1. Malunga nobuqhophololo
Ngokwenyani, andinguye rushelen. Andoyiki iintombi zam ngomsindo. Kwaye zonke azinazintloni zokubonisa ukuba mna, ngokoluvo lwabo, ndenze into engalunganga.
Ndiyazithemba ngenxa yokuba ndikhulele emazantsi eJersey entsha. Kukho amakhulu abafana abajijekileyo ngamagama "eJersey South. Hlalani kuphela. "
Andoyiki uhlobo lwegazi. Ngapha koko, emva kwefayili ye "ntongo enamandla", andizamkeli esipilini ixesha elithile ukuba akukho zibazo kum.
Ndicinga ukuba ndingagcina umhlaba kwakhona oneminyaka emihlanu okanye wesithandathu. Ke, mhlawumbi, kuya kufuneka udlulisele lo msebenzi kuJason Steith.
Ngamaxesha amaninzi, ngendima, ndenza into embi, ndidubula umntu. Ke ngoko, ngakumbi iindlela yimifanekiso enqabileyo apho iqhawe lam lihlala khona ukubambisa intombazana.
2. Ngobuqaqawuli
Ndihlala ndimangalisiwe - Ngubani ophi ubomi abaninzi? Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndiyakhumbula ukuba ndim - enye yazo ...
"Oscar"? Andizange ndibe nexesha elaneleyo lokuthuthumbisa iingcinga zam ezivela uthotho "kodwa kule ndima ndiyifanelwe kukutyunjwa."
Nje ukuba ndicinge ukuba kwisibini somsebenzi womdlali weqonga, kunokwenzeka ukuba senze izicelo eluntwini malunga nantoni na. Mhlawumbi, ndiluphele okanye ndifumana amanqaku angummangaliso, kodwa ngoku ndiqinisekile ukuba kufuneka ukwazi ukoyisa ekukhanyeleni. Ebomini, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umamele.
Ndizama kakhulu ukususa isohlwayo kubomi bam, ngakumbi ikhethe. Kunzima kakhulu, kodwa ndifuna ukuphila ngaphandle kwakhe.
Yonke imihla ndisebenza ngokungaziphathi kakuhle kwaye ukuthandwa kwayo kubaluleke kakhulu. Ndaba nethamsanqa lokuba inani elikhulu labahlobo bam abayindicenga kulo msebenzi.
Impandla-Indlela yeNkosi indibonise ukuba ndingumntu olula.
3. Ngokuphathelele umtshato neentombi
Umtshato uhlala udlula kumaxesha okutsala kunye nokusilela. Uyigadi apho kufuneka ekhathalele kwaye apho kungabikho ndawo ikratshi lakhe.
Xa ucinga malunga nokuba ungalufumana phi uthando lwalo lonke ubomi bakho, phantse ungaze ucinge ukuba abanye abantu baqhele ukuba balungele le ndima. Ihlala ibonakala ngathi olu luthando luseza kudibana.
Into ephambili eluthandweni luhlobo.
Umfazi uvile kum kwibinzana elithi "Ndiyakuthanda!" Amaxesha amaxesha, kodwa akazange akuve "uxolo, ndiphosakele."
Ndinebhongo ngendima katata ngaphezulu komsebenzi womdlali weqonga. Xa kungekho lusapho ecaleni kwam, andizukunyamezeleka ngokupheleleyo.
Ndiyazi ngamava ukuba iintsana zinemvakalelo yokuhlekisa, ngendlela, intle kakhulu. Intombi yam yokugqibela yabadala ihambahamba iya kubanika iingxaki.
Iintombi zam ezikhulileyo zajika zaba ngabafazi abancinci. Xa babekwishumi elivisayo, ndandiqinisekile ukuba baginye.
4. Malunga nabafazi
Ndandinethamsanqa - emsebenzini kufuneka ubonise uthando kunye nabafazi endingatshatanga. Kwaye umfazi akawisi emgceni.
Abafazi kufuneka babe ngamandla - kum, kuba amabhinqa makabonga abongameli kuwo onke amazwe. Akukho bantu kunye nabo ukuba bathelekise-sikrwada kuphela ebomini, sizijikelezile.
Kudala ndiqonde ukuba abafazi banobuchule kunathi. Kufutshane nezidalwa zabasetyhini, ndihlala ndiziva ndikhuselekile.
Olona hlobo lubalaseleyo lomhla wokuqala ngalo, emva kwemizuzu elishumi uyaqonda ukuba akukho nto yenzekayo, kodwa awukwazi ukubaleka.
5. Malunga nexesha
Okwesihlandlo sokuqala ebomini, ndacinga ngokufa, ndibona inkqubo yokuzalwa kwentombi yam yamalungu.
Asinakutshintsha ixesha elidlulileyo, kodwa andikwazi ukuphinda iimpazamo zakhe.
Ungaze uzisole ngexesha elidlulileyo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kunzima ukufumanisa ukuba le nto uyiyolayo, ngenxa yokonwaba?
Ngokoluvo lwam, bonke abantu nangaliphi na ixesha baziva begqibelele iminyaka engamashumi amabini anesihlanu.
Akukaziwa ukuba njani kwaye phi ke siza kuhlala phi ngo-2040 - mhlawumbi ngelo xesha kuya kubakho imfuneko yabadlali abathathu abantwana, kwaye ndiza kuba njalo?
Maria hlenkonse