Ngamanye amaxesha abantu balikhoboka lokutolikwa kokulala, ukunceda ngaphandle komxholo akulula kakhulu. Umzekelo wethu wanamhlanje usemalunga nokusasaza kwengxabano yexesha elide ngephupha lephupha, ngamanye amaxesha ukuza kuye.
Kumbambano lwamava ethu, ixesha, ngokuchasene nebinzana, alinyange, kodwa i-anesthetics encinci. Ke ngoko, abantu abadala baguqukela kwabantwana abangalunganga, abachukumisayo, bawela kuphela umbundu weNdlu. Okanye amaqabane, aqhawule umtshato abhengezwe kwiminyaka eyadlulayo, ukuhlangana kwiiholide zosapho, ngequbuliso uqale ukufumana ubudlelwane beminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo.
I-subconstal igcina iimvakalelo zethu ngaphandle kokusikelwa kunye nokuqina. Azihlali, akukho luhlobo luphi, abayi kulungelwa ngaphambi kokubonakala kolu hlobo. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukuya ekufeni kwezi mvakalelo, kuba ukulungela akuzange kuvele.
Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abadala baguqukela kubantwana abakhweleyo, abachukumisayo
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Apha ngezantsi ngumzekelo wephupha lephupha kunye namagqabaza ayo kwinto endiyibonileyo: "Ndishiya abazali bam ekhaya, kodwa ngequbuliso ndifumana i-telegraph kangangokuba ndifumana ubuntwana bam kwindlu.
Ucango lwavula utata wam, omangalisayo kangangokuba ndenza apha. Ndimxelela ukuba ndinezinto apha, kwaye undibizile. Ndiya eflethini kwaye ndibona ukuba kukho unyana wam, kodwa uneminyaka eli-18 (ebomini bakhe phantse kabini). "
Xa sathetha naye malunga noba kutheni ecinga, wayephupha, ukhumbule eso siqekembe ebomini. Wayeyithanda kakhulu utata wakhe, uninzi lwezenzo zakhe zobuntwana kunye nolutsha lwakhe lwadibana nomntu okhulileyo kunye nemvume. Wazala intombi, ekuzalweni apho wasabela ngovuyo utata wakhe ngovuyo, emva koko unyana wakhe. Kwaye apha ngokuphupha kwenzeka ngokungaqondakaliyo. Utata wakhe wayengenakukhumbula igama lomzukulwana, kwaye xa wayekhula, waqalisa ukuziphathela ngokungqongqo, ngokrwada, khetha. Kwafika kwinto yokuba intombi yakhe ibeka i-Uptimatum: Kwakhona waphinda wabhadula, imilenze yethu ayizukutyelelwa. Ndimele nditsho ukuba iphupha lithandwa kakhulu ngunyana wakhe nasebuntwaneni, kwaye ngoku. Kuyo, yayikukothusa ngokwenene ukuba utata ofumanayo akazange ahlukane nokuncanca ngayo.
Ukuze bangafumani ubudlelwane beminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo, kufuneka baphile kwaye bayeke
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Ngoku masibuyele kubuthongo. Iphupha libuyela endlwini yobutsha, apho, lo mkhulu, lothandwa nguyise. Ndifumana unyana othandekayo phaya. Mhlawumbi uzama ukugqiba ukucinga kwakhe ukuba ngumlingo ukuze ugqibezele lo mfanekiso lowo ufundisiweyo apho uz'intanda katatomkhulu ahlala khona nomzukulwana wakhe.
Kwaye mhlawumbi, ukulala ngumzamo wokwahlula amava abuhlungu kulwabiwo oluthathelwa ingqalelo phakathi kwamadoda othandana naye, ukuze kwenzeke, njengoko ingcuka ifanelekile, xa ingcuka ingabi kwisikhephe esifanayo nesi Ibhokhwe, nebhokhwe - ngeklabishi.
Imvakalelo ye-buffer kunye nemvakalelo yokugweba enyanzelekileyo kunye nokungavumi kuthando lukaTata ngenxa yothando lomama-olu lunokuba lukhetho olunzima oluzimisele ukuphelisa iminyaka engama-25 ukuya kwengama-30. Ndiyazi ukuba utata wamaphupha asweleka kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo. Kwaye mhlawumbi, ngoku iphupha laqala ukuphupha, kuquka nokwazisa ukuba olu khetho aludingi ukwenza okungakumbi kwizizathu zendalo.
Kwaye kubandakanya ukuzisola okunokubakho kunye nokukrakra kwinto endandiyenzele yona ukuze ndibetheleleke ngokukhethekileyo notata ukuba abe ngumama olungileyo kunyana wam.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba uphupha ntoni? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupha kulula kakhulu ukuveza ukuba kwileta eya kumhleli uya kubhala iimeko ezingaphambili zobomi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga zelixesha lokuvuka kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin