"Kwinkqubo-sikhokelo yolwalamano olude, amadoda ahlala enika ulwazi olunxulumene nokuzala (oko kukuthi, i-SITER) yexabiso leqabane, ngelixa amabhinqa kunokwenzeka ukuba akhethe ukulungela kweqabane ukuba akhuseleke (oko kukuthi , Imvakalelo) yezixhobo kwisibini esizinzileyo, "ukufundisisa ngo-2017 kuya kusebenzisa izandi zokuziphatha ngoxolelwaniso emva kokungqubana kothando. Iingcali zengqondo zichaza ukuba iintlobano zezengqondo zivumela amaqabane ukuba azive enqweneleka kwaye azithandayo, kodwa le pateni yokuziphatha ayinakubizwa isempilweni. Icacisa ukuba kutheni imeko yabo yahlukile kumbono wabantu abaninzi.
Ukukhohlisa Ulindelo
Ngexesha lokuxabana egazini lakho, inqanaba le-horenaline hormone, liveliswa ekuphenduleni ukucaphuka kwangaphandle kunye nomnqweno wakho wokubonisa isikhundla saso. Abantu abajonga ngesondo ngokudibeneyo kunye nenye yeendlela eziphantsi zomanyano emva kokuxabana, akulunganga. Iphephandaba le-Psychology le-Sychology likholelwa ukuba isimangalo seemvakalelo esikhayo ngeli nkqubo ukwaphula ibhalansi kubudlelwane-emva kwesondo ubuyela kuwe. Iingcali zengqondo zithelekisa umnqweno we-quaxoracy onesiyobisi-umntu ngokoqobo ufumana idosi entsha, hayi kuphela izinto ezinqamlezileyo, kunye neemvakalelo zayo ezifanelekileyo. Kwabanye abantu, kunokuba yingxaki enkulu, kuba baya kuqalisa ngokungazi sikhangela isizathu sokuxabana ngenxa yokuphinda-phinda umzuzu osondeleyo.
Uphosa iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo ngaphambi kokutshintshela kwisondo
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Ukuphuma kweemvakalelo ezingalunganga
Kwi-psychology kukho igama elithi "uguqulelo lonwabo", echaza umgaqo-nkqubo wengqondo yengqondo emva kokuba uxabana neqabane. Iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ezihlanganisiweyo zidluliselwa kwimvakalelo yokucaphuka kwiimvakalelo zokuzonwabisa-yiyo le nto ufuna ukoyikiswa kunye nomntu omthandayo. Ngo-2010, zeziphi iiHappanes xa sifumana i-agry? I-Hormonal, i-Cardiovascular kunye ne-Asymmetrical yengqondo »Iimvakalelo ezifanayo-zonyusa uxinzelelo, uchitha amandla, kunye nokugqitywa kwenkqubo abanayo Ukutshintshwa ngokukhutshelwa okuqinisekileyo kwe-adrenaline kunika imvakalelo ye-euphoria. Nangona kunjalo, le ngxaki, ngenxa yendlela yokuxabana yenzekile, ayisiyonto ithatha isigqibo- le yeyona mpazamo iphambili. Okokuqala kufuneka uzolile kwaye uthethe umbuzo wokungqubana, kuphela emva koko, xa ucela uxolo kwaye uyazi yonke into, kufanelekile ukuba uthethe ngo-Intia.
Ukungaqondi phakathi kwamaqabane
Ukuba uxambulisana, emva koko uphazamiso kwaye kwi-thewili yezinto ezihamba ngesondo, kunokubakho ukungaqondani phakathi kwakho, oya kuthi kamva akhokelele kwingxabano enkulu nangakumbi. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, umntu uyakuthathela ingqalelo ukuphela kwembambano, enye iya kusombulula ukuba isondo yisondo yithuba lokuxoxa ngalo mba, kwaye iya kufuna ukubuyela kuye kamva. Rhoqo, isikhundla sokuqala singaqhelekanga ebantwini, kwaye owesibini-basetyhini. Ngokwesiqhelo amantombazana anendlela enzulu kwaye ahlala exabana ne-quarrel nentanda, ehlalutya entloko iintsuku ezimbalwa.
Isondo aliyi kuyisombulula ingxaki, kodwa yalukhulisa kuphela
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Iimpawu zokuziphatha ezihlekisayo
Elinye lala manqanaba ezengqondo avele ngaphandle kobudlelwane phakathi kweSyrant yasekhaya kunye nexhoba - "iholide yeSheenymoon". Ilandela umkhombisi, nto leyo enobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo ekhoyo kuphela kwisakhelo sengxoxo yomcimbi kwimibala ephakamileyo, kwaye engekhoyo ihamba kunye nokulwa, nokulwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo umxhaphazi ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba ngumbhali wesondo ngokudibana ukuze afihle ubuso bakhe bokwenyani kwaye "ukutshintsha ityala" ngaphambi kwexhoba ukuze aligcine liphantsi kolawulo. Ukuba kubudlelwane bakho, akukho mpindezelo ngaphandle kwe-quarrel, nxibelelana no-PesSed yengqondo ukuba ingcebiso kwaye ucinga nzulu, azikho ezinye iimpawu ezikhoboka lokwaphula i-psyche kwi-ithwale.