Xa umntwana eqala ukusuka kuwe, iyabonakala kukuziphatha kwakhe. Isizathu sokukhuphela ubuhlobo phakathi kwezizukulwane sinokuba yingxabano, ukungaqondani kubazali, ukuthintela kunye nokuthuka umntwana kunye nokuthuka umntwana. Kwanakweso meko xa ungaziboni izizathu zolwaphulo-mthetho lweChad, esona sizathu sokwenyani sikho. Ityhila amakhadi: Siza kukuxelela ukuba zeziphi iimpawu ekufuneka uzinike ingqalelo.
Ucango oluvaliweyo lwegumbi
Ngokufikisa, abantwana bafuna kakhulu indawo. Nangona kunjalo, "i-bandwidth" ebantwaneni ingumlinganiso ocacileyo wokubeka iliso kwinani lokunxibelelana nabazali. Yinto enye ukuba ivale ucango lwangobusuku, ukuze ungaweva ingxolo, kwaye yahluke ngokupheleleyo - ifunge nabazali bam xa beza kunkqonkqoza ucango. Iipleyiti emnyango nezicelo ezingangeni okanye zimisele eminye imithetho ekhethekileyo malunga nendawo yakhe - kwakhona luphawu lokuba umntwana akoneliseki kuwe.
Ishumi elivisayo ibalulekile ukuba yenye
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Ukunqongophala kwekhaya
Xa, ngalo naliphi na ithuba, umntwana uzama ukushiya indlu, nokuba kukuhamba nabahlobo okanye ukubulawa kweprojekthi yesikolo, oku kuthetha ukuba akakhululekanga nawe. Isizathu sokuba i-quarrerels kwintsapho, ukunxibelelana nokungahloniphi, umnqweno wakho wokufundisa ukuba uphile kwaye njalo. Sombulula ingxaki yokuseka iyure engqongqo engqongqo akuyi kusebenza - umntwana uyabaleka nje endlwini. Thetha nomntwana ukuba uyamcaphukisa, okanye ucebise ukuba babelane ngeemvakalelo nge-psychologist kwiseshoni nganye.
Thetha imixholo engaqhelekanga
Umntu ngamnye kufuneka athethe: Abanye baphulukana noxinzelelo ngokungalawulekiyo, abanye, bayazi ngakumbi, thethani umphefumlo nabantu abasondeleyo. Ukuba umntwana uthetha ngemixholo ebalulekileyo kumntwana okwishumi elivisayo, emva koko uyekile ukuba ngumntu osondeleyo kuye. Ngokwesiqhelo, abantwana bayathanda ukuxoxa ngemiba yobudlelwane-ukufunxa amava abazali noontanga, bonisa imicimbi, babelane ngeemvakalelo zabo. Yiyo le nto ibonisa ukuba mntwana ukusondela komntwana kuwe, hayi into oyaziyo, ngantoni amanqaku afumanayo okanye athini na izicwangciso zakhe zomhla wakhe.
Ukungena nabahlobo
Ulutsha luthanda ukuqokelela iinkampani ezinkulu kumazandla - zihlala zikwenza xa abazali bengekho ekhaya, kodwa abaninzi abakhathali kukhokelele abahlobo abambalwa kwaye ngeentsuku zeveki. Ukuba umntwana wakho akakwenzi le nto, kuthetha ukuba ingabakhathalela uhlobo lwendlu yakho, okanye yoyika. Yabantwana, kubalulekile ukuba abazali benze umbono ofanelekileyo kubahlobo, owonyusa ngokuzenzekelayo igunya labo emehlweni oontanga. Zama ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni na ekusenokungabi njalo kuwe: Imigaqo yobomi ephelelwe lixesha, indlela engaqhelekanga yokunxiba, indlela yokuziphatha engalawulekiyo kwaye njalo. Isizathu sihlala, eyona nto iphambili kukuyifumana.
Ulutsha aluyi kulungisa amathuba okuhlangana nabahlobo
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Ingxelo yeFrank
Abanye abantwana abakhathali ukuchaza iimvakalelo zabo ekuhleni. Banokuthi bangakulungelanga ukuxoxa nawe ngesihloko esicetywayo sengxoxo, okanye singawuhoyi umbuzo konke konke - ukubonisa ukuba bajonga inqaku elinye kwaye kukho into enomdla. Akufuneki ukhutyekisiwe kwaye ulungiselele iilokhwe malunga noku, unyanzela umntwana ukuba anikele ingqalelo kuwe. Igunya liqulethe iminyaka, kwaye ingeyiyo i-quarrerels ezimbalwa, yento engathethekiyo, kodwa ungazisi. Vumela umntwana inkululeko yokuzikhethela kunye nezenzo ukuze akwazi ukubona xa efuna ukuza kwingcebiso yakho.