Ixesha elide, izibini ezininzi ziqinisekisiwe ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ube ngabahlobo emva kokugqiba ubudlelwane. Ukuba umsantsa wangaphambi kwenqanaba leengqungquthela, ukufunga kunye nezityholo ezihlangeneyo, kuya kufuneka uzinikezele ngezinto ezintle kwaye zibububele. Kwaye emva kwengxamo, awunakucinga ngokubuyiselwa kwalo naluphi na ulwalamano, omnye wakho, kunokuba uyithiyile enye, kwimeko enjalo ngobuhlobo nentetho ayihambi. Uninzi lwazo zonke, abafazi banesifo esivela empahleni, kuba ezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu, bomelele, ngokulandelelana, bejamelana nomntu omthandayo.
Njengomthetho, ukwahlukana ziindidi ezimbini. Eyokuqala: Iimbambano, izityholo, izityholo, iinyembezi, ngenxa yoko - zombini ziqala ukuphinde kwaye ziphule zonke iintlobo zamaqhina. Inguqulelo yesibini yophuhliso lweziganeko yinxalenye yokuthula, emva kwayo umntu onomfazi uhlala ehleli izihlobo, edangalala kunye ngeholide. Ukuba ebomini bakho kukho umsantsa nomntu osithandayo, sicebisa ukuba uqhelisele nezindululo zethu zokugcina nokumisela ubudlelwane neqabane lakhe langaphambili.
Funda ukuxolelwa
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Funda ukuxolelwa
Sifuna amantombazana, okokuqala, kufuneka uxolele zonke iimpazamo umntu onazo, uyeke imeko xa usenzakalisa. Ewe, yayingemnandi, kodwa yonke into yayisele idlulileyo, kungenjalo ubeka emngciphekweni ekugqibeleni. Ukuba awukwenzi oku, awunakuyibona. Mayibe linyathelo lokuqala lokuxolelanisa. Iingcali zengqondo zinendlela enomdla yamatyala anjalo. Unokubonakala ngathi uyahlekisa kuwe, kodwa enyanisweni isebenza kakuhle. Thatha isitulo, ubeke embindini wegumbi kwaye ume ngokuchaseneyo. Emva koko, khawufane ucinge ukuba wangaphambili wakho uhleli esitulweni. Ngoku nxibelelana, kuqala kuya kuba nzima ukufikelela ngokunzulu kwinkqubo, kodwa uyazama. Yivezeni yonke into owaziqokelele emphefumlweni wakho, ungathandabuzi, emva koko undixolele. Nangona ungaphumi ngoko nangoko, kodwa kuya kuba lula ixesha elincinci.
Gcina umgama
Ukuba uhlala kulwalamano oluhle, ungatsho, ngohlobo, kule meko abalindi bakho bangaphambili banokusibhekisa ekubeni ngaphambi kokuba ube namalungelo athile kwaye kufuneka wenze into ethile. Akufuneki usabele kuyo. Kulapho ufuna ukuhlala kude. Ngequbuliso waqala ukubiza kwaye ufuna into, susa lonke amabinzana aqhelekileyo, ungamvumeli ukuba anikele incoko ukuba akathandeki. Kwintlanganiso yakho, zama ukumbonisa ukuba awunamdla kumabango akhe, abakukhathazi. Qhagamshela noMoya kwaye makaqinisekise ukuba bathini ukuba bangabalwanga.
Gcina umgama
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Bhala ileta
Injalo indlela engaqhelekanga yokuqonda ubudlelwane obudlulileyo. Ukhumbuza into ngesitulo esinesihlalo, kuphela kule meko uyakufuna iphepha kunye nesibambiso. Musa ukumangaliswa, kodwa ubhale nje kwileta yakho idluleyo, apho ubonakalisa umbulelo wakho kuyo yonke into elungileyo ukuba iphakathi kwenu. Kodwa musa ukungxama ukubaleka kwaye uyithumele, zifunde. Xa sibhala into, iingcinga zifumana ifom kunye ne-odolo. Ukuba intloko yengcinga inesiphithiphithi, emva koko indlela yokubhala kukhetho lwakho. Ukuphelisa ngokufunda, thatha imvulophu ecocekileyo, faka ileta kwaye itywina. Okulandelayo, olona khetho lubalaseleyo luya kuyisusa le leta. Yitshise. Eyona nto iphambili kulo msebenzi-nimele, kunye neleta kwaye inyani yokuba ubhalwe, tshise zonke iingqondo eziya kwindoda. Ngapha koko, ukuba usempilweni ubala kwinto ethile, ukuba sele bengabahlobo, ke, ndikholelwe, akukho buhlobo buza kubakho.
Xa unomdla wokwakhiwa kobudlelwane obutsha, awunalo ixesha lokuqiqa
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Jonga kokukujikelezile
Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba emva kokophula abantu bade bacinge ukuba abanye abanakukwazi. Nangona kunjalo, ekuhambeni kwexesha, umnqweno wokubona lo mntu uyavela, liveni ilizwi lakhe, funda ngendlela aphila ngayo nokuba uphila kabani. Xa le ngcinga 'iya kuzalwa "entlokweni yakho, kuya kuba kuhle ukuba umntu omtsha uvele ebomini bakho ukuya kweli xesha. Xa unomdla wokwakhiwa kobudlelwane obutsha, awunalo ixesha lokuqiqa, nokuba wenze ngokuchanekileyo, ukwahlukana nezangaphambili. Kuyaqondakala ukuba ugqibelele ukuba ngaphambili unayo umntu omele avele. Ke wena nobabini niya kuba namathuba amaninzi okuseka umfowunelwa onobuhlobo ngaphandle kweengcebiso ezingeyomfuneko.