Umzimba wethu uphendula kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo kuthi. Nangona kunjalo, abantu abaninzi abazityesheli ezi zibonakaliso. Kwaye lilize. Umzimba usinika ukuqonda ukuba senza ntoni, ngelixa ingqondo inokuphoswa yinto. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphulaphula imiqondiso yomzimba xa sikha ubudlelwane nomntu omtsha kwaye awukakwazi ukuyifunda ngokupheleleyo.
Ngaphezu koko, umzimba uhlala uzama ukusixelela into, kodwa kwi-bustle yobomi basezidolophini, rhoqo ngokukhawuleza kwaye uzama ukusombulula iingxaki, asifane sinikele ingqalelo kuyo ...
Indalo yomntu inezinto ezintathu eziphambili:
-umzimba;
-imvakalelo;
-Ingqondo.
Umzimba uya kukuxelela ukuba ufuna le ndoda
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EBANTU, njengabo bonke abameli behlabathi lezilwanyana, izinto ezenzeka emzimbeni ziyaqhubeka. Kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba imizimba yethu ibukhali kwaye ikhawuleze iphinde iphile kwisithembiso "sedinga" esingesiseko kwabanye abantu. Namhlanje siza kubona indlela umzimba onokuthi aphakamise ngayo umfazi, indoda inyanisiwe kuye okanye hayi.
Yeyiphi imiqondiso ekufuneka iqwalaselwe?
Uhlala uyikhumbula kangaphi indoda yakho kwaye uyincume?
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Awuncumi xa uhlala wedwa
Khumbula le meko: Uxakekile yimicimbi yakho, akukho mntu uthobekileyo, ngequbuliso unenkumbulo yeentlanganiso zakho entlokweni yakho. Ukuba awuncumi kule mizuzwana, kuthetha ukuba kukho into engalunganga kulwalamano lwakho. Ungazithoba kakhulu njengoko uthanda, kodwa awuyi kuchitha umzimba wakho. Inovelwano kakhulu. Mamela imiqondiso evela ngaphandle, mhlawumbi ifanelekile ukuba ucinga ukuba ufuna olu lwalamano.
Uhlala uphelile ngokweemvakalelo
Ubudlelwane obunempilo bunika intshukumisa yamabhinqa kunye namandla. Oku kuphawuleka kakhulu ekuqaleni xa ubungabinalo ixesha lokungquba ebomini. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba awuziva ukuphakanyiswa ngokomoya, kodwa ngokuchasene noko, nangona kungabikho sizathu sokukhathalela okunjalo, kunokubangela omnye umqondiso wokuba ubudlelwane bakho abulungile.
Uyazithandabuza
Iqabane, ukuba uyamthanda ngokwenene umfazi, ekhuthaza rhoqo aze acinge ngaye njengoyena mtsalane kwaye unomdla. Ukuba uziva ngathi siphulukane nentembelo kwiimeko ababeqhele ukuzithemba kwaye sizingise, ufikile, unokwenzeka ukuba isizathu sendoda yakho enokuba inomdla wokuba ngumfazi ozithembileyo.
Zibuze ukuba ungathanda ukuchitha njani ngokuhlwa
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Sukucinga ngawe
Xa uza kwakha ubudlelwane bexesha elide nendoda, kufuneka uyikhusele ilungelo lakho lokuba ngumntu kunye nezinto onomdla kuzo. Indoda ayinalo ilungelo lokukuthintela nantoni na: unenani elilinganayo le-verti. Idini alizange libangele into elungileyo. Cinga nje ukuba bangaphi abantu abanokubakho ebomini bakho, kwaye ukuba uyaziqhelanisa nomntu wonke, awuqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo. Hlala, uzikhusele ngokuqinileyo iinkolelo zakho ukuba iqabane alinaso injongo yokungaphantsi, uya kuyithanda kuphela intembelo yakho.
Uhlala uqinisekisa ukuba yonke into ilungile
Ngaba awuhambi namhla ukuze ungaqali ukweyisela ukuchaneka kokhetho? Ngokucacileyo, unengxaki yesiqingatha sesibini. Kule meko, umzimba wakho ngokoqobo uthi make kuwe ukuba uyeke kwaye ucinge ngokuqhubeka nebali lothando.
Uya kwimvelaphi
Kukho amatyala xa umfazi eqhubeka nobuhlobo 'kwi-tick. " Ukuba, kwaye ukuba ii-kosos ezijikelezileyo azikhange zijonge. Akananzala ukuba aqhubeke nabo, basebenze kuzo. Kukho indlela elula yokujonga, "uyaphila" ubudlelwane bakho okanye hayi: Cinga nje malunga nendlela ongathanda ukuyisebenzisa ngayo ngokuhlwa-kunye okanye ngaphandle. Ukuba, ngegama elithi "kunye", ungadli nantoni na ngaphakathi, kuthetha ukuba lixesha lokuvula iphepha elitsha ebomini - kwaye sele liqabane elitsha.