Nokuba isibini singekabi nabantwana, sele becinga ngendlela yokuhlela. Emva kokuba umntwana evele, ubuncinci iminyaka emine kufuneka iqale ukukhuhla intembelo kuyo.
Konke kuxhomekeke, okokuqala, ukuba, ekubeni le ndlela injalo iya kuba nefuthe elahlukileyo kubantwana abohlukeneyo. Enye into ebalulekileyo kukuthembela kubazali babo. Kumntwana, amava abazali nendlela abaziphatha ngayo kwimeko enye okanye kwenye.
Fumanisa ukuba unomdla kumntwana wakho
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Umzali ngamnye uzabalazela ukukhulisa umntwana ethembele kubuchule bakhe ukuze umntu omdala wasebenzisa esi sibonelelo ukufezekisa impumelelo.
Esona sikolo sokuqala semfundo sisikolo saphambi kwesikolo. Eli lixesha xa umntwana eqala ukujongana nobunzima bokuqala.
Kuyaziwa ukuba amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana bakhulisa ngesantya esahlukileyo. Ewe, kwaye indlela yabo yahlukile.
Obona bunzima obuphambili abajamelana nabo, kunjalo:
Uloyiko luhlala lodwa
Ukuba umshiya umntwana ebhedini nawe kwasebusaneni akho, unokuba neengxaki kwixesha elizayo, kuba kufuneka ahambe kwinkqubo yokuzazisa, ahlukaniswe nabazali. Ukuba oku akwenziwanga, umntwana akuyo nayiphi na imeko apho umama angayi kubakho khona kuya kuziva ngathi akanakukwazi ukhuseleko.
Sukuthelekisa nabanye abantwana
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Seka unxibelelwano noontanga bakho
Abantwana bahlala benenzondelelo kwabanye abantwana. Ngokuyinxenye, le ngxaki iphakama kusapho xa abazali betyhala kakhulu umntwana kwiziphumo ezitsha. Uhlala esithi efanele ukuba angabikho okokuqala, okungenani ayingowokugqibela, angabi nalinto. Qiniseka ukuba ngale ndlela, umntwana uya kukhwela kuye, kwaye ngaphandle koncedo lwengcali ongenakuyenza. Cacisela emntwaneni ukuba angayi kuhlala eyokuqala, kwaye ukuba ayinamsebenzi, yiphi indawo awayeyithatha kwindawo yokhuphiswano lwedolophu - kuba iya kuhlala ikwindawo yokuqala.
Ukugcinwa okuqinileyo kunye nolawulo lwabantwana
Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana afunde ukuzimela enkundleni ubudala. Cinga nje ukuba umntwana wakho uza kwenza ntoni, uza kuba nini umntu oneqela kwiqela le-kindergarten okanye esikolweni? Ke ngoko, zama ukunika umntwana inkululeko yokuzibonisa.
Vumela umntwana azi ukuba yeyona ilungileyo kuwe
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Ban abazali ukuze basebenze kwezigqibo
Umntwana kufuneka azi ngobuntwana ukuba unelungelo lokukhetha. Vumela ubudala obutsha bakhetha incinci, nangona kunjalo. Kule meko umntwana kuphela uya kukuqonda ukubaluleka kwayo.
Umnqweno wokucacisa ulindelwe ngabazali
Abanye abazali bayayithatha kuphela idyarho eqondakalayo nabanye abazali, kwaye abantwana babandezeleka kule meko, abangenakufanekisela ngokukhawuleza / bahle njengeVasya engummelwane. Yabantwana, imbambano yakho kunye nabanye abantu abadala ayicacanga, kubonakala ngathi ukuba abantu abadala bangonwabanga, oko kuthetha ukuba abathandi. Ukusuka apha kuphuhlisa i-neurosis kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
Ungamnceda njani umntwana
Qala nawe. Ngaba uqinisekile ngawe? Ukuba akunjalo, ke umntwana wakho uya kuba nobunzima ekwakheni.
Zama okungakumbi ukudumisa nokugxeka umntwana kwitrafi.
Nika inkululeko engakumbi ukuze umntwana angaphuhlise inkululeko
Landela into enomdla emntwaneni, kwaye ukhokele amandla ayo kwicala elifanelekileyo.
Hlonipha umntwana wakho. Makaziqhayise ngempumelelo ebalulekileyo, usazifaneleyo nembeko yakho.
Umntwana ozithembileyo uchanekile kwaye uyakhula ngokuhambelana, enze umgangatho ofanelekileyo wobomi. Ngamandla akho ukumnceda.