Ngoncedo lweevoti, awunakwenza nje umbono, kodwa nokufezekisa utshintsho olubalulekileyo ebomini. Skno uqhuba izwi, uyakwazi ukuvela emehlweni omntu kanye onqwenela ukuba yiyo.
Kwangelo xesha, uninzi lwethu alunazintloni lokubonisa iingcinga ngaphandle koloyiko azinakuhlangabezana nemincili, kwaye ke zama ukungatsaleli ingqalelo. Ngenxa yoko, umntu onjalo uhlala ephosa ithuba elifanelekileyo kubomi bakhe kunye nomsebenzi. Ukongeza, bambalwa abantu abafuna ukunxibelelana nomntu okhethekileyo kwi-hump. Musa ukoyika ukuveza, makungabi naso isithethi esinobuchule, kodwa yonke into isezandleni zakho, kuya kufuneka ufune.
Isandi selizwi lethu sixhomekeke njani?
Le nkalo iphenjelelwa zizinto ezininzi - ukusuka kwi-fiologlog ukuya kwindalo yethu. Nangona kunjalo, kumandla akho ukuthabatha eyakho i-timbreble, imvakalo-mali iphantsi kolawulo, vumelana, kwintloko yenkampani okanye, umzekelo, intloko yesebe okanye, umzekelo, iNtloko yeSebe ibalulekile ukuba ikwazi ukuphatha abantu abo. Ukuba uthatha isikhundla sobunkokeli, enye yezinto eziza kuqwalaselwa, ukuba ulithetha kakuhle ngelizwi.
Musa ukoyika ukuveza iingcinga zam
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Ilizwi kunye nobomi bobuqu: Ngaba lukhona?
I-them yobuqhetseba enzulu ithetha malunga namandla omntu, akukhathali ukuba ndifuna ukuthobela, ubuncinci inxenye yengqondo yengqondo yethu ayinakuvumelana noku. Kwinqanaba elingaphantsi lengcaciso, eli bhinqa livakalelwa kukuba indoda enjalo inokukhulelwa kwinzala esempilweni, kwaye ngenxa yoko abantu ababhekisa ngobuchule ilizwi labo baziwa kakhulu ngabantu besini esahlukileyo.
Kwangelo xesha, akunakwenzeka ukuba ungathatheli ingqalelo kumjikelo wesetyhini: njengokuba oochwephesha bengqondo bafumanise ukuba, kwiintsuku ezahlukeneyo umjikelo wamadoda anokutsalwa kumadoda ahlukeneyo, ngexesha le-ovulation, umfazi ufumana ingqalelo kumadoda anayo Ilizwi eliphantsi, kwaye emva kweveki emva kwe-ockching elinokuthi litsale amadoda athobekileyo abonisa iimvakalelo ezithambileyo kuye kwaye abe ne-chabk ethambileyo.
Bathini abafazi?
Umgangatho obuthathaka uhlala uphawula izwi eliphezulu kunelo lamadoda, elinokubangelwa yindalo - amadoda ngokwenyani, njengoko efuna ukuzikhusela, enyanisweni, eneneni, yenye ye Imisebenzi yamadoda ngokunxulumene nesiqingatha sesibini. Nangona kunjalo, phezulu, ngamandla, ilizwi labantwana, linokuba sisiphazamiso esinzulu ekukhuthazeni ileli yomsebenzi, kuba kunzima ukucinga ukuba umphathi wakhe ongenalo ilizwi lakhe. Ewe kunjalo, ukuba awukakhuli emsebenzini, ityala alisoloko lililizwi, kwaye, ukuba ufaka isicelo sesithuba, apho kunikelwa iimpawu zobunkokeli, zenza ukuba kubekho izwi, ukuze kungadutyulwe Iimeko zoxinzelelo kwaye ke zivakale ukuzithemba kungekuphela nje kwimikhosi yakhe, kodwa kwakhona ikhuthaza umbono kubasebenzi, ukuba uyindoda ofuna ukuya kuyo.
Ngobudlelwane bobuqu, nokuba lungangqinelani, njengelizwi eliphantsi labasetyhini kunye nenani eliphantsi, aliyi kuba nakho ukuphembelela ukutsala umdla wendoda ukuba inomdla kakhulu kuwe, kwaye ke akufanelekanga ukuba nexhala kakhulu loo nto Ingqokelela yakho ayingabikho njengoko igqityiwe, njengoko, masithi, i-Orvice yakho ithandileyo-umntu okuthandayo akasayi kugxeka ukuba uyabiza kuye.
Ngaba kufanelekile ukuba basebenze ngokunzulu kwilizwi lakho, ukuba ayonelisekanga yizahlulo kunye neyexesha?
Ewe kunjalo, kunzima ukutshintsha into enikezwe ngokwemvelo, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba uqhuba umnqweno onamandla. Ngoku unokufumana izifundo ezininzi ekuthetheniyo, kubandakanya inkonzo yokwenziwa kwelizwi ebonelelwa kwizifundo ezibambeleyo kwiithiyetha-lapho uya kufunda nje i-chminal ye-xessine, kodwa ikwasusa i-chminal yendalo eyokuthatha inyathelo lokuqala ebomini bakho kwaye intsimi yobungcali. Musa ukoyika kwaye uzitshintshe, uya kubona ukuba kuya kubakho njani utshintsho oluqinisekileyo!