I-PACINIC ichazwa njenge-simator yokufa, kuba iifom zayo eziqingqiweyo zingathathi ntweni. Kuyinyani, ufe ngaphandle komngcipheko. Ngokuqwalaselwa ngononophelo koyiko, kujongeka ngathi kukusebenza owenziwa ngumlawuli odumileyo yi-subconsion. Luyintoni umbono wale nkqubo?
"Andikwazi ukumelana!". Ngaba unyango lusebenza njani?
Sebenzisa igosa lentombazana. Ukuhlaselwa kukothuka. Isifo sokuxilonga sabekwa kwikliniki, imbali yokuhluzwa nzima kumfana osemncinci ngo-Eva womtshato kubonisiwe. Indlela yeengcinga athi: "Ngenxa yento endinayo", "andiyi kusinda." Kukho ulwazi malunga nabazali. Utata wayengugqirha wesithili ngezinto eziziqinileyo, kwaye umama ungumntu ogulayo ogulayo odidekile emthandazweni. Ngaphambi kweseshoni, isigulana sam sigqibe imiyalelo ngokungathandabuzekiyo: Ukhokelele kwidayari, apho uxhulumaniso lwalulandelwa kwimo yonxantathu ". Ndifumene izimvo eziphambili: "Ukuba ubuncinci andiqinisekanga ngomda, ndisoyika ukwenza inyathelo elitsha," "andisokuze ndivumele ndihleke ngam."
Ngokubanzi, idatha eyimfuneko yokuqalisa kweRetroli yanele, ke loo mfanekiso walandelayo wavulwa kwiseshoni yokuqala: Kwiminyaka engama-20, owayekade egculelwe. Ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yemvakalelo eqaqambileyo yokungancedi, wafumana uthotho lweengcikivo zikaMoya 'wazisa ulonwabo ". Kwiminyaka eli-15, abantu abasondeleyo (udade bomama) baphanga abazali ngenxa yemeko yonke. Waqala ukudela ngokuthamba kwaye wonke umntu. Ndifungile ukuba kuyakubakho enye into eya kuba nakho ukufezekisa ukonwaba "nangayiphi na indleko." Kwiminyaka eyi-6, enye kwilali ye-rustic indlela yashiywa ixesha elide, apho ihagu ijonge khona. Ukoyikeka okuqinileyo. Ngokuchasene nale meko, utat'omkhulu wakhokelela umzukulwana ngoKhlev, ukubonisa ukuba iihagu zitya njani isidumbu somkhondo. Ufakelo lokuziphatha luvakalise into enje: "Ke abantu beza nezizwe ezibuthathaka." Ngaphantsi konyaka-qinile ijoni "njengejoni", elishiya isikhafu sobomi. Ngaphambi kokuba isikolo soyike ukulala, kuba ngalo lonke ixesha ajonge "ukuphefumla okanye hayi."
Ngoncedo lokungafuneki, uxinzelelo lweemvakalelo lwasuswa, iinxalenye zazivezwe zivunyelwe ukufumanisa umfanekiso kunye nendima kamama. Wayengumfazi onzima, ehlala efihla i-plump engakholelwayo kumandla akhe. Ukusuka apha zonke iindlela zobuchule zohlobo "kuko konke ukuthanda kukaThixo", umnqweno wokuphepha ukungqubana, ukulungela ukuthwala, uthuli, njl njl.
Ukujonga umama wakho wehadi, intombazana yaqalisa ukuphatha i-hystericals ngediliya, ukuvavanya abafazi bobuqhetseba babantu, bengavumeli iimpazamo kwaye bangavumeli iimpazamo kwaye bangavumeli iimpazamo kwaye bangavumeli iimpazamo kwaye ungayidlulisi kwabanye. Ngokubanzi, njengokuphindezela kukanina, isigulana sam sazibalelwa ngokupheleleyo, kwaye sisoyika, samsindisa kwiiseshoni ezine, sidlulile kwimixokelelwane yonke. Ngenxa yoko, impilo-ntle ichithwe, imiqondiso yokoyika ayibonwanga.
"Kufuneka ulawule yonke into!". Unyango lwe-hypnosis kunye nonyango olunemvakalelo
Vala amehlo akho kwaye uqale ukuphefumla njengoko kuhlaselo. Musa ukoyika, ndisondele kwaye ndinganceda. Yongeza ubukhulu kabini. Khumbula ii-shimics ze-shudders, ezivavanya ngexesha lokuhlaselwa. Unokuzama. Inhale ngokukhawuleza kwaye kabukhali. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba yawa, ukuba inkohliso iqala ukukhula, zama ukuphefumla kwisingqisho sengcinga entloko.
