Ukukhangela kwamaphupha endoda, abafazi bahlala bewela "kwinethiwekhi" yamadoda e-polygamous engakhange ajonge ubudlelwane obukhulu. Amadoda anjalo acacisa indlela abaziphethe ngayo ekungakwazini ukugxila kwibhinqa elinye, sityhafile kwindalo. Nangona kunjalo, iingcali zengqondo azinakuvuma nale nto. Kodwa umfazi unokuqonda njani ukuba umntu ongakufanelekeliyo ukuchitha ixesha phambi kwakhe, kwaye ngubani osaya kumshiya, kamsinya nje afuneke?
Uhlala uva abanye abantu basetyhini
I-Lolice kunzima ukuthintela xa ibona intombazana enomtsalane. Ngapha koko, akasokuze agxeke, ngokuchasene noko, ayiyi kuba nakho ukungangqinisi, kwaye ngamadoda anjalo athanda ukwenza ukubaluleka kwe-velgar. Ewe, umntu ngamnye utsala ubuhle obuhle ubuhle obuya kuba kwindawo yokubonakala kwabo, kodwa uninzi lwazo lunokuzigcina lubukhoboka, ukuba umntu wakho akakhathalelanga indlela oziphatha ngayo, wena Ngokucacileyo ungummeli wo "gegran ze-casanov".
Injongo yakhe kukukutsala ebhedini ngokukhawuleza
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Awukwazi kwanto ngaye
Indoda engacwangcisi ubudlelwane obude ayokuze ikuyekelele ebomini bakhe. Ubuninzi apho ukufikelela khona kuya kuvulwa lilibhedi layo. Rhoqo, le ndoda ixelela igama nefowuni, kodwa kule nto yonke: Akayi kukumemela ukuba undwendwele, kodwa kwangaxeshanye unokuchitha endlini, angakunyanzeli ukuba kunjalo Ukwaphula umlindi ekungeneni kokucacisa ubudlelwane, kulula kakhulu ukuba i-abyss nje xa inkanuko ihamba phakathi kwakho.
Uzama ukutshintshela "ngokukhawuleza
Nawuphi na umntu obalulekileyo uluvo lwakho ngaye akasayi kubeka kuwe kwaye uyakoyika ukwenza umbono ombi. Kodwa hayi ukuba unomdla kuye njengenkosikazi kwiinyanga ezininzi. Njengommiselo, ii-loves ziya kunxibelelwano olusondeleyo kusuku lokuqala: Uzama ukunqanda uye kuye, qalisa, iindlwana zinikwa ukugqiba ngokuhlwa "kwindawo emnandi." Injongo yezilwanyana kukufezekisa ukusondelelana nazo zonke iindleko, kwaye ucinga ntoni ngayo - ayimkhathazi.
Uya kuzama ukukukholisa
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba umntu otyebileyo akakhathali ukuba ucinga ngayo, kwangaxeshanye uya kuba nokusebenza ebomini bakho. Hayi iqhinga elibi, vumelana. Ekuqaleni, kusenokubonakala ngathi uyakhathazeka ngokwenene, kutheni ulusizi, uza kuzama ukukuhleka kwaye unyuse imvakalelo, kwaye isebenza into enomdla - iyasebenza kwinkoliseko yakhe. Umfazi uziva njengendoda, ethatha isimo sakhe sengqondo. Eli khoboka lifezekisiwe. Ukufumene indawo yakho, kuya kuba lula kakhulu kuye ukunciphisa ubudlelwane bakho kwindawo esondeleyo.
Uhlala enyamalala
Indoda engakwazi ukuthatha isigqibo malunga nokukhetha komfazi rhoqo kunyamalala kwicandelo lakho lokujonga. Ungachitha kunye kwiintsuku ezininzi okanye iiveki, emva koko inyamalale ngequbuliso kwaye ayibhengezwe okwethutyana. Ukwazile ukuza nophuhliso olumangalisayo lweziganeko, kodwa ubhengeziwe ngokukhawuleza kwaye uziphatha, ngokungathi akukho nto yenzekileyo. Cinga ukuba ufuna indoda eya kukhangela amaxesha ngamaxesha, kwaye ngubani ongayi kulala nawe ixesha elide?