Ebudlelwaneni kufuneka kungabikho nkokeli kunye nekhoboka, kungenjalo ixesha oya kulonwabanga ukuba nomntu ongakuboni njengolinganayo, kwaye uphakame kakhulu okanye ophantsi. Ukuzimela nyani kwaye kwangaxeshanye kusondele, wonke umntu kufuneka enze eyakhe iliso kwiWorld World-akusoloko kuba lixesha lesithuba seshumi elivisayo. Uninzi lwabantu abadala baphila ngaphandle kwezimvo zabo kwimicimbi yokuqala kwaye abanamdla koko iqabane labo elicinga ngale nto. Iphakamisa ukusombulula ingxaki, itshintshe indalo indlela yesiqhelo.
Thetha ngezinto ezisisiseko
Uyayazi imbali yomntu omthandayo - indlela akhule ngayo, wayefunda esikolweni naseyunivesithi, zeziphi iinoveli ezingaphumelelanga kwaye eziphumeleleyo zasinda? Abantu abaninzi banentetho eyaneleyo malunga nemicimbi yasekhaya kwaye baxoxe ngezicwangciso zomhla wokubeka isithuba "sonxibelelwano", nangona intsebenzo esondeleyo ayinakwenzeka. Sibhale umxholo onoluhlu lwemicimbi ebalulekileyo yokuxoxa ngemicimbi - yifumane apha kwaye ubaphendule neqabane ukuze baqonde ukuba abantu abafanayo okanye bahlukileyo. Funda oku kwaye uthobele izitshixo zeglasi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze ujongane ngokuqinileyo kumntu othandekayo wakho kwaye uqonde ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ubonakale kuye ebomini kwaye nokuba ngaba uyathandana.
Qaphela omnye komnye ngexesha lencoko
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Sebenza ngokuzithemba
Ngaba iingxaki zicombulula njani abantu ngengqondo esempilweni? Abazisi kangako, bavumela ukuba bakhwaze umntu ngamnye, kwaye banikele ukuthetha ngento abakhathaza. Benza ntoni abantu ngeengxaki ezicacileyo? Bazama ukuzisa umntu ukuba angqubana, setha kwakhona iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ngenxa yokukhala, ukusasaza izinto, izoyikiso kunye nezinye izinto ezibonisa ukubaluleka kwabo. Ukuzihlola yinto ethile ephakanyisiweyo: Umntu ophilayo ubonakala ngathi esithi "Ndiyayihlonipha imida yam, ethetha ukuba ndiyihlonipha nemida yakho." Xa wanelisekile bubomi bam, kwabanye abantu oqala ukumiliselwa kakuhle, oko kuthetha ukuba bayabamkela kwaye baqonde ukuba banokwahluka kuwe.
Sukuvala kwisangqa sakho sonxibelelwano
Abahlobo abaninzi uya kuba nabo, banzi ithemba lakho kunye nombono wehlabathi uya kuba. Uya kuqonda ukuba sonke sahlukile- wonke umntu unembali yakhe kunye nobomi obuthile, ukuba bangenise into, ukujonga umntu, ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka. Inkqubo yokunxibelelana nabantu bezini ezahlukeneyo, ubudala, iileyile zentlalo, iWorldVive kunye neminye ikunceda ukuba ususe ulindelo lobuxoki. Uyaqonda ukuba bonke abantu banelungelo lokubuthathaka, iimpazamo kunye neempazamo, kwaye kwangaxeshanye banelungelo lokwenza ezi mpazamo kwaye bafumane amava akhoyo ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kuwo. Emva kokufunda ngamabali abanye, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba uqonde iqabane lakho kwaye uzicacisele kuwe kunokuba unokuzikhuthazeka ngezenzo kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe.
yiba kumgama ngamanye amaxesha uluncedo
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Nyamekela ubomi bakho
Ukuwa ngothando nomntu, ngoko ndifuna iingcango kuye iingcambu kwaye ndibophelele kuwe, kodwa musa ukungxama ukuyenza. Kuluntu lwethu ngoku ihamba umbono ophilayo wokuba amaqabane kwi-Union akufuneki angenele indawo nganye-funda oku. Ngamnye kuni kufuneka abe neeklasi zawo, kunqweneleka kwiofisi eyahlukileyo kwigumbi elihlukeneyo kunye nethuba lokuya kwiholide eyedwa okanye nabahlobo. Ukuba kude, unokujonga ubudlelwane ecaleni kwaye uhlalutye ukuba ujamelana nomntu. Ngaphaya koko, izinto zokuzonwabisa ezahlukeneyo kunye neendawo zomsebenzi zikuvumela ukuba ufumane ulwazi olunokutshintshwa kwaye ungadinwa lunxibelelwano. Hayi kwi-TV ye-TV ye-TV ye-TV Kandelaki ithi "Indoda yendoda ingumthombo wolwazi" - ibinzana elinobuchule kakhulu.