Enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo zokudlala ebomini endiyifumene kwiminyaka eli-17 eyadlulayo ngendlela engalindelekanga.
Ndifunde esikolweni kwaye ndahlala isikhundla esisebenzayo sentlalo. Njengalo nawuphi na umsebenzi kwindawo yentlalo, ndifumene ngokukhawuleza.
Le yayiyiminyaka yokugqibela yokufunda, i-10-11 iklasi. Ukuba ngusodolophu wesikolo okanye iklasi kaluphele bendifuna kancinane kwaye ndincinci, kodwa xa ndandizimela, ndingafihli.
Amaxesha yayinjalo ukuba amatshazi ahlaziyiweyo. Kwaye ishiya iiseti ezahlukeneyo kunye nokhuphiswano phakathi kwezikolo zizinto ezifanayo. Ndithunyelwe kukhuphiswano phakathi koosodolophu bezikolo! Kwakungaqhelekanga. Ngapha koko, bekungacacanga ukuba ilindele kulo msitho.
Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, umsebenzi wawusaziwa-ukubamba isifundo sokudlala nabantwana beziklasi eziphambili.
Ndandicaphukisa kwaye ndaqonda ukuba ngeli xesha ndilufumana kanye. Lonke ulwazi lwam malunga nabantwana bezikhundla eziphambili zehla kudadewethu, kubudlelwane endibazi eyona nto iphambili - ukuba ndingamchukumisi.
Ngokuhlwa nje kunye nobusuku obulandelayo ndichithe ngokungathi ngumkhuhlane. Ekuqaleni bendikhangela ezinye iincwadi, iplasitiki kunye nezinye iimfuno zabantwana (i-Intanethi yayingeyonto ndiyithandayo ngalo mzuzu). Fumana indlela yokuzonwabisa ngohlobo lweeholide zabantwana, kodwa ngandlela thile kwi-ofisi yetikiti.
Ngobusuku bangaphambi kohambo, ndayikhumbula yonke into endiye ndabethwa yile. Oko kwamangaliswa ngaxeshanye kwakulula kakhulu.
Kwaye uyazi, andizikhumbuli iiklasi, kodwa iimvakalelo ezingakhe ziba nazo. Ngezona ndlela zilula, ezi mvakalelo zabangelwa ziingcali zezikolo ezahlukeneyo zobunkokeli, iinkampu noqeqesho.
Mna, njengoko ndikhumbula ngaloo mhla, ndiya eklasini kwaye ndijonge izibini ezingama-25. Bafuna ukwenza ingxolo, baleka kwaye batsibe, andifeli boyika.
Into yokuqala esiyenzileyo ngemvume katitshala ivukile edesikeni kwaye yenze isangqa esikhulu, apho ndabafundisa ukuyeka "i-Word" yangaphantsi ".
Kwaye emva koko sahamba ehlathini ngamava avalekileyo, kwaye ndabaxelela ukuba bayakubona indlela, ichibi, i-15 imizuzu, sixoxa ngezilwanyana zomlingo, iindlela kunye neendonga zomlingo. Kwaye waxoxa ngendlela abaziphatha ngayo ehlathini kunye nendlela echaphazela ngayo iminqweno yabo. Nditsho notitshala wayenomdla wokumamela into entsha malunga neewadi zabo.
Ukusukela kule meko, ndasusa izifundo ezithathu kakhulu.
1. Akukho msebenzi ungenamsebenzi. Nawuphi na umsebenzi ukhulisa, amava akho, izakhono, ukhangele.
2. Nalo naliphi na ishishini elenziwe ngembuyekezo ephezulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo ibhaso liya kuba lo, nangona ungakwazi ukuqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba lo ngumvuzo.
3. Ngokuqinisekileyo into inokujongwa ngeemvakalelo ezikunika zona. Kwaye ukhethe ezona ndlela zibonakalayo kunye neemvakalelo ofuna ukudlulisela ebantwini - ezona zinto zibalulekileyo kwaye ziyimfuneko kakhulu.
P. S. Ngaloo mini ndafumana indawo yokuqala. Andikazi ukuba indlela yam yokuziva liqela, i-Psychology kunye nokwenza ubugqi bemvakalelo.