"Xa ndandineminyaka engama-27 ndatshata umntu obalaseleyo emhlabeni. Kwiminyaka emibini kamva, intombi yethu ivele emhlabeni, kwaye emva kwesiqingatha-unyana. Ndandingumama owonwabileyo, umsebenzi wasekhohlo kwaye ndibandakanyeka kuphela ngabantwana. Indoda yam iyandiqonda, ilungiselelwe kwaye ayiqhubi emsebenzini. Watsho ukuba bendikunye nabantwana njengoko ndibona kufanelekile.
Ugqitywe kangangeminyaka eliqela, kwaye kubonakala ngathi yonke into ilungile. Ndikhe ndahlala nosapho lwam imini yonke, ngamanye amaxesha umkhwekazi wamnceda. Ngeentombi, unxibelelwano lulahlekile, kuba uninzi lwazo lwashukuma, kwaye abanye bathunyelwa kwimvelaphi. Ndinobomi bam, banolwazi lwabo. Nangona kunjalo, kwinqaku elinye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndibize umhlobo wesikolo se-Ana. Mcele ukuba asele iti kuthi ekhaya, hlalani, khumbula amaxesha aphelileyo. Savuma, kwaye wahamba kum ngeveki.
Ndakumbona, kwaoko waqala wathetha nam, waza ke uthelekisa. Andizukuchaza imbonakalo yakhe, ndiza kuthi nje ukuba ihlelwe kakuhle. I-thea yeza nentombi yakhe. Ndabona phambi kwam ibhinqa eliyimpumelelo, elinomtsalane, unina wentombazana entle, eyam, ngaphandle kwento yokuba unomntwana, unexesha lokuzilandela. Andizange ndibene nomonakalo, kwaye ngeli xesha kwakungekho mona, uyathandwa nje nomnqweno wokujonga kakuhle. Okwesihlandlo sokuqala ngexesha elide ndibone ukukhanya okwahlukileyo. Ngaphambi koko, andinalo ithuba lokuthelekisa noontanga, kwaye kwakungekho mnqweno wokutshintsha into yam.
Sathetha. Kwavela ukuba kwixesha lakhe elikhululekileyo, i-theA ikuthanda ukupheka. Kwangelo xesha, kusoloko kulungiselela izitya ezilula nezilinganayo. Ndaba nomdla, kuba bekusoloko kubonakala kum ukuba ndinokutya okubi, kwaye kungenzeka ukuba utye ngokuchanekileyo kwaye iluncedo. Intombi yandinika iindlela zokupheka ezimbalwa kwaye ndenze iintsuku ezimbalwa ukubiza kwaye ndilungiselele kunye. Ndiyithanda kakhulu le mbono. Ukususela ngoku, konke kuqalile. Ekuqaleni "ndigula" nazo zonke iintlobo zokupheka, ezinomdla, ezimnandi. Yaqala ukulungiselela uninzi lwezinto ezintsha neziluvavanyo. Emva koko waqhubeka. Wafundisisa uncwadi oluninzi malunga nentloko, efumaneka kumajelo ezi-intanethi ze-PP kunye nokuqina, okokuqala ebomini bakhe wabhalwa echibini.
Ndifumene izinto ezimbalwa. Into yokuqala kukuba kule minyaka ichithwe nabantwana, ngaphandle komsebenzi, andizifumananga sisifundo kumphefumlo (umzekelo, abanye oomama kwi-Decole bavula eyabo i-intanethi, baqala ukuthunga, benza into kunye Izandla zakho, njl njl), ndingathanda ukwenza enye into, ukongeza umsebenzi wasekhaya, kunqweneleka kangangokuba kuzisa umvuzo. Okwesibini - ndijongeka kakubi. Hayi, ngokuqinisekileyo, ayibi kakhulu, kodwa sinokuthi ndizikhulule. Kwakukho iifolokhwe esiswini, ezinamaphiko, ukudumba. Ndayeka ukuzinyamekela. Ayisakhumbuli xa ixesha lokugqibela lenze, kubonakala ngathi sisizathu sokuba yayingeyiyo. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, owesithathu - ndifuna ngokwenene ukutshintsha. Guqula ungapheliyo kuphela, kodwa nokuqalisa imikhwa elungileyo, ukuseka amandla kunye nemodi yokulala, ukuqala ukubukela umthwalo, njl njl.
Kwisithuba seminyaka emibini, bendiziqhelanisa nengqondo kunye nomzimba wam: "Ukucoca" ukutya, ukuseta imowudi yokusela, wazifundisa ngokutya okufanelekileyo. Yaphinda yaqalisa ukutyelela iinkqubo ze-cosmeic kunye neeSalons zobuhle. Ubomi bam butshintshile ukubangcono, ukuba ndingatsho ukuba uguquke ngokupheleleyo. Esi sisinye, imvakalelo entsha kum. Ndiziva ndichwayitile, mhle, lonke ixesha. Kwaye ndadala ibhlog yam encinci ye-culity, apho ndabelana khona iindlela ozithandayo ze-PP-izitya. Ukulungisa kwakhona kuyakhula kwaye, ndiyathemba, kungekudala kuya kuba yingeniso. Ngoku ndingatsho ukuba yonke into ihamba njengoko ndiphupha. Ndiphuphe, kodwa andizange ndithathe nantoni na, kodwa kwakufanelekile ukuba ndiqonde kwaye ndifuna! " -Awabelwe ibali lakhe i-Ilona evela eKalineyod.
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