungu kangako. "
Bubanzi kakhulu - xa umntu ejikeleze uthatha ipropathi kwaye uzama ukuthatha indawo nomntu wakhe. Kwi-Psychology, oku kubizwa ngokuba "kukungasebenzi kakuhle kunye nesikimu sombulelo," ofumaneka rhoqo kwabo bantu bangakhange bafundise umxholo wobunini bubunini-"-kwaye le yeyam kuyo nayiphi na into.
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Kuyimfuneko ukukhusela imida yakho, kwaye obu buchule bubekwe kubazali babantwana. Ewe, ngexesha lobomi bomda, kunokutshintsha. Ngokufikisa, sihlala sinika indawo yethu nzima ngakumbi. Ukuba kubudlelwane, ngakumbi ekusukeleni kwabo, ngamanye amaxesha kuchithiwe ngokupheleleyo kwiqabane, elinokuthi lichaphazele kakubi ubomi bexesha elizayo xa ixesha elithethwe ngumgqatswa ligqithile, kwaye ukusebenzisana sele kuhambile indlela ebuxoki. Kwaye nangona kunjalo, ayipheli ixesha lokukhumbula imida yobuqu.
Ukukwazi ukuzikhusela ngobuhlobo luphawu oluphambili bokukhula nobulumko. Kuya kufuneka wenze oku ngoncedo lwamabinzana anobuhlobo. Ngamanye amaxesha kwaye ngokungqongqo, kodwa, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukungabinabantu basekhaya.
Ukuba sinemvakalelo yokuba nabani na utshabhise imida yethu, awudingi ucinga ukuba kutheni umntu esenza. Mhlawumbi isizathu senze nje imfundo: Umntu uyakuqonda, kodwa akazami 'ukuba uqonde "wena.
Kule meko, ndixelele: "unelungelo lokujonga imida yam, kwaye ndinelungelo lokwala, ndicinga ngeminqweno kunye neemfuno zam."
Kwimeko yokuvalwa kwemida evaliweyo, kwaye ucinga kwakhona ukuba ufihlwe, sithini isibonelelo semida yakho kuwe? "Uye wasivala nini isango" okokuqala "kuluntu? Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu: Cinga, ukuba le nto inceda khona le ndlela yokuziphatha, kwaye ekunithintelayo. Esi sisitshixo sokubona izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga zokuziphatha kwazo ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye akuzange kamva ukuba uziqeqeshe okuphosakeleyo ebuntwaneni.