Xa sele ungathandabuzi ukuba umntu akakhathali kuwe, uqonde ukuba uyitola ngendlela efanayo, inzima kakhulu. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise ukuba zeziphi iimpawu ezicetyiswa ukuba nobabini nitsala ngokwasemzimbeni omnye komnye.
Awunakunqula umbona omnye komnye
Iingcali zengqondo ziqinisekile ukuba abantu bafumana umdla omnye komnye, ukuze baqhubeke nokunxibelelana nokujonga kabini ixesha elide njengencoko eqhelekileyo yabaziyo ezimbini. Ukuba abahlobo kwaye baqhele ukuphosa izimvo kuluhlu lwe-40-60% yexesha elipheleleyo lonxibelelwano, abathandi babamba uqhagamshelo lwama-70% ixesha lonke. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kubo ukutshintshela kwabanye abantu okanye ukubamba intsingiselo yencoko. Rhoqo abathanda kakhulu abangafuni kuvuma iimvakalelo zabo, banokubamba ukuba akanakukwazi ukujongisisa kwinto enomnqweno, ngokuqinisekileyo unokukhumbula ibali elinje kubahlobo bakho okanye ngabahlobo bakho.
Iqabane lihlala litshatiswa
Nceda uqaphele ukuba ungasabela njani omnye komnye kwinkqubo yoNxibelelwano: Kunokwenzeka ukuba, uncumo lubhadule ebusweni bakho. Kukwangumqondiso oqinisekileyo wokuba inkampani yakho imnandi emntwini, akanakufihlakala, kodwa akakhathali ukuba usondele kuwe, ngakumbi xa uncumo luhamba nonxibelelwano ngqo - amehlo emehlweni. Nangona kunjalo, kuyo nayiphi na imeko, unokutolika uncumo lwendoda njengesimemo sokulala-Zama ukuvavanya imeko yemeko.
Uyancuma ebusweni omnye komnye
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Yena kwaye uyandothusa
Yimvakalelo yendalo xa sisondele kwinto yokwamkelwa: uziva ngathi uyadlula emzimbeni, kunzima ukuba uqhutyekwe ngamazwi ukuba anikezele, nokuba ayiqhelekanga yakho. Nceda uqaphele ukuba iqabane lakho linexhala, lihlala lilawula ukufihla imincili, kodwa ukuba uyayibona into yokuba amaqabane anokubakho akayifumani indawo yokuba ubonakale ngokubonakala kwakhe, qiniseka - akakhathali kuwe.
Ungathi cwaka ngokuthe cwaka, ukuba kufutshane
Okothusayo kukuba, ngaphandle kokungaqiniseki ezinokuthi ngequbuliso kubonakala kunxibelelwano, unokukhululeka xa uthumela cwaka xa uthumela inkampani. Imvakalelo yokuzola ithi uyonwabela ukuzola ecaleni komntu othile, kwenzeka ntoni kanye apho iqabane lingakuvumanga nala mazwi kwaye ayizukuqonda ngaphandle kwengxoxo emva kwesondo.