Zininzi iingongoma ezifuna ukuqwalaselwa ukuba ufuna ukuhlala uphumelele kwaye unoyolo. Siza kukuxelela ngento omele ukuba iphuculwe ukuba ingabi nangxaki.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba iingcinga zethu zizinto zethu? Uyicinga into ocinga ukuba uyacinga. Ukuba abantu bavele ebomini bakho abalungiselelwe wena kwaye baphethe amandla amabi, kunokubuchaphazela ubomi bakho, ke kufuneka ukuba ukhetha kakhulu abantu ukuba uvumele abantu bakho ukuba bayeke. Kukho amaqela ebomini akufuneki avakalise abanye.
Ulonwabo lwakho lunokukhuthaza ukuhlasela ngomona komnye umntu
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Umzekelo, musa ukwabelana ngempumelelo /
Uvuyo lwakho lunokukhuthaza ukuhlasela komona komnye umntu oya kuyitymele ubukho bakho. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu onokwanandipha impumelelo yabantu babantu. Ke cinga kakuhle ngaphambi kokuba uqhekezelwe iindaba zovuyo malunga nempumelelo yakho. Kuya kuba nzima ukubuyisela ulinganiso lwamandla.
Oku kuyasebenza nakubantu abavela kwisangqa sakho esisondeleyo: iintsapho kunye nabahlobo. Ungacingi ukuba indawo ekufuphi yahlukile kuluntu xa iyonke. Ewe kunjalo, konke kuxhomekeke kwimeko ethile, kodwa ukuba ubudlelwane bakho nezalamane zishiya kakhulu ukuba zinqwenele, cinga ukuba kufuneka zivulwe na.
Gcina izicwangciso kunye namaphupha ngaphakathi
Kukholelwa ukuba uxelele ngezicwangciso zazo-uphawu olubi. Oku kungenxa yoko, nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyamthemba abantu obathandayo, ungabavunga, mhlawumbi baya kuba sisihloko sokuphunyezwa kwezicwangciso zakho. Kunqande amabali malunga nekamva lakho elifanelekileyo-kwakhona, kunokubangela umsindo kunye nekhwele, eliya kuba yimvelaphi engalunganga.
Gcina izicwangciso kunye namaphupha ngaphakathi
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Xelela ngobomi bakho bobuqu
Ubomi bakho kunye nenkxalabo yamaqabane kuphela, abanye abantu bavinjelwe umnyango kule ndawo ngaphandle kwemvume yakho. Xa wabelana ngeemvakalelo ezimbi kwisiqingatha sesibini, owenza buthathaka amandla akho othando. Kwelinye icala: Xa udumisa iqabane, unxibelelwano lwakho luphuculwe ngokwegunya. Ungaphendula imibuzo yezalamane kunye nabahlobo, kodwa ufikelela kwiinkcukacha kwinto leyo.
Akukho sidingo sokwabelana ngempumelelo yakho yemali
Ngokukhethekileyo kufuneka ifune imeko apho umntu unomdla khona kwimpilo-ntle yakho. Iqela lezezimali yenye yezona zinto zibuthathaka kwaye zingapheliyo. Inokonakalisa ngokulula iingxoxo ezingafunekiyo. Ndikholelwe, abantu akufuneki ukuba bazi ukuba ufumana malini. Umntu unokutshintshela umjikelo wamandla ukuya kwi-veres yayo, ngaloo ndlela makande isikhundla sakho.
Into oyiphuphayo kufuneka ihlale kuphela kuwe
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Into oyiphuphayo kufuneka ihlale kuphela kuwe
Abavumisi ngeenkwenkwezi kunye neentsuku ezininzi zincoma ngamandla ukugcina amaphupha emfihlekweni. Kwakhona, xa unesabelo kubantu abangaqhelekanga kumaphupha afihliweyo okanye bathethe ngezinto ozivelayo ebusuku, ubakhulule kwintsimi yakho yamandla, enobuthathaka kakhulu kwi-negative.