Ukungena ubudlelwane obutsha, sihlala sitshintsha kancinci. Kwinkqubo yokupheka, sizabalazela ukufunda indlela yokudibana kunye ngaphandle kokungathobeli rhoqo kunye nokungaqondi. Rhoqo, side sinikele imikhwa ethandwayo esithandekayo, umzekelo, zifundise ukuvala ityhubhu enezinyo.
Amadoda, ewe, azama. Uninzi lweqela labasetyhini lunciphisa imvakathi yeentlanganiso nabahlobo kwaye itshintshe i-cologne, ukuba ayithandi isiqingatha sesibini. Kodwa inani lezinto alitshintshi ngaphambili, akukho emva kokuqala kwenoveli. Mhlawumbi amadoda akhusela ngokungazi sithuba kunye nelungelo labo, nangona ngamanye amaxesha bayahlekisa, beluthanda.
Ukugcina i-nerve yakho, sicebisa ukuba ungazami ukukholisa umyeni wakho ukuba achebe iindevu okanye atshintshe iinwele. Ngelixa engafuni - ngeke akwenze. Kodwa kuya kuba nomsindo kuwe ngokuziphatha. Kuyingozi kakhulu kulwalamano kwaye kukwenze ukuba ulahle emotweni.
Kufanelekile ukuba yinyani ngeengubo zakho ezithandekayo, ezithi, njengoko ucinga, kudala lixesha lokuphelisa umhlaba. Vumela i-t-shirt yakhe yoluka kunye neefutshane ezindala zakudala kunye ne-cap. Ityala lakho alizukunika umsebenzi. Kuzo zonke ezinye iimeko, impahla entle eqiqayo ayiyi kwenzakalisa.
Kodwa wenze ntoni ngeesokisi zeentaba? I-rake. Vumelana, umxholo omncinci we-cardrobe awuxabisi imiboniso kunye nokucacisa ubudlelwane. Njengothando olufumileyo kwifilimu ethile okanye ingoma kwi-80-90s.