Le nguqulo yeendlela zobuchule zibandakanya ukuqiniswa kokwenzakala. Ukungaphantsi kwengqondo kucwangcisiwe ukuba iplanga yendlela yokuziphatha ephuhlisiweyo iya kuhlala ivuliwe. Umzekelo, inkwenkwe iyantywila ukuze ingashiyi iibhloko zamanzi eziphefumlelweyo. Kwixa elizayo, le ngcaciso imbonakalo iya kukhuthaza ukuhlaselwa kokuqesha ukuba imeko iza kusongelwa ngendlela efanayo. Iingxaki ezinjalo zikhokelela kubomi obufanayo: "Yonke into kufuneka ilawulwe." Njengommiselo, icebo libandakanya ukuphulukana nomntu omthandayo, ingozi kwaye kunjalo, eyona nto ibalulekileyo xa "pan okanye inyamalala". Umnxibelelanisi wam olandelayo wayehleli esitulweni kwaye eqhubeka nokuphendula imibuzo.
Uziva phi uxinzelelo?
Kwi-theratus yelanga. Ihlobo kwaye uphefumle nzima.
Gxila kwiingcamango "ndilahlekelwa nguMoya" okanye "Andikwazi ukuyilawula yonke into," mayibe le njongo mayibe yimbizekisweni. Phinda kwakhona kwakhona kwiinguqulelo ezahlukeneyo. Uziva ntoni?
Imbi kakhulu. I-Granderend inyibilika isifuba.
Khawufane ucinge lo mfanekiso obonakalayo. Ubona bani?
I-Hedgehog eneqela leenaliti.
Nguwuphi umnqweno?
Ndifuna ukuyisusa, yilahle.
Mxelele ngayo. Imvakalelo iyatshintsha?
Ewe, iba buhlungu kakhulu, hedgehog ngokwayo ufuna ukuhlasela.
Zama, ngokuchasene noko, ukhulula, ukukhwela. Ndixelele ukuba uyisombulule imfumba yakhe: ukuba ingaphandle nje kwe-pickly, kwaye ngaphakathi kwaye ithambile kwaye i-fluffy. Ngokubanzi, ndimnquma inyani: ulungile. I-Hedgehog iphilile?
Ewe, impikiswano ihla, i-hedgehog ijika ibe lijoni.
Khawufane ucinge ukuba eli joni nguwe. Ucinga ntoni ngehlabathi, malunga nabantu, ngawe?
Ndiyoyika. Ndimi kwi-sniffer, ukuba ndingayenzi iintshukumo ezingeyomfuneko, kuba ndisoyika ukugculelwa.
Jonga ijoni kwakhona. Nguye isiqingatha sesibini. Jonga kwaye uphefumle. Yonke imihla inzulu. Kwaye ijoni ngalo lonke ixesha likhula, likhula kwaye lingcono ukuba lingcono amazwi akho. Mxelele ukuba "ndiyakuvumela ukuba uhambe, ukulila kwaye udanise." Ithini impendulo?
Ngokumangalisayo, kodwa ndifuna okufanayo.
Ngelixa ukuhamba kweenyembezi, ukulinda. Ukuphendula ngokweemvakalelo kufuneka kwenziwe nzima. Umqondiso wento ebonakala ngathi ngezantsi kunokuba yinto yokuziphindezela - i-triggers eveliweyo. Ke apha. Umnxibelelanisi wam wazifumanisa ngokungalindelekanga xa utata waphefumlela kuye: "Cinga ikhulu ngaphambi kokuba wenze." Ungaphulukani nentloko, yonke into kufuneka ilawulwe. " Iba icacile ukuba imilenze ikhula khona. Ngokudibeneyo kunye nokwazisa malunga nento eyenzekileyo, kufikwa kuxolelo kulawulo lwezityalo zikarhulumente. Ijoni lijika laba yinkwenkwe - ndiyaqhubeka nokusebenzisa i-arsenal yonyango olufuziselayo. Ipuzzle yobuntu bomntu onxibelelana noMthetho olahlekileyo, emva koko ndicebisa ukuba ndive umzimba wam kwimeko entsha. Uqala ukuthetha ngemvakalelo yokuzola ngokunzulu kunye nokuGqibela ...
Hayi, esi sifo asitshixiswanga. Sishiywe 'ukuba sihlawule "ukuphelisa ukubandezeleka. Kuyenzeka ukuba ukuphilisa, kodwa oku kufuneka uwubuyisele wonke umfanekiso wotshintsho lwendalo, kwaye ezi ziiseshoni zokuzonwabisa. Kunzima kwaye kuyabiza. Kodwa ngenxa yokususwa kophawu, indlela yokudibanisa irejista kunye nonyango olufuziselayo kufanelekile.