Kukho abo bakhetha amabali abo awazifundayo. Ukuba usebenzisa uthungelwano lwentlalo ukusuka kwinqanaba lokujonga injongo, kwaye ungabi ngulo umkhwa, emva koko utyelelo kwamanye amaphepha luvela njengozikhetha ngabom. Yintoni ebonakalayo yokubekwa kweliso kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo zamaqabane akhoyo? Ugqirha wengqondo yaseGalina Yanko uza kuphendula lo mbuzo:
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"Emva kokophula entliziyweni zininzi izinto. Ngokubanzi, thina, abantu banjengovelwano. Ke ngoko, ukuba sicaphukile emva kokuba sihlukane kwaye singakulungelanga ukubuyela kwihlabathi lokuthandana, sifuna oko ngaphambili. Ukukhangela uthungelwano lomntu lomnyezo lwezentlalo lukwenza uzive ukuba ungabubona ubomi babo ngaphandle kokuba bube kubomi babo. Ke, sijonga iinethiwekhi zentlalontle ukuze sibone ukuba zenza njani emva kokuhluka, kukho imiqondiso yento oyikhumbulayo. Kwakhona, ukujonga inethiwekhi yoluntu yomntu kusenza sizive ngathi sisadibana nomntu. Ukubukela ngaphambili ebomini bakho kunokunceda uvakalelwe kukuba uyazi ukuba wenza ntoni kwaye kwenzeka ntoni ebomini bakhe. Abantu abaninzi boyika umsantsa, ehamba kunye nokungaqiniseki. Ukuxhathisa ukungaqiniseki, ungangenela iphepha langaphambili ukuze ufumane umbono wokwazisa, okukunika umbono ngokukhawuleza wolawulo kunye noncedo. Okanye ngethemba lokuba ngenye imini banokudityaniswa kwakhona.
Ingxaki kukuba umntu ngamnye uhlangabezana neendlela ezahlukeneyo ngomsantsa, kwaye ubudlelwane bunexabiso elahlukileyo kuye wonke umntu. Ungayijonga iphepha lomdla onobuhlobo bokubona ukuba wenza ntoni. Okanye ufuna ukukhangela indlela aqhuba ngayo, njengoko eziva esendleleni yokubuyisela emva kokusilela. Ngapha koko, ukujonga iphepha leqabane langaphambili yindlela yokuthelekisa ubomi bakho. Banokusebenza njengenkuthazo yokuguqulela ubuntu obutsha kunye nokuhamba, okanye banokubangela usizi, ixhala kunye nosizi ngento yokuba ilahlekile kangangokuba ngokuqinisekileyo yayilahlekile.
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Owayesengoyena mntu wayesakuba enomdla obonakalayo ukuba uyabona impilo yakho. Ukuba uyazi ngayo, unokuhamba ngakumbi kwaye ayityeshele, okanye athabathe amanyathelo ongezelelweyo ukwenza ezona mida zibalaseleyo. Inokuba nzima ngakumbi ubudlelwane bakho kwaye unciphise ukubakho konxibelelwano olunobuhlobo kwixesha elizayo. Ngelishwa, ngelishwa, kunokukukhokelela kuTarngle. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uphile ubomi bomnye umntu kwaye ubandakanyeke kwi-cyber strasit, nokuba ulandela konke okusekuqaleni. Kuyakuthintela ekufezekiseni iinjongo kunye nomsebenzi oqhelekileyo kwihlabathi langaphandle, kwaye hayi kwi-intanethi. Eyona ndlela ichanekileyo kukuhambahamba kwaye ungakhathazeki ngayo nayiphi na inethiwekhi yoluntu enxulumene nezangaphambili. Zivinjelwe kuphela ukuba umntu uwela umgca, kungenjalo awufaneleki. Susa abahlobo kwaye ubhalise i-ex yakho ukuba ulukhuni. Ke awuyi kuba nakho ukukhangela iinethiwekhi zentlalo. Emva kokuhluka, kufuneka ixesha elizayo uzenzele kwaye uyeke imeko, kwaye itsheki engapheliyo yenethiwekhi yakhe yoluntu ikugcina ngokungathi ubotshelelwe. Kwinyanga kamva, unokubuyisela unxibelelwano kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, kuba ngeli xesha uya kuba kwelinye ilizwe, ithemba liya kukunceda ngokwenene. "