Ayisiyiyo eyona nto iphambili, kodwa iseyimpazamo enkulu yabazali-ukuba ihambisa iindima ekukhuleni komntwana xa enye, uMama, uvumela yonke into, utata, ulungisa i Imigaqo yobomi endlwini. Ngokwesiqhelo imeko iyahamba nkqu nokuba abazali baneengxaki zengqondo: Umntu ubonakalisa ubundlongondlongo, kwaye owesibini umkhusela umntwana kuye, ukuba ligorha kuye, ligorha kuye, libe ligorha kuye, libe ligorha lakhe. Icacisa ukuba kutheni kufuneka uyiyeke imodeli yokuziphatha-kukho izizathu ezizodwa.
Ilitye elikhubeka kubudlelwane bosapho
Usenokwenzeka ukuba wabona amahlaya kumaqela abazali, apho umntwana ubuza imvume kaMama ukuba ahambe nabahlobo, afumana ukwala kwaye aguqukele kuTata, esazi ukuba uya kuthini "Ewe." Awunyanzelekanga ukuba unamathele kwisikhundla esinye kuyo yonke imiba yemfundo, nangona kunjalo, ukubambisa isikhubekiso esikhubekisayo esikhubekisayo esikhubekisayo. "Abantwana kufuneka bazi ukuba abazali babo basebenza kunye njengeqela kwaye bafuna ukuxhasa ezona zinto zibalulekileyo, kugqirha wonyango, kudliwanondlebe no-MSN. Ukunika iimpendulo ezahlukeneyo kwisicelo somntwana, ufunda ukuba ngumxhasi kwaye ufunde ukuphatha isicelo esifanelekileyo kumntu ofanelekileyo-akuyi kulichaphazela ikamva lakhe, njengoko amaqhinga aya kuphuhlisa, alale kwaye axoke -kude neempawu ezintle.
Xoxa ngesicwangciso sakho sokukhulisa kunye neqabane
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Uzinzo kunye nentuthuzelo
Dibanisa uNjingalwazi weSebe leze-Pschology yeDyunivesithi yaseHofdra Jeffrey J. FFFREY J. FFFREY J. FFFREY UKUBA IMITHETHO YENZA IVO LEMITHETHO KUNYE NOKUZONWABISA NGOKUFANELEKILEYO UKUZONWABISA UBUNGQINA NOKUXELWA KWEXESHA LOKUZIPHATHA NGOBULUNGU BENKONZO YABASEBENZI BOKUZIPHATHA phakathi kwakhe kwaye abazali. Enye into kuxa wonke umzali enemithetho yalo-kule meko, umntwana ulahlekile kwaye uziva enengxaki yokungaqondani, njengoko kusenziwa into. Okubi nangakumbi, ukuba ngaxeshanye kuya kubanika iingcebiso eziphikisayo kunye nezikhokelo. Kungekudala, kodwa ngokuziphatha okunjalo, umntwana ukhethe umzali oyithandayo - oya kuza kulowo amzileyo. "Oku kudidaka umntwana, njengoko wayedla ngokuziva enetyala ngokukhetha elinye lamaqela, kwaye unokuzikhathaza ngento yokuba omnye umzali axabane nomnye," utshilo omnye umntu.
Ukudalwa kwezimemo ezimbi nezingalunganga
ERussia, le thiyori ayithandwa kakhulu, kodwa ehlabathini, abantwana bazama ukufundisa ngaphandle kokuba kunolwalamano olubi kunye nokufakelwa malunga nomgangatho. Ukuba omnye wabazali uthatha indima ye-Angela, ikhuthaza umbono ofanelekileyo wesini emntwaneni, kanti umbono wakhe 'wembono yakhe "kwi-Eboding yomnye umzali inegalelo lombono ombi kakhulu esinye isini. Oku kubonakalaliselwa emncinci xa umntwana okwishumi elivisayo ejongene nabanye abantu kubudlelwane bothando okanye ishishini. Ke amakhwenkwe, oomama ababehlala bebagxeka, bathanda ukungazithembi amantombazana, kwaye ngokuchaseneyo - ukuba amantombazana anootata abangqongqo ngokuhambelana nabafana. Yabantwana, kubalulekile ukuba ube nempilo, unxibelelwano oluvulekileyo kunye nabazali bobabini kunye nezinye iisampulu zokuxelisa, nokuba zithini na isini saso.
Umntwana akufuneki abe "sisilwanyana" phakathi kwabazali
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Iingxabano ezingapheliyo phakathi kwamaqabane
Isidingo sobusoloko singumveleli-umsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya, ukuzaliseka kwemisebenzi yasekhaya kunye neminye imisebenzi-inokunyanzelisa omnye umzali ukuba afumane ingqumbo kwelinye. Wonke umntu ufuna abantwana bakhe bathande kwaye bamxabise, kodwa babe ngumfundisi-ntsapho kwaye balandele ukuthotyelwa kwemithetho ebaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni nasekukhuleni komntwana, kodwa bobabini bazali. "Abazali kufuneka baxhase ngazo ngezigqibo. Imfundo yabantwana inxulunyaniswa nobunzima, kwaye wonke umntu unendlela yokufunda, "utshilo isitayile sabo semfundo. Ke, unokuba nemithetho echaseneyo nawe, ukuba awuwali-ixesha lokuba uxoxe kwaye wenze isicwangciso semfundo esinye.