Inyani yile yokuba uluntu lwanamhlanje lubaluleke kakhulu kwimo yefashoni, ngenxa yoko umntu uyabutshintsha uluvo lwakhe, kuxhomekeke kwindlela uluntu oluyimeko. Ngesizathu esithile, abantu abangxami bangxamisekile ukuba bafumane indawo kunye nonobangela wesenzo esithile, kodwa kuyanyanzeleka ukuba zigwebe iziphumo zenzekileyo. Ndiza kumnika umzekelo olula. Ngenye imini saya kuphumla kwindalo kwaye sasela ibhotile yewayini, esusa ividiyo ehlekisayo ebandakanya ukudanisa, iintlobo zolwaphulo-mthetho kunye ne wayini engagungqiyo. Ividiyo eqhutywa kwi-Intanethi yapapashwa kwenye yeqela le-vkontakte yenethiwekhi. Kwaye ucinga ukuba ucinga ntoni abantu: indalo entle okanye umdaniso ohlekisayo? Injalo loo nto, mabini kuphela "amantombazana ama-aglene engakhathazanga ukususa inkunkuma."
Kwaye ungqina njani ukuba abagxeki buthule, ukuba uninzi lwevidiyo zidlule ngaphambi kokuvulwa kwewayini, kwaye intsalela yedliwayo yayifihliwe kwi-backpack? Kwaye nokuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukubonakalisa "i-fu" yakhe, ngaloo ndlela ibonisa ukuba ingcono kunawe. Kodwa sonke siyaqonda ukuba bambalwa abantu ngoku abakoni iglasi ye wayini! Kwaye ndithe cwaka ngenkunkuma: Ngalo lonke ixesha, ndihamba ndijikeleza isixeko okanye ndihambahamba iintsuku zakhe, ndaye ndinikela ulwahlulo lwe-Newnanders, ukuba ikhona, ke kukho iibhotile kunye neebhotile? Uhanahaniso-okuchaseneyo kubi malunga nento oyenzayo.
Ayilulo uhanahaniso, ubuncinci, ngokunxulumene ngokwakho, ulandele umkhombandlela wefashoni, ukwala ukhetho lobuqu? Ndiyavuma ukuba umntu sisidalwa sayo esidala kwaye uhlala efuna ukuba yinxalenye yento ngakumbi. Mhlawumbi, ke, "ungena" ngohlobo "lwehlelo" (")," ukugxeka "," abagxeki bemfashini "), kwaye ukuze bazazi abanye ngayo (ndingodwa, Kwakhona emfutshane! Mhlawumbi, ngoko sibonisa ukubaluleka kwethu.
Ngokuphathelele isihloko sohanahaniso olunezinto phakathi kwabantu, ke, ngokoluvo lwam, ihlala kuphela ukuze ihule kwaye ikhale. Andizange ndiyiqonde into enye: Kutheni enxibelelana nabantu abangathandiyo, kwaye kutheni uthanda abo bathanda? Izinto ezicacileyo ezineemeko ezahlukeneyo, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi kuya kufuneka udibane nezo ndingathanda ukuzibona rhoqo, kodwa esi asisosizathu sohanahaniso. Kwaye ayisiyo malunga nenyaniso yokuba kubi ... Yimalini, ukuba, amandla achithwayo ekuzameni ukubonakalisa isimo sengqondo esihle, nangona yonke into iqhume ngaphakathi. Ukongeza, kungekudala, nokuba oyena mntu ungenanto uyaqonda ukuba umbha wakhe wajikeleza ngaye, kwaye akukho nto ngaphandle kwehlazo, akasayi kuba nakho ukukufumana oko. Ukuthembela kulula ukuphulukana nokulula, kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukubuyisela. Ke kutheni le nto ihanahaniso? Kwaye ndiza kuzama ukuphendula.
Isiphoso kukuba sonke siphi na indawo kumphefumlo wabahanahanisi boyika. Sisoyika ukuba siya kumka kuthi, singamkeli, siyasoyika ukuba siyaqondwa, ukuhlala wedwa, ekugqibeleni. Kwaye sisoyika ukuba umntu ufunda ngeemvakalelo zethu, kuba kwihlabathi lethu liyinto entle kakhulu ukuba lizimele kwaye lizanele. Ukongeza, wonke umntu amaphupha okuba ngcono kunokuba kunjalo (ukuba awunguye i-idiot, kunjalo). Kwaye kuba abantu abanohanahanisi abanayo inyama yezimvo zabo, bafuna ukukholisa imigwebo yabo ejikeleze abanye, ngaloo ndlela bethembela ukuba baya kuba ngcono emehlweni abo. Kodwa ayisebenzi, ngokunyaniseka ukukuxelela ngokunyaniseka.
Ngaphezulu kokuphumla ukoyikisa uhanahaniso ekupheleni, kubangela ukuba umntu anxibe "imaski" kwaye angawenzi oko akubonayo kuyimfuneko, kodwa yintoni, efuna ukubona uluntu. Abantu abanjalo kulula kakhulu ukuba balawule kwaye bongathu ngokwenene, kuba ibali lingaxelela imizekelo emininzi xa imeko injalo isebenze njengenkonzo embi.
Ngapha koko, i-hyponclocrecrecraws ngokwayo iyazingcatsha. Oko kukuthi, uhanahaniso yinkohliso, ekhokelela kwindawo; Le yinto efana nomkhwa ombi obonakala eququzelela ubomi ekuhlaleni ixesha nje elifutshane, kodwa ekugqibeleni alikhokelela kwinto elungileyo.
Ngaba unokuyithelekelela indlela elula ngayo, ukufuna abantu ukuba bancede? Ewe, ewe, ndingafumana umntu izihlandlo ezininzi ebusweni ngenxa yombono ongafanelekanga malunga nomntu, okanye abanye banokuphulukana nomsebenzi ... kodwa eneneni yonke into yenziwe, yonke into yeyokuqala! Ukuba uyayiqonda, ke abantu abazihanahaniso ngenxa yokuba kungabikho ebomini. Kutheni ungatsho ukuba nonke, nonke abangathandiyo, kwaye bengakwenzi oko kuvuyisa? Indoda ngokwayo ndiyifaka kwikona, kwaye ndingakwazi ukuphuma kuyo, ngenxa yale nto iqala ukwenza izinto ezimbi. Kusoyika, ekutyhafeni.
Ewe kunjalo, ukuba uyayeka ukuganga, ayizukuzicombulula zonke iingxaki, kodwa iya kuba lula kakhulu. Kungathi usentabeni ngepakethi enzima: Ukuba uphulukana nengxowa, kuya kufuneka anyuke ngaphezulu, kodwa kuya kuba lula kakhulu. Ekugqibeleni, ubomi yinto emfutshane, kwaye ngandlel 'ithile isisidenge ukuyisebenzisa kwintshabalalo.