Ngokuqala kwenethiwekhi yoluntu ebomini bethu, kwakunzima ukwahlula ubomi benene. Abahlobo bethu kunye nabantu abangaqhelekanga kwi-ribbon babeka ifoto ukusuka kwezinye, baqhayise malunga nezinto ezifezekisiweyo, uninzi lwethu lusabela ngaphezulu kunokuba buhlungu kunokuba buhlungu kunokuba buhlungu kunokuba buhlungu. Ungakuphepha njani ukuthelekisa nabanye, ngamanye amaxesha nabantu abangabaziyo ngokupheleleyo? Siza kuzama ukukunceda.
Impumelelo yakho ayibalulekanga kangako.
Ukuba ukuphinda ufuduse iindaba zeNdoda, apho ubuye nini ukubona impumelelo yabanye abantu engakushiyi nangengxakini, mhlawumbi kutshanje kusekutsha nje ukuba ungazingca, nokuba yinto ephumeleleyo emsebenzini, Umntwana wakho wafumana isatifikethi esincomekayo esikolweni okanye usifumene amanani axabisekileyo esikalini. Xa sigxila kwiingcinga ezimbi, silibale ngokupheleleyo ukuba impumelelo yethu ayiphantsi kowasemzini, umahluko kuphela kukuba ungababi sabelana nabo nge-Intanethi.
Abantu babonisa uhlobo olufanelekileyo lwabo
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Zama ukuphuhlisa iimpawu ezintsha
Siphila eluntwini, oko kuthetha ukuba baphenjelelwa: Sixela ukuba uthenge, indlela yokujonga kunye nempumelelo elinganiswa ngalo mzuzu. Nangona kunjalo, kukho izinto ezingenakuqondwa bubomi babo bonke, kwaye ezinokwenza ube ngumntu owodwa, ungathi uthandabuze, uthando, ukupha, kunye namanye amaxesha enza ubuntu bakho. Akukho zinto ezibonakalayo ziya kukwenza umntu ofuna ukuya ukuba awunanto ngaphakathi.
Ukugqibelela akunakwenzeka ukufezekisa
Enye yeempazamo zethu ezinkulu kukukholelwa ukuba wonke umntu wonwabile, akanazo iingxaki, hayi ezo zinto sinazo. Akunakwenzeka. Into esinokuyibona kwinethiwekhi yinxalenye yobomi eboniswa kakhulu, ekugqibeleni, nabani na uzabalazela ukwamkelwa koluntu, i-psyche yethu ilungiselelwe i-psychet. Akukho sidingo sokugweba ubomi babantu kwizithuba zabo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, khumbula ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu okwenzayo.
Fumana ukuphefumlelwa
Banokuba yimpumelelo yomnye umntu okanye umntu. Ngokuqinisekileyo kwicandelo lakho lokusebenza kukho ingcali apho ufuna ukulingana khona. Vavanya indlela yobungcali yeqhawe lakho, ezona mpawu zinazo, kwaye zama ukuthatha ulwazi olufunyenwe ngenqaku. Ngendlela, oyena mntu uqhelekileyo, olona candelo lako olunokudlalwa ngumkhuthazi, jonga nje, baninzi abantu abanjalo, kodwa rhoqo bengaziboni ngohlanga olungenantsingiselo lwempumelelo.