Abantu abakhetha ngabom ubomi ngaphandle kwabantwana baphantsi kweyona nto igxekayo eluntwini. Nokuba yeyiphi na imeko yokuqonda, amaxesha ngamaxesha, cela imibuzo efana: "Ewe, nini!", "Ngaba akudinwa ukwenza obu bomi?" njl. Asingawo wonke umlandeli womntwana onokuthi achaze isikhundla sabo ukuba ngamanye amaxesha aqhuba abantu abadandathekileyo. Ukuba kukho umntu ongenamntwana kwindawo engqongileyo, akuyomfuneko ukumbonisa ukuba, kutheni engafuni kuphila ngokweengcamango zakho, kwaye ukuba ukugxekwa zikuxelele imibuzo engenabuchule kungekuko kumgangatho wokwazi nabanye oqhelene nabo.
"Awukacingeli indoda yakho."
Elinye lawona mabinzana athandwayo kumntu ozama "ukuqinisekisa". Uninzi, oku kuyinyani ngakumbi kubafazi, kunzima ukuqonda abanye abantu basetyhini abangaphili yingcinga yabantwana, kubo bagobe indibano ngemfesane 'yendoda engeyiyo "engalunganga". Ngokukhawuleza, siphawula ukuba uphendula ngohlaselo olunje- hayi esona sisombululo silungileyo. Khumbula ukuba amadoda avavanywa kwindawo yokuqala yomntu abaya kuthi bakhululeke, kwaye sele bezama ukuqwalasela umama wabantwana babo bexesha elizayo kumfazi wabo wexesha elizayo kumfazi wabo wexesha elizayo kumfazi wabo wexesha elizayo kumfazi wabo wexesha elizayo kumfazi wabo wexesha elizayo kumfazi wabo wexesha elizayo kumfazi wabo wexesha elizayo kumfazi wabo wexesha elizayo kumfazi wabo wexesha elizayo kumfazi wabo wexesha elizayo kumfazi wabo wexesha elizayo. Ngokubhekisele kwiingcebiso ezivela kwicala, ungaze uzithethelele-kuphela uyazi ukuba kuya kuba ngcono njani kuwe.
Nguwe kuphela owenza isigqibo-ufuna abantwana okanye hayi
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"Kuyintloni ukuba ndiphile ngokuzonwabisa kwakho!"
Kodwa ayivumelekanga naphi na. Awuphumi amalungelo nenkululeko, ungasondeze mntu, kutheni ukhetho lwakho lomntu unelungelo lokugweba? Ngokuqinileyo, kodwa ngaphandle koburhalarhume, chaza umntu ongazukumamela ungcikivo lwakho kwidilesi yakho. Ekugqibeleni, ungumdala.
"UTHIXO WABONISA I-Bunny - Inika Ingqokelela"
Ibinzana elahluleke yimimvo. Kwakhona, kuphela uyakuqonda ukuba yintoni na amandla akho nezemvakalelo, ukuba awukwazi ukubonelela umntu, ngaphandle kwakho, akuyomfuneko ukuba uthathe uxanduva. Ngapha koko, ukwala ukuqala abantwana kungangabinakho ukuzinziswa kwemali, kuba ii-teallfries zenza ukhetho lwabo ngokuzikhethela kunye neengxaki ezibonakalayo azidlali.
"Uza kwenza ntoni kubudala ngaphandle kwabantwana?"
Umntwana okwangoku akasosiqinisekiso sokwaluphala owonwabileyo. Zingaphi iimeko xa abantwana besala abazali xa bengumthwalo kubo okanye kwiintsapho zabo. Ukuba uphila ngokungathi sesona sixeko sikhulu, unawo onke amathuba ukuze ungadingi ubudala-Iinkonzo zentlalo-ntle zisebenza ngokufanelekileyo. Ungaqala umntwana kuphela ukuba ufuna ukunika uthando komnye umntu, kodwa ungalindeli ukufumana inzuzo ngekamva.