Umthengi wam wangaphambili kunye nentombazana yangoku i-Natashaxelele indlela ababuzwa ngayo oogxa bakhe: kwaye yintoni, uyakuhlala uyikhetha imibala efanayo ngoku? Kwaye ngokufanayo nanye kwezinye izinto?
Kwaye lo mbuzo wabuya waphakamisa indlela eyoyikisayo, uqiqa ngayo "umfazi owahlukileyo" waqala. Kwaye ngalo mzuzu sele ndinombuzo: Ngaba ucinga ukuba iimpahla zikwenza wahlukile?
Ubuso bobomi bethu bonke buyafana, kwaye sonke sahlukile yonke imihla. Ngokoluvo lwam, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuzaliswa, yintoni esiyizalisayo. Akukho zinxibo ziya kwenza umntu akhanyise kwaye anomdla ukuba akananto yokwabelana nabanye. Kodwa likho ithuba lokunxiba, eligxininisa isimilo sakho, ubuntu bakho, kwaye yindlela yokutsala abantu bakho. Impahla yekhadi lakho leshishini, ukuze wenze umbono wokuqala.
Kutheni ungabakhumbuli abanye abantu emva kokuba umntu okamaziyo okokuqala? Umfanekiso wabo awubonakali kakhulu ukuba ufuna ukuqaqamba-mayibe iimpahla zakho zithetha malunga nesimo sakho, indalo kunye nendalo.
Mhlawumbi yoyikisa ukuba iimpahla ziya kuqala ukuthetha ngenxa yakho kwaye zinike zonke iimfihlakalo. Nangona kunjalo, khawufane ucinge ukuba awusayi kuphinda udine ukunxiba imaski yonke intlanganiso kunye nabahlobo okanye abantu abaqhelileyo.
ISeminar yakho, ndaye ndaba nemlongo yokuqonda kwam, amandla okufunda inkangeleko yakho, kwaye, kwaye, khetha impahla efanelekileyo.
Ukuzilolonga yile: Thumela esipilini, kunokuba mncinci, umzekelo, kwiintshaba, kwaye umjonga. Funda ukuba ubuso bakho busotywe njani, yeyiphi imigca, unjani amehlo akho, unjani amehlo akho, ithini impumlo, njengokuba i-ebobrow. Chaza yonke into oyibonileyo kwiphepha - amagama, ezi. Inyathelo elilandelayo kukwenza ikholaji, usike kwi-themarion theman ezibonakalayo ezo zinto, ngokoluvo lwakho, phinda imigca oyibonileyo ebusweni bakho. Guqula ukuba uyithanda kangakanani ikholam yomphumo, zeziphi iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezibangela.
Umthambo onjalo unokuvula izinto ezininzi ezintsha kuwe, uya kunceda ukuthathela ingqalelo inkangeleko yakho ukuba kukho into enganelisiyo ngaphambili.
Kwaye iziphumo zethu zabelana ngamagqabantshintshi kweli nqaku. Ndiya kuvuya kakhulu ukuba ndibabone kwaye ndixoxe.
I-Karina Effimova, ingcali ekudalweni kweWadi ye-Ward