Xa sicinga ngemizobo yabantwana, amehlo akhawuleza ahamba njengabantwana ngamanye amaxesha abonisa ootata noMama ngokwahlukileyo. Kwenzeka ukuba uMama kule mizobo ubonakala ngathi sisidenge esikhulu ngezandla ezininzi, njengoShuva, noTata, ngokuchaseneyo, bathathwe umoya onobungozi. Kwaye oku akumangalisi, ezandleni zoomama, ukusebenza kwentsapho kuhlala kugxilwe, kubandakanya imfundo yesi sizukulwana sincinci. Upopu ubuxoki ngokusisiseko umsebenzi wenkxaso yemali yesibane.
Namhlanje, izimo zengqondo eziya kwindima kusapho ziyatshintsha. Abafazi bayaba ngaphezulu kwezikhundla eziphezulu, ziyafumana ngokwaneleyo kwaye azihlali zinethuba lokuzimela emntwaneni. Amadoda ayanda ebonakalisa inyathelo lokuqala kunye nomnqweno wokuthatha inxaxheba ngokupheleleyo ebomini bomntwana wabo. Ewe kunjalo, ezo ntsapho, apho umntwana wakho anyamezele ngokupheleleyo kumfazi, kodwa ufuna ukwandisa umyeni wakhe kule nkqubo, kuba kunokwenzeka ukukhulisa ubuntu obunesidima kuphela xa bobabini abazali besenzakalisa ekukhuleni kwakhe. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubandakanya utata ekunyamekeleni umntwana kunye nokukhuliswa kwawo kude kube lixesha lokukhanya.
I-olga romiv
1. Sukuthatha konke
Ukuzalwa komntwana kuvakalisa isixa esikhulu soxanduva kumfazi ngamnye, nto leyo, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka komhlaba kunye nokudakumba kweposi, abafuni ukubabelana nabo kunye nabayeni babo. Ngapha koko, ayingawo onke amadoda avutha ngumnqweno wokuvuka ebusuku ukuya kumntwana othenjiweyo okanye otyiweyo kumxube womxube, osafuneka ekuphepheni, upholile, galela kwibhotile esetyenziswayo. Amadoda anjalo ahlala elungele le meko ukuba ekuseni kufuneka baye eofisini, apho baya kufumana imali yosapho, ngoko badinga iholide epheleleyo. Ngokungathi ubeke nje umfazi owayengafuneki. Ewe, imali iyadingeka, kwaye umyeni anyuke, kodwa emva komsebenzi okanye ngeempelaveki ongakuthinteli ekuziseni umntwana wakho. Ukuqubha, ukutshintsha kweedrain, ukuhamba-kuya kufuneka uphumle, udiniwe. Ke ngoko, ngenkalipho umntu wegunya lam kwindoda yakhe kwindoda yakhe, kwaye makaye ave ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba ngumzali. Ukongeza, ukumiliselwa kweemvakalelo zooyise kwenzeka kuphela xa uBawo echitha ixesha nomntwana.
2. Xoxa yonke imibuzo kunye
Ukulwa ngobusuku nemini, amazinyo emihla ngemihla, amazinyo ehoyo, ukutsiba, akufuneki kwakhiwe i-komsomolets-volontier. Sukukhanyisa ubunzima bakho, thetha ngokudinwa. Indoda ngokwayo ayizukuqonda ukuba unzima kwaye ufuna uncedo. Kuphela kukuba akathethi ngale ngxaki, uya kucinga ukuba akanguye: unjani kwaye umhle kakhulu ngento yonke abayinyamezelayo. Kwaye oku akunjalo- ufuna uvelwano, uncedo olunelisayo kunye nenkxaso.
3. Yabelana ngeemvakalelo ezintle
Umntwana akalosibambiso lweengxaki, kodwa uthando, ulonwabo kunye noyolo. Qiniseka ukuba wabelana nomyeni wakhe kunye nomyeni wakhe, kuba usemsebenzini kwaye konke ukuphelela kolonwabo akazi. Ke ngoko, yenza iifoto kungekuphela kwi-Instagram kuphela, kodwa ethembekile yakho - mayiphiko ukuba ivuye, icinga ikratshi, ukuba nenye indlela entle ngayo.
Ukuqulunqwa kweemvakalelo zookhokho kwenzeka kuphela xa utata echitha ixesha nomntwana
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4. Musa ukugxeka
Ewe, amadoda enze yonke into ephosakeleyo. Awukhange uncume iesile yomntwana nge-cream, musa ukunxiba umnqwazi esitratweni, hayi okwelo manani agalela igwebu ebhafini. Kodwa ngaba akukho mama wakho akatsho ukuba ukuba uyamgxeka umntu, uya kuyeka into. Ke ngoko, yeka ukuhlwayela i-negatine, zama ukufumana enye indlela yokubonisa umyeni wakho, njengoko kufanele ukuba nothando, ngobunono, ngokungagungqiyo, ngothando.
5. Wamkelekile INDLELA
Yima emva kwakhe ukulungela ukulungela, ngelixa etshintsha iidayiri okanye ehlamba umntwana: ngokwakhe uyayiqonda ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ulumke, emva koko uya kuyitya nge-guts. Masenze umyeni wakhe inkululeko engakumbi, yenza into ukuze ungabi nexhala. Ujonga, uya kuva kwaye aqalise ukuthatha inyathelo lokuqala.
6. Khuthaza, udumise, uyixabise indoda yakho
Okokuqala, indoda ifuna imvakalelo yokuba uyayixhasa ukuba zonke izinto azenzileyo, kwaye uyayihlonela. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sichaze kwaye sidumise umntu wakho. Ke kwenziwa uMgaqo-nkqubo wentsapho olungileyo. Ungalibali ukubandakanyeka kuwo kwaye umntwana, thetha ngokuvakalayo, eguquka kuye, owenza ngantoni kwaye yintoni ekufuneka uyenza umzekelo.
7. Sika ixesha kunye
Enye indlela yokukhuthaza nokuseka ubudlelwane bosapho lixesha kunye. Rhoqo, thina, abafazi, sigxile kubo bonke umntwana, kwaye amadoda angazivanga ixesha ngeli xesha. Kubonakala kubo ukuba babekho ngokwahlukeneyo kuwe kunye nomntwana, kwaye umsebenzi wabo kuphela ukuzisa umvuzo kwikhibhodi, kwaye oku akulunganga. Uxakeke nje usana-wena ngoku yinombolo ye-1. Kodwa okwangoku, ukugcina ubudlelwane obulungileyo malunga nomyeni othandekayo, akufuneki uyilibale kwaye uyila into yendlela yokudibanisa - kunye.