Ezo ziganeko zikhoyo ngoku zijikelezile zitshintshe imini yonke, kunye nemikhwa yazo onke amalungu osapho kunye nezithandwayo. Ijoyine kangakanani kwaye icocekile "ijoyine njani" kwiimeko ezintsha?
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuba ilungu ngalinye losapho, ngakumbi abantwana, likuqonde ukuba kwenzeke ntoni. Ngenxa yoku, kuxhomekeke kubudala bomntwana, kubalulekile ukuba uchaze kangangoko kunokwenzeka, yintoni kanye eyenzeke ngendlela yokuzikhusela ngayo kwaye kutheni le nto inokuthi ikwazi ukuzikhusela ngayo kwaye kutheni le ntsapho ingakhokeli kwindlela yokuphila - umzekelo, yiya epakini, njl . Eyona nto iphazamisayo umntwana-xa ibona ukuba kwenzeka into, into ejikeleze utshintsho, kodwa akathethi ngeenkcukacha. Kule meko, umntwana unokuba nemvelaphi eyandayo ephazamisayo kunye noxinzelelo lweemvakalelo. Ke ngoko, kungcono ukuyicacisa imeko kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kwaye kuyaqondakala ukuba, kwaye nomama, kunye nabanye, yonke into iya kuba yoyika .
Emva kokucaciswa kunye nemithetho emitsha ivakaliswa, ungaqala ukuququzelela ixesha lasimahla.
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Kwangelo xesha, kuya kufuneka uqonde: Ngaphandle kwento yokuba unxibelelwano lube lukhulu, kungcono ukucwangcisa usuku ukuze wonke umntu abe nethuba elinjalo. Ekubeni umntu onxibelelana kakhulu kunxibelelwano unokuchaphazela umgangatho wonxibelelwano. Ukulondolozo kwiNdlu, ungavuma ukuba wonke umntu unelungelo lokuba "abe endlwini". Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuvumelana nabo maqabane: ibhinqa elinxulumene nobukhosi bonke bosapho lonke inani lomsebenzi wasekhaya lihlala liphindwe kathathu, kwaye lihlala endlwini "yindlela ezayo kuwe kwaye uqokelele amandla.
Kwakhona, kangangokuba kwakungekho silingo sokubaleka kunxibelelwano usuku, kungcono ukukhankanya ixesha elivumelekileyo lokuba yedwa. Ngaphandle koko, ukuba umntu "uza" ukubuyisela ixesha elide kakhulu, kwaye nefowuni yezandleni, kunokukhokelela kwiingxabano kunye namabango.
Ewe, emva kokuba inkcazo ephambili inikiweyo, imigaqo ifakiwe, ungaya kwiyantlukwano ngeempelaveki.
Zama ukucwangciswa nabantwana ngeveki yonke kwangethuba: bangathanda ukwenza ntoni? Umzekelo, ngoMvulo-usuku lokuhombisa. I-Napkins, iglue kunye nomzamo omncinci uzakuguqula izinto zakho zesiqhelo zibe ngokwahlukileyo, kwaye isifundo esidibeneyo asisithandi usapho. NgoLwesibini-usuku lokuqhubela phambili kwinqaba kunye neziporho. Inani elikhulu lamaziko olondolozo lwembali, iitshixo, igadi yeBotanical Igadi ehlabathiweyo zilungelelaniswe ngohambo oluqinisekileyo. Fumana into enomdla kubo bonke. NgoLwesithathu-Usuku lwezemidlalo kunye nomdaniso. Fumana iiklasi ezikwi-Intanethi kwaye vula. Kubalulekile ukukhetha izifundo ezinomdla kuwo wonke umntu kwaye "nyule" usuku.
Amathuba amnandi ngokwenene: Ungacwangcisa imilo ye-Cuyility, ikhaya lemidlalo yeqonga okanye ukwenziwa kweethoyi ezivela kwintombazana yentombi-isuka ebongoza ngoboya obuphezulu.
Eyona nto iphambili kukungena kwixesha elifanelekileyo. Khumbula: Kuba sonke, eli lithuba elikhethekileyo lokwahlukana nemeko yakho eyodwa, ukusuka kwiifowuni kwaye kuchithe ixesha lonxibelelwano oluhlala, nto leyo umntu ongenakunelanga kuthi.