Sonke siyayazi indlela esisesichengeni sengqondo yomntwana, kwaye ke ngoko ukunyusa umntwana, kubalulekile ukuba siye kulo lonke uxanduva, cinga ngokupheleleyo ngayo yonke into ofuna ukumxelela umntwana wakho. Namhlanje sagqiba kwelokuba sithethe ngamabinzana anobungozi kwinkqubo yemfundo.
"Ungayidli, uya kutshaya"
Ukugxila kwiimpawu eziyingozi zeemveliso ezithile, ukuphefumlela umntwana kuphela, kwimeko engonayo, kwimeko enjalo uya kuba nomnqweno wokutshintsha iimveliso eziluncedo ngakumbi. Isilumkiso esikhethekileyo kufanelekile ukuba sibonisa abazali ngamantombazana amantombazana okwishumi elivisayo abajongana nokugculelwa kwabahlohli malunga nenkangeleko yawo. Endaweni yokupeyinta yonke ingozi ukusuka kwipakethi ye-chips, funda uluhlu lweemveliso eziluncedo nezimnandi kunye nomntwana.
Umntwana unelungelo elipheleleyo lokuziphatha
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"Sukhala"
Ngeyona binzana lithandwayo ukuba umzali ngamnye usebenzisa wonke umzali. Rhoqo inokuviwe kwinkwenkwe, kuba ngabazali abafanayo, "kodwa emva kweminyaka embalwa abazali kuya kufuneka bajamelane neengxaki zengqondo zomntwana wakhe okwishumi elivisayo, ekusetyenzisweni kobuntwana kusetyenziswa gcina yonke into ngokwayo. I-psyche inomda wozinzo, awudingi ukuba ifumane amandla.
"Yonke into oyithethayo, -Ngaba"
Umntwana ngamnye unesihloko awasinokuthi sithethe ngayo ngenene, kwaye uninzi lwabazali lungayixhasi iminqweno yomntwana wabo. Kukho ukungqubana, ngenxa yomntwana anyanzelwa ukuba afune ukuqonda ngaphandle kwendlu, ngubani na owaziyo ukuba amfumane. Nokuba awunamdla koko kuzama ukudlulisela umntwana kuni, ungayivumeli, endaweni yoko, ukuguqulela isihloko, nangona kunjalo, sinika umntwana ukuba athethe.
"Musa ukuziphatha njengomntwana"
Umntwana unokuziphatha njani, ngaphandle kweyabantwana? Uninzi lwabazali lungacingi nokuba. Ewe kunjalo, umntwana okhulileyo uyaba, imisebenzi emininzi iwa emagxeni akhe, kodwa akunyanzelekanga ukuba ifune i-teeder engenzekile - ngeli nqanaba lobomi, ifunda, ukuba liziphathe Njengomntwana - ilungelo lakhe elipheleleyo.