Phantse wonke umntu unokufumana indlela, nangona kunjalo, kukho abo bawenza isizathu kuphela - baya kuthetha. Ngokwesiqhelo, indlela yokuziphatha iyacaphukisa kakhulu, ngakumbi ukuba umntu uthetha ngaphandle kokuma. Kukholelwa ukuba abafazi bathetha ngakumbi, kodwa uninzi lwabantu aluzange lube semva. Nangona kunjalo, wonke umntu otyhafileyo onobangela wokuziphatha.
Izizathu zencoko egqithisileyo
Njengoko sele sithethile, kuluntu lwethu amabango aboniswa uninzi lwabasetyhini. Bangami nje. Nangona kunjalo, intetho ezininzi engenanto ayiphazamisi ngokuhambelana neshishini. Xa udibana nomntu ofanayo, uyabuza: Apho eli nqaku likhona. ISIZATHU SOKUBA BANYE Abanye abantu kufuneka bakhuphe ulwazi olubalulekileyo kangangeyure, ngelixa abanye baya kuvuyela "Thulula" kuwe yonke into eqokelele kwi shower. Iqondo lomsindo kunye neemeko apho umntu wakhula aze akhuliswa kubalulekile.
Ivelaphi "i-gogar" ivela phi?
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Kungenzeka ukuba ufumane iintsapho apho umntwana avunyelwe ukuba enze okuninzi kunye nezenzo zayo azithintelwa. Njengommiselo, abazali banokuxoxa ngomntwana ngemeko ethile eyenzekileyo ngemini, nakwezona nkcukacha zincinci. Ke ngoko, abantwana abakhule kwiimeko ezinjalo bakholelwa ukuba ayisiyo kuphela usapho, kodwa iinkcukacha zobomi bakhe ziya kuba nomdla kwi-over. Akumangalisi ukuba abahlobo kunye nabantu ababaziyo badiniwe kukunxibelelana nomntu ofanayo. Kwaye umntu ongaqhelekanga ovulekileyo anokungaphumeleli.
Iyenzeka ngokuchaseneyo: Intsapho ingqongqo iyamisa nayiphi na ingxoxo eneenkcukacha. Oku akuthethi ukuba amalungu osapho angabanda kuye. Hayi, bayayithanda intsapho yabo, abaphazamisi nje kwindawo yomnye umntu. Ukuba unomhlobo onjalo, akunakulindeleka ukuba uve iinkcukacha ezisondeleyo zobomi bakhe kuye.
Yintoni ilele kwingozi enkulu kakhulu
Musa ukucinga ukuba umntu ongenisayo uya kuvula kwangoko iimfihlo zabo. Mhlawumbi, ke yena, ngokuchaseneyo, uzama ukufihla into kuwe, ufihle iincoko "akukho nto". Akayi kuthetha nawe ngobomi bakhe, endaweni yoko uyathetha malunga nabanye okanye kwizihloko eziphazamisayo.
Ukuba umntu unento yokufihla, iyakutshintsha imixholo qho kwimizuzu embalwa, unokuphulukana nentambo yencoko. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba zinciphise unxibelelwano nabantu abanjalo: Ukungangeni kunye nabo kwiingxoxo ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha seyure, kungenjalo umngcipheko onobungozi. Ngapha koko, akukho nto iluncedo kulo mntu awuyi kuyazi, utsho kubo bonke, kodwa ngeenkcukacha akaze ahambe.
Incoko enkulu engenanto ngokuqinisekileyo ayiphazamisi kwi-parallel
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Eyona nto inomdla, iingxoxo zinokuthetha phantse nasiphi na isihloko - Ayinamsebenzi, ziyagcuma kuyo okanye akunjalo. Ukuba uzama ukuxoxa ngento ngakumbi kunye nabo, banokubhideka. Enye into enomdla: Umntu othozamileyo kakhulu unokuba yingxoxo. Uyoyika ukuthula phambi kwabanye, nto leyo iqala ukuthetha ngayo yonke into ebonayo, nje yokulayisha imeko.
Akusoloko i-chatter ayinabungozi. Basenokuba ngumntu onengqondo, enokuchaphazela nento engeyiyo. Ungayiqonda njani ingozi?
Abantu abanjalo bahlala benobuhlobo kwaye banobuhlobo, kodwa 'babulawa "babo ngenxa yesizathu esithile siyaphinda.
Baye bahlutha ngokulula ekuthetheni.
Ukuthetha ngesiqu sakhe, uqala ukuthintela ubomi bakho.
Aba bantu banomdla kakhulu.
Bangamanqindi abagqwesileyo, kwiimeko ezininzi badinga uncedo lweengcali.
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba inxenye yemiqondiso, ukunciphisa unxibelelwano ubuncinci, awufuni iingxaki nge-psyche yakho?
Yintoni ilele ngokugqithisileyo?
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Olunye uhlobo lwencoko, olungenabungozi ngakumbi, -
Abanakuphila ngaphandle kwengxoxo ngobomi bomnye umntu. Oku kunokubizwa ngokuba yi-Mania. Ewe kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha bazisa iingxaki ezininzi emntwini, obobomi bothando abafuna ukwazi ukuba babelane ngolwazi 'nehlabathi ", kodwa bahlala becaphukela abanye. Ingxaki kukuba kunzima kakhulu ukuvela kwizinto ezimbi. Khumbula nje ukuba phambi komntu, apho kukho aboni, kufuneka ulandele into oyithethayo, kungenjalo ungajamelana nemiphumo yokufakelwa kwe-gossip esekwe kwimbali yakho.
Njengommiselo, amaqela ahlebayo ayonakalisi. Ngenxa yengxoxo yabanye, bazama ukukhula emehlweni abanye.
Ngayiphi na imeko, ukuba uyayiphawula intetho emva kwakho, zama ukuthetha kancinci kwaye umamele ngakumbi. Kholwa ukuba abahlobo bakho kunye noogxa bakho baya kuyibulela.