Sonke sifuna umntwana wakho kuphela, nangona kunjalo, engazicingeli, nceda usebenzise i-psyche encinci yomntwana. Zeziphi iimpazamo ezenza wonke umzali wesibini? Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise.
Awungqinelani
Ngokwesiqhelo, abantu abanengxaki yengqondo engazinzanga nale ngxaki, ngenxa yoko, umntwana unengxaki yomzali. Ngapha koko, abazali abaninzi bazi malunga nokuziphatha kwabo okungazinziyo, bakhetha ukubiza iimpawu zabo ezingenakuzinza "." Ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo koomama okanye utata okwimeko enjalo kukubonakaliswa kokuthantamisa, kodwa kuyanyanzeleka ukuba kwenzeke engxakini, umzali uza nomsindo kwangoko kwaye athandele umntwana, owangayo. Zilawule phambi komntwana.
Uhlisa ukuzithemba komntwana
Ukuze umntwana akhule ngovavanyo olusempilweni kwezakhono zalo, abazali kufuneka bacinge ngenyameko kuyo yonke into oza kuyithetha, kuba nebinzana elilahliweyo: "Uhlala usenza yonke into. , ngaloo ndlela kuthathwa ukuba ukholelwe ekuncedeni, kuba umama / utata ucinga njalo. Zama ukwenza unxibelelwano lwakho ngomntwana oqinisekileyo, uyalela kancinci ukuba ngequbuliso wenza impazamo.
Umntwana ozolileyo-umntwana onqabileyo
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Woyikisa umntwana
Umntwana othobelayo ungumntwana onqabileyo. Kwimeko apho umzali engazithembi ngamandla akhe, kwaye umntwana uyekile ukuthobela, kukho izoyikiso ezingazange zibe yindlela yokukhuliswa ngokukhuliswa. Esona siphumo sibi kakhulu siya kuba nexhala, uloyiko oluqhubekayo lokwenza into ayisiyo, eliya kuchaphazela ubomi bexesha elizayo lomntwana, ukuba awuguqukeli kwi-psychologist ngexesha. Zama ukufumana ezinye iindlela zokunceda ukwazi ukujamelana namandla omntwana ovuthiweyo.