Ndiqokelele icebiso labathengi bam ngaphambili - abatshati kunye nemilo, nabo esilungiselele umbhiyozo wawo, kwaye iindawo ezazisasazwa kwinani leempendulo.
1. Musa ukuhlehlisa yonke imihla yokugqibela. Ukusukela ngolu suku lokuqala, qala ukucinga ngalo lonke ixesha-ngaphambi kokuba khetha indawo yombhiyozo, umfoti, isixhobo sevidiyo, umququzeleli, umnxibelelanisi, kwaye ukhethe isuti kunye nokunxiba. Kwaye zonke izinto ezincinci zicebisa uMtshakazi, kuyimfuneko ukucinga kungaphantsi kwenyanga ngaphambi komtshato. Mna, njengomququzeleli, cebisa ukuba uqale ucinga yonke into encinci kunenyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kosuku oluhle, nakaphambi koko. Emva koko uya kuba mhle.
2. Indawo ebekulindelwe kakhulu kolu phononongo: "Musa ukoyika ukutsala umyeni ukuba alungiselele, enyanisweni, amadoda athanda ukuzibandakanya." Enye intombazana ibeka okubhalwe kule nto: "Zama ukutsala uMbutho womyeni, nokuba ubuya kuthatha. Khumbula ukuba lo ngumncedi wakho wokuqala kumtshato ozayo. " "Ukulungiselela umtshato luvavanyo olukhulu lwesibini. Mhlawumbi, kwananye nje ufuna ukohlukana kakhulu, kodwa amandla owasebenzisayo, eyona inzima kwaye inomdla kwaye inomdla kwaye iya kuba luhlobo lwakho ngakumbi, eyomeleleyo iya kuba lulwalamano lwakho kwixesha elizayo. " Ngequbuliso, kodwa ngokwenyani. Ndiqaphele ukuba izibini ezilungiselela ukubhiyozela kunye kwaye zidlule olu vavanyo (kakuhle, hayi indlela yokulungisa iholide kwaye siye kusondela kwiholide ukuba ihambe iye "igolide embindini, ethi Ngokungathandabuzekiyo uyanceda ebomini.
Amantombazana asele atshatile, anyanzele ukuba angazenzele yonke into ngokwabo, kodwa utsala umdla kwinkxalabo yomtshato. Ifoto ngumbhali.
3. "Ungacingi malunga nokusingqongileyo - ungakhathazeki malunga nokuba ngubani onokuthi. Ukonwabela! Olu lusuku lwakho lokuzalwa - usuku lwakho lokuzalwa! Kwaye ukuba umntu akayithandi into, ke ziingxaki zakhe. " Ewe, ayizukusebenza, kodwa ukuba iskripthi inomdla, kwaye imini ipeyintiwe ngokufanelekileyo, nokuba eyona nto ikhathazayo iyakudumisa ngokulungiselela iholide enjalo!
4. Ngomhla womtshato, ungakhathazeki ukuba into ethile iza kwenza okungalunganga, akukho nto inokutshintshwa, kungcono ukukhathalela iintlungu zakho kwaye ukonwabele okwenzekayo. Iprojekhthi yemitshato emininzi, ndingatsho ngokuzithemba ukuba akukho mitshato ifanelekileyo - ukulibaziseka kwi-ofisi yobhaliso akuxhomekekanga kuye nabani na, i-jams yendlela inokuvela kweyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuphepha ingozi yichaphazele imeko encinci yosuku, khetha ixesha okanye uqhekeze imood.
5. Kwaye le nto i-Derideds edideki inyanzelisa ngaphandle kokukhetha- ukwenzela ukuba uMnxibelelanisi asemtshatweni. Lo ngumntu oza kusombulula bonke ubugcisa kwaye uhlala evele iimeko ezingalindelekanga, eziza kunceda uMtshakazi kunye nomyeni ukuze baphumle kwaye bayakuqinisekisa ukuba i-limousine kwindawo, amakhonkco kunye nepasipoti ayilibaleki, iindwendwe nge Uncumo luhlangatyezwane, ikhekhe iziswa, ukukhokela kufika ngexesha kwaye sele bekulungele ukuqala umbhiyozo. Nazi ezona nkcazo zineenkcukacha, kutheni ufuna umlungelelanisi:
-Nika umntu oza kuthetha neendwendwe apho azokwenza ntoni, eyokuhlala phantsi kwemoto, ukuba ingakanani indlu yangasese, apho kungabikho mntu Ukusondela kuwe ngemibuzo kwaye akuphazamisa.
-Ukuyilela ukubhiyozela ukuba kungalibaleki ngokwenene kwaye ukwazile ukuba ngumtshakazi owonwabileyo, uhlaziyekile kwaye unentliziyo ecocekileyo, ungayigqume ngengxaki kunye neengxaki zombutho, ufihle umququzeleli womdibaniso!
-Ungazilandeli zonke ngosuku lomtshato - fihla umlungelelanisi, ngalo mhla uya kufuneka ngumntu oza kuzisombulula zonke iingxaki.
"Musa ukubambelela kubo bonke ngomhla womtshato - fihla umlungelelanisi, ngalo mhla uya kufuneka ngumntu oza kuzisombulula zonke iingxaki." Ifoto ngumbhali.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, icebiso ezimbalwa kumtshakazi - zange bangeniswe kwihlanu, kuba bengaphindwanga, kodwa kubonakala ngathi, bafuna ingqalelo kwaye bancede abatshati kunye nomyeni:
Uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali kunye nombono wosuku lomtshato;
- Ukwenza izipho kwiindwendwe, ubeke umphefumlo kubo;
-Ixesha lokubhaliswa alikho ngaphambili ngaphezulu kweeyure ezili-12 zosuku (ixesha lemirhumo aliyi kuhlala);
-Ukuba awufuni iindwendwe ukuba eze e-jean, ungabhalela ukuba unekhowudi yokunxiba;
-Ngaba livila kwaye ulungiselele "umdaniso wokuqala" - kakhulu ngexhala, kodwa inkumbulo yobomi bam bonke kunye nabazali!
-Ngaba livila, yenza umyeni wakho okanye umbuko omangalisayo (ikhaphethi kwimibala oyithandayo, isibhengezo esithandekayo kunye neefoto zakho, ngokubanzi, into eqaqambileyo). Ndikholelwe, uya kulukhumbula kunye kude kube ngoyena mdala;
-Ukuhlaziya kwaye kwifoto nayo;
-Ukuya kumgca wesiko, ukuba awufuni ukuzijonga! Olu lusuku lwakho! Ukonwabela!
-Cwangcisa umtshato, ukhangela iintlobo ngeendawo ezinezinto ezenziwe ngesandla, kubandakanya izimemo. Kwaye utyelele imiboniso yomtshato-Kulula, iingcali ezininzi kwindawo enye kunye nezaphulelo kwezona nkonzo zibalaseleyo kunye neemveliso zomtshato.
Musa ukoyika ukwenza iifoto ezikhululekileyo - eyona nto iphambili kukuba akukho mntu unesithukuthezi! Ifoto ngumbhali.
Enkosi kuye wonke umntu ofumene ixesha kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kolu phando! Ndiyathemba ukuba umsebenzi wethu nawe uza kunceda abaninzi bacwangcise owona mbhiyozo ungalibalekiyo ebomini bakho!
Umnxibelelanisi womtshato U-Olga Marandi