Rhoqo umxholo wemali unentlungu kubudlelwane phakathi kwamaqabane, kwaye abo badlulayo ngoqhawulo-mtshato bayazi ukuba imali yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kulwalamano.
I-heroine yenqaku lanamhlanje idluliselwe kwi-uqhawulo-myeni wayo, yafudukela kwelinye isixeko, ishiya ipropathi ebanzi yeqabane langaphambili. Zibonakala zichanekile, zinobuhlobo kwaye ngaphandle kwezikrelemnqa. Nangona kunjalo, umba ongaphelelanga wahlala phakathi kwabo. Ngokungagqibekanga, uqhawulo-mtshato linyathelo lenkosikazi yakhe, yena kunye nokujongana nezindlu ezintsha, ukuhamba kwemali, uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali oluzimeleyo. Kwaye umyeni wangaphambili uchaphazeleka ekucingelwa ukuba, ke, kumgangatho wembuyekezo, wahlala esihlala kunye nezinye izibonelelo ezibekiweyo.
Nangona kunjalo, ngamaphupha amaphupha ethu, enye inyani malunga nolwalamano lwabo, ngokusekelwe kwiimbono zayo zokwenyani malunga nendlela ababeyinxalenye.
Lala:
"Umyeni wangaphambili wayephupha. Sikwindlu yethu, kubonakala ngathi siphila, kodwa ndingamalungelo okundwendwela. Ndimxelela ukuba kukho into ebandayo kum, ndisendlini yonke indawo uMerznu. Nditsho nje, ukuba ndingabalulekanga kwimpendulo. Kwaye ngequbuliso ndiyeza ndibona ukuba isusa iphepha lodonga ngamaphepha onke kunye neendonga ze-fanoru, apho sele zipatwe, kwaye sele zibhale kwaye zibone ii-nanrolas zodonga. Kumbuzo othi: "Wenza ntoni?" Uyaphendula athi: "Utshilo ukuba kubanda, ndinguye wonke umntu kwaye awuyi kubanda." Ndiyothuka into yokuba incinci yam "ndiyabanda" isenzo esihle senziwe, ngakumbi kuba ndiyazi ukuba ulungiso lutsha kwaye iindonga zifudumele. "
Ukulala kwe-heroine kubonisa ukuba ufanayo kangakanani inqanaba layo amabango ebomini benene. Ephupheni, umyeni wakhe wayo sele elungele ukumkhathalela, ukuxhobisela ubomi bakhe, ukuba aphendule kumbiza hayi uncedo, kodwa malunga nononophelo lwabantu olulula. Mhlawumbi i-heroine yethu ayayazi indlela yokubuza okanye ivakalise iimfuno zabo ezinamalungelo. Kulula kuye kuphela kunokuba ube kwimeko yokubuza. Le yingxaki eqhelekileyo yabafazi ababeyithanda le nkqubo "ndim ngokwam".
Isakhono esiluncedo, kodwa sibonisa kuphela inxalenye yeempawu zobuqu ezifanelekileyo. Ithembekile ngokwakho - le yenye yamaqela ekuzimela geqe. Nangona kunjalo, ukubhengeza kwaye unyanzelise amalungelo abo kukwakho okufanelekileyo komntu omdala. Ngaphandle kwawo, kunzima ukwala, yithi "hayi", ukufuna into ebangelwe kukukhusela isikhundla sayo.
Iphupha lethu, elinokwenzeka, lihlala liphantsi ebomini apho kufuneka khona kwaye lingeyomfuneko. Nangona kunjalo, ukulala 'kuqeqesha amava amatsha kukubhengeza iimfuno kunye neminqweno yabo. Umzekelo, mayikwaziseni umyeni wangaphambili ukuba ungazisi ucwangco kwimicimbi yabo yezemali, ukuthetha, njengoko isivumelwano sabo semali sifudula kuqhawulo mtshato, ngaba sikho ipropathi abanokuyihlula umthetho. Iya kufumana iNdlu "efudumeleyo", kwaye iya kukhululeka kwimvakalelo yokuba netyala yepropathi eyongezelelweyo, eyabelwe yona ngokungagqibekanga.
Njengomthetho, ukuba kukho ukungcola kubudlelwane kunye nesigqibo esingenabulungisa salo naluphi na uhlobo, oku akuvumeli amaqabane afudumeleyo akwazi ukwakha inyani kwaye wakhe ubomi kwicandelo elicocekileyo. Amabango anganoxanduva, ingqumbo kunye nomsindo uya kubamba iminyaka emininzi, agwebe isizungu okanye ulwakhiwo kunye neqabane elitsha, kodwa kwi-neast "yakudala".
Sicebisa umngcipheko wokuba sinyaniseke kwaye sizingise ukuthatha umngcipheko wokunyaniseka kwaye sizingise, sizise ubudlelwane nomyeni wangaphambili kwaye sizilungiselele ubudlelwane obutsha ukuba uphupha.
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UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin