Zonke ezo zoyikiso. Kwaye oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kodwa inye into, xa isigcawu sisoyika-musa ukuphazamisa, sukuchaphazela umgangatho kunye nomgangatho wokuphila. Kwaye yahluke ngokupheleleyo - xa uloyiko luphakama njengethambo emqaleni, ngaphambi kokunyusa okanye ulonwabo lwentsapho. Enye yezi zinto zoyiki kukoyika ukhuphiswano - ukhuphiswano ngenxa yempahla okanye intsingiselo yentetho, ngenxa yomfanekiso weengcinga okanye imvakalozwi, ngenxa yomfanekiso weengcinga okanye imvakalozwi, imvakalotyiweyo. Oko kukhuphiswano apho lungelulo kwaye lukhulu.
Imilenze ikhula phi imilenze?
Akukho mahluko apho uloyiko olukhuselekileyo - iinjongo kunye nenkqubo yokukhupha iya kuba njalo. Izizathu ezibini zinokwahlulwa.
1. Anazi ukuba ungubani kwaye yintoni enye indlela yakho.
Umzekelo, ubhaka iikeyiki ukuze u-odola, njengekhulu lamanye amantombazana esixeko sakho. Siyoyika ukuthatha ithuba, bonisa isazisi sakho kwaye sidibane nesininzi esigrey. Ngakumbi le nkukhu ye-hlemous enemilebe enemilebe kunye namabele. Bayifumana inkangeleko, ubamba "njengabo bonke abanye", emva koko wothuka wathi: "Kutheni ndirhwebe kwesinye inkukhu / umbhaki?".
2. Uyoyika ukuba nguwe.
Ukoyike ukuba awuyi kwamkelwa njengoko unjalo, woyika ugwebeni ngoluvo okanye i-marnor ukuba uziveze, ngenxa yokunxiba okanye kumkhwa ombi.
Ukuqonda ezi zizathu kunzima kwaye ukoyikisa. Kodwa kufuneka basebenze ngaphandle ukuphefumla ngokukhululekileyo ngamabele apheleleyo.
Unokwenza ntoni ngayo?
Qala ngento yokuba uzive. Hlala uziphendule kule mibuzo ilandelayo:
- Injani imeko yam njengomntu?
-Ngaba njani?
- Banjani abafazi bakho?
- Kutheni le nto indoda yam ingayi ihambe enye?
- Kutheni ndihlukile?
Ukuba awukwazi ukuphendula le mibuzo, ke ungalindeli ukuba iimpendulo zomyeni, uluntu, abaphathi, abathengi, njl njl. Kananjalo, imeko isoyike. Sukoyika. Ubuntu bakho buya kukunika isihlwele. Ngenkalipho ishiya indawo yokuthuthuzela. Makangazeki mphefumlo wakhe ngoko nangoko ingubo, igumbe, ngasemva kwentloko, kodwa phuma!
Ukuba uphendule yonke imibuzo, umhlaba wavulwa kwaye ukuvulwa kwaba yindawo entsha yokuthuthuzela, kodwa uloyiko lokhuphiswano lusahleli, zama ukusebenzisa iindlela ezimbini ezisebenzayo.
Sonke sahlukile, kodwa umntu ngamnye
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Ukuze angangoyiki ukhuphiswano, kufuneka uzimisele ukuba: Oku kukwamkelwa kwe-NLP. Ukuba uzimisela ukuba unabantu abakhuphisana, ke sele emfazweni-kufuneka ubonise iziphumo, ukhuphisane, khuphisana. Xa ukwimeko enjalo, kukho inkunkuma yenkunkuma, kuba unamanzi kakhulu kwiziphumo zabanye, kwaye uqaphele impumelelo yakho. Ukulingana kwabanye yinkuthazo ethi "Ukusuka". Ewe, kwenye indawo kubalulekile ukuba ingabi mbi, kodwa ibe ngcono, kodwa kule meko ifuneka umoya onokhuphiswano olusempilweni. Umzekelo, ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokutya, qalisa nentombi yam-isiphumo siya kuba ngcono kuba uya kubuyanani, nyusa kwaye ungabonakali ngokungafanelekanga kwizikali.
Kwaye yintoni i-tyson?
Khumbula njengoBawo wethu: "Sukuthelekisa ukuqala kwakho nomntu ophakathi." Kwimisebenzi yam, ndifumana yonke imihla ngokuswela lo mthetho kwaye, ngenxa yoko, iingxaki ezahlukeneyo. Umzekelo, imvumi ye-novice yase-novice iqulethe ngokwakho enye into yokuqala, kodwa esele iqhutywa kwaye yamkelwe. Ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhuphisana, khuphisana nabo bakwibha enye nawe. Wena emva kweveki yeeklasi kwi-Boxting ayizukuya kumsesa nxamnye neTamez Tyson, akunjalo? Kwaye ukuba uhamba, akukho nto ngaphandle kokuzithemba kungayi kuphumelela. Uya kulwa kwaye ube ubethe umahluko, kodwa ngaba kufanelekile umdlalo wekhandlela? Nokuba uziva umlinganiso womsitho womsitho webhunganga, ke le nguMike Tyoson - Uya kuthatha amava, izixhobo, ukuzithemba ngokwakhe ekugqibeleni.
Zithande, kholwani ngokwakho, ngenkalipho uye kwiinjongo zakho. Ukhuphiswano aloyiki xa usazi kakuhle ukuba ngubani xa umba ubume bakho. Gxila kwimpumelelo yakho, izakhono, izakhono kunye nolwazi kuyo nayiphi na intsimi yobomi, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kusebenza!