Asicingi mntu uya kuphikisana ukuba ukuzalwa komntwana etshintsha ubomi bomntu ngokungakhathali. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuba umntwana avele ekukhanyeni, unina kufuneka ahambe ngeli xesha linzima lokukhulelwa kwaye, angabalulekanga kangako - ukulungiselela ukuzalwa komntwana. Ewe, umzuzu wokulungiselela ukuzala abantwana uninzi lwabazali bexesha elizayo lukhetha ukungayikhathaleli, kwaye ulilize kakhulu. Namhlanje sagqiba kwelokuba senze izizathu ezine zokuba kutheni kwinqanaba lokukhulelwa okufanele ukucinga malunga nendlela eza kubanjwa ngayo eyona nkqubo ibalulekileyo.
Unobangela # 1.
Ukwazi zeziphi iinkqubo okwenzekayo emzimbeni wakho kulula kakhulu ukuhambisa kwaye ayisiyo inkqubo elula. Xa lo mfazi waqhelana, indlela athe umntwana aya kudlula ngayo kwiindlela eziqhelekileyo, ithini imeko yokulwa nokwemigaqo, akusekho nto kumgaqo wokuzalwa komntwana, oko kuyabonakala ngathi ixhobile. Ngapha koko, ayizukukhathazeka ukuba uqhelene nezinye iimazi ezizayo endaweni yoko, ngaphambi kokuba zisondele ngaphakathi kwaye uchithe iintsuku ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana ekwenzeni uxinzelelo. Vula umhlaba kwaye ufumane iimpendulo kuwe imibuzo enomdla kubafazi kwisikhundla esinye.
Fumana iimpendulo kwimibuzo nokuba ukhulelwe
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Unobangela # 2.
Awuyi kwenzakalisa ukufumana umncedisi. Njengenkxaso yengqondo kunye nawe ngokuzalwa komntwana, indoda okanye umntu wakho okanye umntu omthandayo angahamba nabani na oziva ukhululekile. Kula mzuzu usondeleyo akufuneki ukuba ungonwabi ngokweemvakalelo, kwaye ke ubuhlakani bafumana ukuthandwa. Sukuyila ingxoxo kunye nezalamane zakho zosuku lokugqibela ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana: Okokuqala, ukuzalwa kunokuqalwa ngequbuliso, kwaye okwesibini, abantu bakho abaza kuzalwa bangenzi mntu Kwindawo yakho, ke, ukubakho ngalo mzuzu kwangaphambili.
Unobangela # 3.
Yenza isigqibo sokuba uza kuzala phi. Inokwenzeka enokwenzeka, uya kukhetha isibhedlele imama, iingcali zinengxaki yokuzala ekhaya, kuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ichabuzele, kwaye ke ngoko iziko elikhethekileyo liya kuba selokuthatha Yithathe ngokungakhathali. Ukuba unesifo seendalo esingqongileyo, ziva simahla ukunxibelelana nabo ukufumana uphononongo malunga nolondolozo malunga nolondolozo: kwimicimbi enxulumene nempilo yakho kunye nempilo yakho, iingxaki azifanelekanga. Xa ukhetha ukhetho olufanelekileyo, fumanisa ukuba lo mfazi unawaphi amalungelo, ngawaphi amaxwebhu afunekayo kwiinkqubo ezithile. Ungaphoswa ngalo mzuzu.
Unobangela # 4.
Yizale kwaye yeyona nkqubo ibaluleke kakhulu, ungalibali ukuba iinyanga zokuqala zobomi kunye nosana zifuna ukulungiselela, ngakumbi ukuba uqala ukuba ngumama. Buza, loluphi uhlobo lweemveliso zokhathalelo lomntwana eziya kudinga, uya kuyifuna okokuqala, hlola ubomi obubalulekileyo bobomi obubalulekileyo kwaye ubufundise ulwazi olungathethekiyo. Kwangoko, igama lokuzalwa komntwana aliyi kuba kukukhangela iimpendulo, elithetha yonke imibuzo ebalulekileyo ekunqwenelekayo ukusombulula nangexesha lokukhulelwa.