Kukholelwa ukuba indoda ngesisa inesisa ngokwemvelo yisayizi enkulu, liphupha lomntu obhinqileyo. Ngokwenyani, abanini besayizi abanomdla banokujamelana neengxaki ezibuthathaka njengabalingane. Ayinguye wonke umntu obhinqileyo ukuba angaphumli kude kube sekupheleni, oko kuthetha ukuba ilungu leqabane libangela ingxaki yokwenyani kwisibini. Yintoni omele uyenze, ukuze isondlo singaguquke saba gadalala? Siya kuxelela.
Sukuthula
Isondo akufuneki ukuba sikhulule, kwaye ke kuyo nayiphi na imeko xa usenza iintlungu, ukungonwabisi ukwazisa indoda yakho. Zama ukuxoxa ngenkqubo: Yitsho amaxesha ekunikezeleni eyona nto ingonwabisiyo kwaye cinga indlela yokwenza le nkqubo ikhululeke kakhulu kuwe. Ukuba umntu akawaboni amazwi akho, cinga malunga nokuba ufanele ulale nomntu onjalo ebhedini, kuba akukho mntu uqinisekisa ukuba kwixesha elizayo xa uza kwenzakala.
Yandisa iSando
Kwimeko apho umntu wakho unobukhulu obukhulu, nikezela ngeemvavanyo ngesantya esikhawulezayo- esi asiyo isihloko sakho. Ukunikezela ngokudibeneyo kwi-20 imizuzu engama-20 ukuze ukwazi ukoyike ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ukuba awusebenzi ngokwaneleyo ukuze uphumle, sebenzisa ioyile eyongezelelweyo. Musa ukukhawuleza.
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Khetha i-qubricant elungileyo
Uninzi lwazo, amantombazana "amakhulu" awazixabisa ngaphandle kokuthathwa kongeziweyo. Ke, unokukuphepha iingxaki ezinkulu njenge-latitudas kunye neekhefu ezinzulu. Khetha amanzi othatyathwayo ukuze ungamonakalisi ikhondom, kwaye kwakhona uphephe ii-coligions ezilalayo-kufuneka uzive xa iqabane lihamba kakhulu kakhulu ukuba lingalimazi.
Khetha i-pose ngononophelo
Kwimeko yakho, ngokucacileyo kufanelekile ukuba "ucanda" ukuma "ukuma, njengoko ungayi kuba nakho ukulawula ubunzulu bokungena. Kwakhona, i-Crder Orgader ayiyi kuba sesona sisombululo silungileyo, unokwenza intshukumo engakhathali kwaye yenzakala ngengozi. Esona sigqibo siyinto "spirerali", esiya kuqinisekisa ukungena okungathethekiyo, ukongeza, akuyi kuba nakho ukuba ungene ngokupheleleyo kwaye ngaloo ndlela uhambise kakhulu.