Bonke, ngokupheleleyo bonke abantu bafumaneka kwizinto zabo ezisengozini. Kodwa abafazi namadoda bahluke kakhulu. Ukuba simalunga nobunzima babasetyhini, maneneni, ngayo yonke into ayaziwa, ayinguye wonke umntu oqondakalayo ngabantu. Umgangatho oyindoda uviwe, akaxhahli "phambi kwesipili, musa ukukhalaza ngobomi. Ewe, kwaye akamkelwanga ngandlela thile ukuba athethe malunga nezinto zawo. Indoda ihlala ifuna ukuzinikezela njengomntu ozithembayo ongenakuba. Kodwa zinjalo.
Eyokuqala apho - Ukunqongophala kwendoda . Kuyo nayiphi na indoda, kubalulekile ukuba uve amandla amadoda, amandla, ukuzithemba. Ubudoda ngumqondo omiselweyo weempawu ezimiselwa kwindoda yendoda. Njengokwenza izigqibo, uxanduva, ubuchule, ukuqiniseka, ubukrelekrele, ubukrelekrele, ubuchule, ubuchule, ukuba bangazivanga ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba akukho mpawu, iintsomi zivela ekuswelekeni kwendoda.
Amandla omzimba kunye nefom . Ewe ewe ewe. Kungenxa yoko le nto, abantu abaselula abaninzi baqala ukuhamba kwizikolo ezinqamlezileyo, izitulo ezifanelekileyo kunye newotshi exhonywe phezu kwendawo. Ukujonga ngakumbi, kunye "ne-cusfley" iityhubhu zemithombo yeendaba, ezinkulu neziqinileyo zibuyele izandla kwaye ziqinile izandla kwaye ziqinile. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, itsala abafazi kakhulu. Ngenxa yoko, abo bangenalo iifom kunye namandla anzima kakhulu, bezama ukulungisa isikhundla sabo ngandlela zonke.
Icandelo lempahla. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba indoda ingumntu omncinci. Esekunyeni ukutya kwehlathi, umlilo wadla, umlilo, owakhelwe ekhaya. Okwangoku, yonke into itshintshile, kodwa imisebenzi ngokubanzi yahlala injalo. Indoda imbiwe. Kubalulekile ukuba akwazi ukwenza imali, kunye nekamva ukubonelela usapho lwakho ukuba uza kuba yeyona nkxaso iphambili. Indoda iyayiqonda ngokugqibeleleyo le nto kwaye izama ukufezekisa umvuzo ofanelekileyo. Ukuba ngesizathu esithile asisebenzi, kuvelakala.
Imeko yoluntu. Kwindoda, ayisiyo kuphela umvuzo ongabalulekanga, kodwa neendlela zengeniso yakhe. Amadoda amasebenzi, ukuphunyezwa kwayo, imeko yayo. Kubalulekile ukuba ube nendawo enzima eluntwini, phakathi kwabantu bomsebenzi wakhe. Nawuphi na umntu oya kufuna le lungiselelo ukuze azive eqinisekile, azive ukubaluleka kwabo.
Ubudoda. Kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba abantu basetyhini bahlala ngaphezulu kakhulu kangangokuba kunzima ngembonakalo. Ukuphakama ngaphezulu, ngenxa yokuba bafuna ukunikela ingqalelo kwaye bathandane namadoda, njengoko uyazi, thanda amehlo ethu. " Kodwa xa kufikwa kumzimba osondela emzimbeni, indoda ibaluleke kakhulu ukuba ingabethi ubuso. Inqaku alikho nokuba sisixa "sesidima sabesilisa", kodwa kukukwazi ukuhambisa umfazi owonwabileyo. Iya kutyala onke amandla akhe, uthando kunye nokuthantamisa kwezesondo ukuze ifumane imvume kumfazi othandekayo. Kwaye oku kuvunywa kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba kukho iingxaki kulo mhlaba, indoda ingabavunyelwa kakhulu.
Ukulahla. Elesibini, ayisiyomithetho echanekileyo ithi: Indoda ifanele ihlangane kuqala, tsalela umnxeba kuqala, bhala owokuqala, bhala eyokuqala, ngokubanzi, thatha inyathelo lokuqala. Kodwa thina, bafazi, bahlala benqabile, bengakhange bacinge ukuba bunokuba yindoda ebikayintoni na loo mzuzu. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngobunzulu, nabani na osoyikayo ukugatywa, ngaphandle kokukwesini. Amadoda amaninzi ahlala ebonisa inyathelo lakhe, uqhelisele - kwaye rhoqo afumane ukusilela. Ngapha koko, kubo, kunye nabasetyhini, kunokuba nzima ukuhlanganisana neengcinga, thatha intando yenqindi kwaye uqalise ukusebenza. Kwaye xa into yokuthuthuzeleka kwakho iyala - ubuncinci ingathandekiyo, njengeyona nto iphambili. Kwaye zingaphi ezi ngokohlakeleyo, ngamanye amaxesha zibambile kakhulu, kwingxelo yamadoda. Ngenxa yoko, ukwala yingxaki enkulu, amadoda ayayoyika kwaye entsonkothileyo, ukuba oku kuyenzeka rhoqo.
Ingxaki yokubaphakathi kweminyaka. Eli xesha linzima kubo bobabini abafazi kunye namadoda. Uqala ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kukholelwa ukuba kuluhlu ukusuka kwiminyaka engama-35 ukuya kwengama-50. Amadoda ayoyika la manani kwangaphambili, kuba bayaziqonda: kuyakufuneka zisukele iziphumo ezithile, mhlawumbi kukho into ethile yokutshintsha kakhulu into, ukuphosa into, kunye nokuqalisa into. Esi ayisosintsokothisi ngokupheleleyo kwifom emsulwa, endaweni yoko, uloyiko lweminyaka eqolileyo. Ukoyikwa kokwaluphala ukuphulukana nomdla kubafazi, uloyiko lokuba lungafunwanga kulo msebenzi. Kwindlela yokuphila yexesha elithile emadodeni anokukhulisa kakhulu.
Njengoko ubona, kwaye umhlaba owomeleleyo unobuthathaka bayo. Nangona kunjalo, bayazi ngokuchanekileyo ukuba bazifihla njani kwaye abanike abafazi ukuba bavumele iingcinga malunga nezinye "zentsomi". Thanda amadoda akho, emva koko izinto ezikhoyo azisoze zivele.