Amantombazana amaninzi, elungiselela umtshato, afanekisela oko kunokwenzeka. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kuwo onke amabali eentsomi, isikhulu kunye nenkosazana etshatileyo kwaye sihlala konwabile de kube sekupheleni kwemihla yabo. Kodwa ubomi bokwenyani bunye. Awunako ukuthi ulinde ngokuchaseneyo nolindelo lwakho, endaweni yoko, uya kudinga umyeni olixesha elizayo ukuze aqhelane, oko kusengqiqweni kakhulu.
Ukuba eli liqabane lokuqala ohlala kunye naye, kwinqanaba lokuqala ungamothusa, ngezinye izinto ongavumelaniyo. Ukuba imali yangaphambili yeyakho, ngoku kuya kufuneka usasaze uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali. Ukongeza, umntu uya kuvela endlwini yakho ngombono wakhe, kwaye kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo. Konke oku akukho lula, kodwa kuphela kwinqanaba le-ke ebizwa ngokuba "yi-Sules", emva kwethuba uya kulungelelanisa omnye komnye, kwaye iingxaki ezininzi ziya kuhamba ngokwazo.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukugcina umtshato kwiminyaka yokuqala, njengoko eli lelona xesha linzima xa isilingo sikhulu ukuyeka yonke into, hayi. Ezinye izithintelo ziya kuvela, kodwa zinokoyiswa yimizamo edibeneyo. Siza kubalisa ngeempazamo ezixhaphakileyo ezinokuthi zithintelwe ukuba uyazi iimfihlo ezincinci.
Ukuba imbambano enkulu iyakhulisa, intombi ayiyondawo yetafile yosapho
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Akukho sidingo sokuxabana nendoda ngenxa yemali
Ulutsha olunobuchule aluxoxe kwimiba ebonakalayo ngaphambi komtshato. Kwaye lilize. Icala lezezimali lokuphila kunye yenye yezona zibalulekileyo, kuba kuya kufuneka wakhe ubomi obudibeneyo. Kuya kufuneka ucele kwangaphambili ukuba zeziphi izimvo ezenziwa yindoda yakho yexesha elizayo ngemali. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba usetyenziselwa ukuchitha imali enomdla kuwe, kuya kufuneka thethane ukuxoxa ngokusasazwa kwezemali.
Ungaxeleli iqabane lakho
Ewe kunjalo, akukho mfuneko yokuba inikezele ngokupheleleyo ziimfihlakalo zakho - inokutshabalalisa ngosapho, kodwa kuphela ukuba imfihlakalo yakho ibingqokelela yokuphuma. Ngamanye amaxesha, xa uza kuthatha isigqibo esibalulekileyo: Ukuthengwa kwefanitshala, ucwangciso lweholide, kunye nokucwangciswa komntwana, -kuba kuya kufuneka ulumkise umyeni wakho, kuba ngoku ungolunye usapho. Ukuba wenze ukungaziphathi kakuhle, apho uneentloni, kodwa akukho nto "yolwaphulo-mthetho", kule meko ikufanele neqabane. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ekugqibeleni Wasazi yonke into.
Qinisa abahlobo bakho ekusombululeni imibuzo yosapho
Unokuba nentombi esondeleyo, ogama likuhlala lumamele, kodwa ngoku une-othandekayo elingaphezulu kobuhlobo bakho. Ukuba imbambano enkulu iyakhulisa, intombi ayisiyondawo emva kwetafile yosapho. Okokuqala, ayizazi zonke izinto ezinqabileyo zolwalamano lwakho, kwaye icebiso lakhe alinakuba nenjongo. Okwesibini, kukho abafazi abangomntu abazama ukutshabalalisa ubomi bomnye umntu, ukuzisa inkxwaleko kunye noRugan kwintsapho yomhlobo. Asikhuthazi ukuba siphelelwe bubudlelwane obunobuhlobo, sibaluleke kakhulu, ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yosapho, sabelane namanqanaba obomi ukuze bancinci, kodwa abaguqukiyo konke.
Ukuba eli liqabane lokuqala ohlala kulo, kwinqanaba lokuqala ungathandabuza
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Correfe umntu
Kuba ngoku sele lusapho, ke kufuneka lube ngumbuzo oqhelekileyo. Ngokwemvelo, inye kuni ineemfuno zabo kunye nezinto ozithandayo, isiqingatha sakho kufuneka sibahlonele. Ukuba uzama ukulungisa umntu, emva koko ujongane nobudlelwane bakho kwizinto ezisisigxina, kwaye akukho kude noqhawulo mtshato. Zama ukufumana ukulalanisa, masithi, iqabane lakho liyayithanda ibhola, kwaye awunakuyima, inyamalala kwizinto zezaphetha. Akudingeki ukummangalela kwiimpawu zomhlaba ezingalunganga, zama ukuya kumdlalo, kholwani ndim, uya kuwuxabisa isenzo kunye nexesha elizayo uya kufikelela nawe.
Ukugcina ubudlelwane obulungileyo kunye nabantu obathandayo, awudingi ukufunga
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Mamela ingcebiso yezalamane
Kwanangaphambi kokuba utshintshe amakhonkco, izalamane kumacala omabini ziya kuba nomdla kwizicwangciso zakho kwaye zama ukwenza uhlengahlengiso lwazo. Uya kuyiva imibuzo efana nale: "Uza kuzala nini?", "Phola phi kwiholide?", "Xa uthenga igumbi?" Kwaye ngesiqhelo ayisiyo ingcebiso nje, kodwa inkcazo ekhohlakeleyo yembono yakhe. Ukusindisa ubudlelwane obulungileyo kunye nabantu obathandayo, akudiki ukufunga, ngobunono uxelele ukuba uyivile izimvo zabo, kodwa uya kwenza njengoko uthatha isigqibo nomyeni wam. Nantoni na elungileyo yayiyinjongo yezalamane, kuya kufuneka uphile ubomi kwindawo yakho.