Ukuphela konyaka wesikolo kusondele, kwaye ke abantwana banengxaki ngakumbi izihlandlo ezininzi kunezinyanga zokuqala zoqeqesho. Kwaye uninzi lwabantu besikolo banyanzelekile ukuba bakha kwakhona kwifomathi yokufunda kwi-Intanethi, eyongeza imithwalo kwaye, ngenxa yoko, amava. Ke indlela yokuxhasa umntwana, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba uyeka ukujamelana nomthwalo wesikolo? Siya kuxelela.
Eyona nto inzima kubantwana abancinci abanesikolo ababengafikeleliyo kwisingqisho esitsha, badinga inkxaso kwabo badala njengaye nabani na umntu wasekhaya, kodwa nokuziphatha.
"Akukho sidingo soyike ukuveza uluvo lwakho"
Kuba abantwana eklasini banokuba bangaphezulu kweminyaka engama-30, uMfundisi ngokwasemzimbeni akakwazi ukuphendula kuzo zonke iimpendulo okanye izimvo ezivela eklasini. Umntwana onempendulo yakhe akazange athathele ingqalelo abantu abadala, abakwazi ukuyazi ukuba sisiphi isizathu sokuba uluvo, lungabi namdla nje wokuba luluvo lwayo alunamdla wokuphakamisa isandla ngokubanzi, nto leyo echaphazela intsebenzo. Cacisa umntwana ukuba utitshala ubalulekile kuzo zonke izimvo, nokuba ngeli xesha ayisebenzi, kufuneka uzame kwakhona, akukho mntu uya kugweba. Faka intembelo emntwaneni.
Musa ukoyika ukwenza iimpazamo
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Akukho nto imbi kakhulu kwimpazamo. "
Uninzi lwabantwana luphose naliphi na ishishini ngokukhawuleza. Kwimeko yomsebenzi wasekhaya, olu khetho alulunganga, oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uxoxe ngengxaki nomntwana. Ukuba umntwana akawusombuli umsebenzi okanye akaphumi uncedo oluhle, anike uncedo lwakho, ngokuhambelana nobomi bakho xa kufuneka wenze imizamo yokoyisa imiqobo. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuzola kwaye cebisa ukuba wenze umsebenzi hayi emhleni, kwaye nayo.
"Uncedo lokunxulumana alunantloni"
Xa umntwana engena kubalingane osondeleyo, afunda ukuba aphile ngokwemigaqo yeqela, apho, ehlala, ubuthathaka abubamkelwe nakuphi na ukubonakaliswa. Kwakhona hlala phantsi etafileni kunye nomntwana kwaye uxoxe ngengxaki. Akukho meko ayisigwebi umntwana, cacisa ukuba kwimeko enzima, unokufuna uncedo kumntu olwalamano oluhle, okona kulungileyo. Abakwishumi elivisayo bafuna ingqalelo ekhethekileyo, abanokungabikho ekungabinayo.
"Ndiya kuhlala ndikwicala lakho"
Inkxaso iyimfuneko emntwini nangayiphi na iminyaka, ngakumbi xa ibumba kuphela. Thetha nosana, uthembise ukuba akukho vavanyo lubi, akukho luhlobo nabantu ufunda nabo kunye nootitshala ukuba bangabutshintshe ubudlelwane bakho. Ewe kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuchaza kumntwana ukuba kukho imigaqo ethile engazange iphule, kodwa kuyo nayiphi na imeko yokungqubana, umzali unyanzelekile ukuba eme ecaleni komntwana, xoxa wedwa, xoxa ngedwa Ingxaki kwaye ufumane isisombululo.