"Unxweme lwentlabathi yesanti, ulwandle, elunxwemeni kukho omnye umntu, unxibelelana nam, kodwa ubukho bayo buthi bube sisithunzi. Emva kwam ngasemva kwam ecaleni kwe-cave ngohlobo lwamanqanaba. Ndizifumana ngaphakathi komnye wabo, akukho mingxunya icacileyo kuyo, ngelixa kukho ukukhanya okungachithi, womile kwaye fudumele. Ngequbuliso iba yinto eninzi kakhulu, kwaye uhlaselo lwe-Claustrophobia luqala, kufuneka ndiphume ngokukhawuleza. Ndibona i-slot engezantsi, ukusuka kwicala lolwandle, i-wave ityhutyha i-trickle kwaye iqhekeza ngokuthe chu. Ndiyadideka, njengoko ndiphumile kwintloko-intloko okanye imilenze, ukuze inganamathi. Andazi ukuba ndiphume njani, kodwa ndiselunxwemeni, ndijonga ulwandle, kwaye ndiyabanda - kwaye ndiziva ndinentiyo kuyo, akukho mntu uhlambayo. Ngaphezulu kwecala lemiqolomba - indlela yaselwandle evela kwiibhodi, eninzi kakhulu, yonke into emhlophe, ungaya kwinqanaba ngalinye ngokuvula umnyango, kwaye utshintshe iimpahla. "
Ukusuka kwiseti yeendlela zokutolika, eli phupha lisongelekile kakhulu ukusuka kwinqanaba lokujonga indlela yendlela yendalo.
Inyani yile yokuba ukusuka kwimigca yokuqala yobutho, umxholo wayo ufana nemeko yokuzalwa.
Umzekelo: Ngelizwi kum kanye kanye lo mntu, kodwa ubukho bayo bunokungabinamsebenzi, i-Insinet ... mna ngaphakathi emqolombeni, akukho mingxunya icacileyo kuyo, ikhutshiwe ukukhanya ...
Ndiva uhlaselo lwe-claustrophobia, ndikhangela indlela yokuphuma ... ndikhetha, ndikhwela phambili ngentloko okanye emilenzeni.
Ukuzalwa komntwana ngumntwana wakhe, inyathelo lokuqala lokuya kwi-autonomid
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Ukuba usana olusanda lwazi ukuba lubonisa njani iingcinga zabo, ngokuqinisekileyo into enjalo iya kuxelelwa malunga nokuzalwa kwabo. Kufana njani eli phupha lifana neendinyana zememori yamaphupha malunga namava alo. Ukuprintwa le migca, inyathelo kwingoma etyibilikayo, kuba kukho isifundo esinobuzaza esithetha ukuba ingqondo esandul 'ukuzalwa ayikaveli indawo enoxanduva lwenkumbulo yexesha elide.
Kwaye kukho iindlela ezisekwe kuncedo lwakho kubantu abaselukholweni kwinto yokuba eli mava likhunjulwa ngumntwana oqingqiweyo, ubhala ubunzima, unyamezele, unyamezele, unyamezele.
Ngokubhekele phaya, iphupha lingena kwihlabathi elingenabuhlobo, apho abantu bamhlophe. Ewe, ingeyintoni iHolo yoMama?
Ngoku lowona mbuzo uphambili. Masithi iphupha malunga nokuzalwa, kwaye njengenguqulelo ye-fantasy sithatha le ndlela. Kutheni le nto ibhinqa elikhulileyo emva kweminyaka emininzi laphupha ngala mava?
Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba iingqondo zethu zendalo iphela zicinga ngokwenqanaba. Ukuzalwa komntwana ngumntwana wakhe, inyathelo lokuqala lokuzimela. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba eli la mava livele ngokuqonda, liphendula imisebenzi yangoku kuphuhliso lwenkululeko, ingqibelelo, inkululeko. Ndibonisa isihloko esiye saphupha kwethu ngoku ngemisebenzi efana nemisebenzi yosana: xa sisenza isifo semozulu ngaphandle kweemvakalelo zabantu abadala ngaphandle kwemvakalelo yabantu abadala. Sinqwenela ithamsanqa lakhe.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba uphupha ntoni? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupha kulula kakhulu ukuveza ukuba kwileta eya kumhleli uya kubhala iimeko ezingaphambili zobomi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga zelixesha lokuvuka kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin