Asingabo bonke abantu abaqondayo ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba umntu obhinqileyo ave "ndiyakuthanda", nangona kunjalo, kwaye abasetyhini kufuneka baqinisekise ukuba iqabane lakho liya kwenza ukuba iqabane lakho liza kwenza njengoko ucinga okanye luxelele abahlobo, ayifanelekanga. Siza kusixelela malunga nokuba kutheni kumgangatho owomeleleyo kunzima kakhulu ukuziphikisa kwiimvakalelo zakho.
Amadoda efihla imvakalelo
Ewe, kukho abantu abakulungele ukulala imincombo yabo ithandekayo kwaye bathethe ngothando lwabo ngosuku, kodwa ezo yunithi. Uninzi lukhethe ukuthatha umzuzu xa ukuqatshelwa kuya kuvakala, ngokwendoda, nzulu. Ukongeza, akufuneki ulibale ukuba le ndoda ihlala ifikelela kwinto ongathanda ukuchitha ixesha naye yedwa okanye uhambe kunye ngomhla, ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka uthathe inyathelo lezandla zakho.
Unazo nezinye iindlela zokubonisa iimvakalelo zabo
Ukuba iqabane lakho alikho phakathi kwendalo ethandekayo, esathetha ngaphambili, jonga, kaninzi, amadoda akhetha ukungqina iimvakalelo zabo. Mhlawumbi unomdla, ibinjani imini yakho? Okanye ngaba ihlala ikulungele ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, nokuba yeyiphi imicimbi epheleleyo? Ewe kunjalo, ndifuna ukuva umntu othandekayo wakho ukuba ajamelana nawe, nangona kunjalo, akufuneki ubhale ukuba uyaqonda ukuba le ndoda ilula ukupheka isidlo sangokuhlwa kunokuba sithethe kakuhle.
Ungayiniki kwaye uyilungiselele unyamezelo.
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Ujamelene noloyiko
Kumadoda amaninzi, uvumo eluthandweni lulingana nendawo yokuqala ukuya ekuqaleni kokuphila kunye. Ukuba ubukhona kudala, zama ukulinda nje, onokubakho, use kwinqanaba xa kufuneka ujongene, kwaye emva koko, yenza ingxelo enkulu. Landela umonde.
Ngequbuliso iimvakalelo zakhe azihambelani?
Ewe, ewe, amanye amadoda bayoyika ukuva impendulo engathandekiyo ngabo. Ngaba i-Owney yakho iyomelele kwaye iqinisekile, emphefumlweni uyaziva ukuba uyayivuyisa- ngaba uyayifumana iimvakalelo ezifanayo ngaye? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, akukho nto imbi kunekratshi elisesichengeni, ekugqibeleni lichaphazela ukuzithemba.