Uninzi lwethu, abafazi, bazisa oomama nootagogo ohamba ekhaya kwi-coadots edumileyo, benyuka kakhulu - kwiimpahla eziphambili zezemidlalo, kwaye ezona zinto ziphambili zezemidlalo, kunye noxolo. Kuyacaca ukuba icace gca xa, ngexesha lohlalutyo lwewadi, abathengi bam bathi "A, Ayilunganga? Kulungile, ndiza kunxiba ekhaya. " Kuyavela ukuba ekuphumeni, kwabanye, sikulungele ukusebenza ngokwakho, tshintsha, uguquke, kwaye uzenzele kwaye usondele kakhulu - kusapho.
Cinga kuphela, abayeni bethu, abantwana basibona ekhaya mihla le, bahlala besizibona kuphela ekhaya kwaye kunqabile "phantsi kweparade".
Uyazi ukuba mangaphi amabhinqa, ebhekisa kwintlanganiso yokuqala ukuba ayazi ukuba abayazi indlela yokupeyinta, nxiba, thatha izixhobo? I-8 kwezi-10.
Kwangelo xesha, iminyaka yobudala bamantombazana ukusuka kwiminyaka engama-27 ukuya kwengama-35. La ngamabhinqa amancinci aphumeleleyo, uninzi lwabo luye lwaphumelela, olunokuba neqhayiya ngalo. Abanye babo baneentsapho, kodwa ke balawula, baphupha nje ukudibana nomntu, bathi: "Andazi ukuba ndenze njani i-makeup, indlela yokulala kanjani iinwele "kwaye" andikwazi ukuba unganxiba njani iziketi. " Kwaye ngokuhamba kwexesha, ukudibana nezityhilelo ezinjalo, sihamba endleleni.
Konke kuqala ekhaya nakwintsapho. Ngesinye isihlandlo, xa babencinci, umama wabo (umakhulu, udade) wayengazi ukuba ingakanani na ekhaya kuya kufuneka ithathele ingqalelo, ihlawula ingqalelo encinci. Ngoku iintombi zabo zikhulile, kwaye ezimadoda zaza balibale ubuhle kwaphela, ababekhe badibana nabo.
Ungathi: "Ndidiniwe emsebenzini, ndibuya ekhaya, ndifuna ukuphelisa kwaye ndingacingi ngakumbi ngayo nantoni na! Zeziphi ezinye iimpahla ". Ndiyakuqonda, yiyo loo nto ndithetha ngokubaluleka kokukhetha i-Wordrobe yasekhaya ngokungqinelana nesitayile sakho esikhethekileyo, esiya kuthi sikugxininise kuzo zonke izibonelelo, uncedo, kwaye likhuselekile, apho ikhoyo Akusekho mfuneko yokuba wenze ngathi, dlala indima yasemlindweni. Khangela kwaye wenze isitayile sakho kungekuphela nje kubomi boluntu, kodwa ikhaya ngumsitho kwaye utyalomali oluya kuba sisixhobo esinamandla kuwe, kunye nesipho esimnandi sendoda yakho esithandekayo nesifundo esiluncedo kubantwana.
Ukugcina isiko kwindawo ekupheleni kwenqaku ngalinye, ndicebisa ukuba ubuze amadoda, into angathanda ukuyibona ibhinqa labo ekhaya. Iqhinga elincinci: Cela abahlobo abasondeleyo kwaye ulumkele intanda, banokugcina iminqweno yabo, boyike ukukhubekisa.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uhlangabezane nolindelo lwazo, kodwa zilungiselele ukufunda kubantu, mhlawumbi abazi ukuba zidityanisiwe, kodwa baziva bechanekileyo kwaye bebona umfanekiso wayo. La ngamandla abo.
Ngethamsanqa kwiimvavanyo!
Karina Efimova,
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