Nawuphi na umzali ufuna ukukhusela umntwana wabo kwintlungu, ukuphoxeka kunye neempazamo. Nangona kunjalo, oonontlalontle bathi, banqatshelwe ukuya kubantwana ezinye izinto, asizenzanga kwintsikelelo, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, sibathintela ngokwamanqanaba kwaye sibenze baqiniseke. Ewe kona, ukunqongophala okungesiphelo kufuneka, kodwa umntwana wakho makabize ngakumbi, kwaye uya kuba nombulelo ongazenzisiyo kwikamva.
- Ininzi kakhulu
Abantwana banenqaku elimangalisayo lokubuza umbuzo ongalindelekanga kwinqanaba elingalunganga. Musa ukuhlazisa umntwana wakho. Uyazazi ihlabathi, kwaye uzibuza yonke into, kwanento oyibonayo ingabalulekanga.
Funda naye
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Ewe kunjalo, kunzima ukucoca intlanzi kwaye ichaze imingxunya emnyama kwindawo, kwaye nokuba awukabinayo ne-Astronomy esikolweni. Kodwa lo ngumzali oqatha ngumzali. Hlala kunye nomntwana kwaye ujonge iimpendulo kwimibuzo yakhe kwi-Encyclopedia. Mfunde ngakumbi, uya kwandandisa kungekuphela nje, kodwa neyakho. Ukongeza, ixesha elidibeneyo elisebenzayo linceda ukuseka unxibelelwano olusondeleyo nosana, oluya kuqhubeka iminyaka emininzi. Ukuba ngumntwana okwishumi elivisayo, inzala yakho ayisayi kuphinda ijonge iimpendulo kubahlobo bakho kwintendelezo, kodwa iya kucela uncedo kuwe.
- Khala
Indoda encinci ayinawo amava amancinci, ukhubekiwe kwaye uChagrin kunokuba umntu omdala. Ukujamelana nje neemvakalelo zakho, akazi ukuba azifihle njani. Kwangelo xesha, siva ngoku, "omkhulu, kwaye ukugquma njengentombazana kuhlazo." Ngenxa yoko, inkwenkwana yakho enenkalipho ivalwa yona kwaye iya kuhlala ibuhlungu, kuba kulihlazo.
Thatha iiplanga ezingalweni zakho kwaye uphile
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Qaphela umntwana okwenzekileyo, mncede asindile intlekele yabantwana, ezolile. Ukukhala akunazintloni ngamanye amaxesha nabantu abadala.
- Yenza ingxolo
Uvuyo lwabantwana lungakhawulezi kwaye luvakale kakhulu kangangokuba ungayenza. Ewe, ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuvakalisa ngokukhawuleza, ukubaleka kwi-tetro gogons, ayimthandi nabani na, kodwa kwenye indawo epakini - kutheni kungenjalo? Makazindulule, amhleke, ahleke, unengxaki yokuphela kobutsha, kwaye unelungelo layo.
Hleka kunye nomntwana
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- Yiba nesithuba sakho
Umntwana ayisiyopropathi yakho, kodwa umntu ohlukileyo, okwabaninzi abazali abalityelwe. Unelungelo lokufumana umbono wakhe, ukwala nantoni na kwaye wenza into ayifunayo. Omdala umntwana, kokukhona efuna ukuba yedwa, unokufumana iimfihlo zakho kuwe. Hlonipha indawo yakhe, ke uya koyisa ukuthembana komntwana.
Umntwana ngokwakhe unokukhetha abahlobo bakhe
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- Ayilunganga
Umntu wakho omncinci ufunda nje ukuhlala, ungamphazamisi, uzama ukwenza into. Ewe kunjalo, uya kugubungela ukuba ucocekile ngokukhawuleza kwaye womelele, kodwa kukho abakwishumi elivisayo abangazange bafunde ukwenza le nto kwiminyaka eli-12 ukuya kweli-14. Umntwana wethu wezenzo ezingachanekanga okanye isiphumo esingaphumelelanga, unokubetha nje wonke umnqweno wakhe wokuzama ukwenza into ngokwakho. Sithanda abantwana bethu ukuba bafundisise kwezinye iimpazamo zabantu, kodwa, ewe, ngaphandle kokuyibeka ngaphandle kwe-cone, banokuphulukana nobomi obuninzi.
Vumela umntwana engalunganga
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