Ibinzana elithi "igesi" lavela kutshanje, kodwa wena okanye nabahlobo bakho kusenokwenzeka ukuba bafumana le nto, bengeyiyo eyona fomu iqhuba kakhulu. Eyona nto iphambili kuyo, engomnye wezinto zokubonakalisa ubundlobongela bokomoya, kukwenzela ukuba ixhoba lingafaneleki, ligqwetha iinyani kunye neziganeko. Ewe, hayi kuzo zonke iimeko isebenzise le ndlela, mhlawumbi umhlobo wakho ungayikhumbuli ukuba uhlawule njani. Ukukhanya kwegesi njengendlela yokufaka i-lebutiption ihlala isetyenziswa ngomnye wamaqabane kusapho okanye eluthandweni nje ngesibini, ngaloo ndlela ebambe umntu olandelayo.
Ukukhanya kwegesi kwazalwa emva kokukhululwa kokukhanya kwegesi yomdlalo ("ukukhanya kwegesi"). Icebo lefilimu lijikeleza isibini: umyeni, ukuzama ukufihla imicimbi yolwaphulo-mthetho, kumkele umfazi wakhe ukuba anxibelelane nabanye abantu, amphethe ngalo lonke ixesha. Kubandakanya ukukhanya kwindawo yokuthambisa, ngenxa yokukhanya kokukhanya endlwini kuyaphela. Xa umfazi ethetha ngokukrokrela kwakhe, umyeni uyamtyhilela ukuba axoke, ngenxa yokuba iqhawe lihamba kancinci.
Igesi-indlela ayithandayo yokuqhelanisa nabaxhaphazi kwisibini
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Ukukhanya kwegesi yeyona ndlela uyithandayo yokuphucula abaxhaphazi kwisibini, ngaloo ndlela balawula umrhanelwa ngumrhanelwa. Amabinzana athi "Usabela ngokungaqhelekanga", "Uthetha ngantoni?", "Xa yayikukuhamba, kuya kuphosakele?" -I-satellites esisisigxina kwezi zibini. Ngenxa yoko, umntu uziva enetyala ngeemvakalelo zakhe kwaye, kwiimeko ezigqithisileyo, ufuna uncedo lwengqondo. Obu buchule bufana nokonwabela ngokungakhathali, nto leyo yokukrokrela iqabane lakho kuyamangaliswa kakhulu, ukuzama ukubonisa ukungafaneleki kwawo.
Usebenzisa indlela yokukhanyisa igesi, umntu uzama ukugqwetha ubunyani bomnye umntu, iinyani ezididekileyo okanye ngokubanzi, iziganeko ezikhanyeleni ezenzeka enyanisweni. Umxhaphazi okanye uyakhanyela okwenzekayo ("kwakungekho nto"), okanye inika uvavanyo olubi loluvo lomchasi ("ukuthoba kwaye ungakwenzi oko kwenzekayo (" Iqhelekileyo eqhelekileyo ukuba usabela kakhulu? ").
Kukho iimeko ezininzi ezinokukwenza uqonde ukuba ujongana ne-absurr ezama ukukulawula:
1. Aba bantu bayayazi indlela yokufunda
Kwaye kwenze kakuhle. Konke oku kwenziwa ukuze wenze ukuthandabuza ngawe kwaye emva koko "uqhubekise" njengoko uthanda.
2. Baqala ukwala izibakala.
Nokuba uvile ulwazi ngeendlebe zethu kule ndoda, ungakukhumbula umhla kunye nexesha xa kwenzekile, umntu wangenayo uya kunyamezela, oko kuthetha ukuba ukhona into engeyiyo ngale ndlela. Ukuba imeko enjalo iphindaphindwa amaxesha ngamaxesha, sele uqalile ukuthandabuza ukuba unganelanga.
Okukhona abantu abaninzi baqala ukukuthandabuza, ngcono ukukhanya kwegesi.
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3. Bayazi kakuhle ubuthathaka bakho.
Ukuba unekratshi ngomgangatho wesayensi, umntu oqatha ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukukhumbuza ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye kube kanye akunakubekwa ukuba senze, kwachithwa imizamo yakho. Ikwanikezelwe "kwisosi" kuluhlu lweempawu zakho ezimbi onokuthi ungafumani.
4. Abaxhaphazi ngokuthe ngcembe
Zange khe bagqibele ukuqala ngexesha. Izenzo zabo ziyacingisiswa kwaye zicwangcisiwe - le yinto eyahlukileyo yegesi. Konke kuqalisa kancinci, kunye nezimvo, emva koko kuphuhliswe kwizityholo ezinzulu.
5. Yonke into abayithethayo igxothwe ngezenzo zabo
Nantsi inqaku elibaluleke kakhulu: Jonga okwenzekayo, kwaye hayi le nto uyixeliweyo. Amagama abo awahambi naluphi na uncedo okanye ukwenzakala.
6. Batshintsha amaqhinga
Ukuba ngaphambili bayakulunga, ngoku batshintsha umsindo kuBabalo, ngaloo ndlela bayakuthoba malunga nentembeko nangakumbi. Baqala nje ukuba, uya kuyilibala ngokuthe ngcembe ingqumbo. Kodwa apha bafezekisa isiphumo esifunayo: Uyathandabuza ukuba abanye ngandlel 'ithile bakuphatha.
7. Bafumana abalingane
Kuyamangalisa ukuba, bakhawuleza bakhangele abafowunelwa nabantu abanokuzixhasa ngokwenyani. Ekungabikho kwe-Aduzer ngokwakhe, abantu ababaqhelileyo baya "kubeka endaweni yabo", baxhasa ngokupheleleyo isikhundla seGaladira. Andizange ndikwazi ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani olungileyo, kwaye ngubani na omele tyala, uya kubuyela kolu ntathu, kwaye kule nto, eneneni, yayiyinjongo yakhe.
Sele uqalile ukuthandabuza okwaneleyo
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8. Baza kwenzela wonke umntu ngeenxa zonke owonelanga
Abantu abaninzi baqala ukukuthandabuza, ngcono ukukhanya kwegesi. Kwaye nokuba uhlala ebonakalisa ubundlongondlongo, abantu abasayinye, kuba nina, kuba uMosiza olwenziwe ngumphathi ogqibeleleyo.
Ukwazi zonke ezi ndlela, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba uqaphele umxhaphazi onokubakho kwaye uyeke obu budlelwane kulawulo lwabo.